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LadyPact -> RE: Back and f####### confused (7/12/2009 12:33:31 PM)
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ORIGINAL: CallaFirestormBW
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i am tired and you people are as stubborn and hard headed as my children . crap !!! just so you can sleep tonight , no one here thinks that subs are doormats . we simply dont want a committment with anyone . He made a committment and it was to me . we are not poly or mormans . to extend a committment to another would be unfair and dishonest . we do not want anyone to quit thier lives to be part of ours ...why is that so freaking hard to swallow ???? when you go out to eat you look at the menu and decide what you will order ect ....you do not take the cook home .....
Ok, just to clarify terms here, what you are looking for is a -bottom-... someone who just wants a casual BDSM play relationship, and doesn't want any kind of a commitment or relationship along with it.
It sounds to me like it is an issue with the terms -you- are using, not with the things people are asking for. You've made it -very- clear that your husband has a slave, and it's you, and you're not looking for anyone to 'rock your happy marriage boat'.
I have a -huge- question... the "elephant in the room" so to speak... if your husband has a slave, and you two are, as -you've- implied, NOT poly and are already everything you need for each other, why are you out there looking for play partners anyway? What are you looking for? What kind of play? What kind of service? What are you offering if you're only offering the equivalent of a BDSM one-night-stand, and why should they pick you?
The way you're written up, I don't know -any- of the bottoms in our area who'd even consider a situation like you describe, and yours and your wife's hot-headed, snarky responses to comments on the boards certainly wouldn't entice any of the bottoms I know. (And yes, I'm familiar with dealing with bottoms. I do temporary artistic piercing, and don't have a full-time person who enjoys piercing, so that's why _I_ look... and they get the endorphin high and usually a snapshot of some incredible artwork on their bodies in exchange for an hour or so of sitting while I insert needles... usually along with some pleasant conversation and maybe even dinner and a drink (a well-fed bottom manages much better for a session of needle-work).
Dame Calla
Dame Calla
That was part of the fun in playing with these two in the early morning hours, Calla. Toying with the male and his attitude was one. Smelling the fear of the female in the minuscule even that she found more than she bargained for.
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