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RE: would you train....? - 2/20/2006 5:54:43 PM   
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Could i? yes

Would i? no way in hell.

Sorry *grin*


I am not that selfless and I don't share well. Should he require such a thing, he would be doing it without me. I must say that I am amazed by so many who would and have done so and happily. Not ashamed that I am a selfish piglet, but amazed nonetheless. Fortunately, it's not an issue for me.

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RE: would you train....? - 2/20/2006 6:06:14 PM   
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ORIGINAL: newflowers

quote:

ORIGINAL: slavejali

Could i? yes

Would i? no way in hell.

Sorry *grin*


I am not that selfless and I don't share well. Should he require such a thing, he would be doing it without me. I must say that I am amazed by so many who would and have done so and happily. Not ashamed that I am a selfish piglet, but amazed nonetheless. Fortunately, it's not an issue for me.

newflowers



It has been part of my own training, to eventually be in a position to help train someone else. A year ago i would not have been able to. Of course i also used to consider training but secretly leaving something out - you know like when you give your own wonderful and favorite recipe away? You always leave out a key spice so no one's is ever as good as yours (okay i don't really do that, LOL). But now i feel differently. And i really DO give the complete recipes out, too.

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RE: would you train....? - 2/20/2006 9:32:10 PM   
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i understand that you're saying training another is part of the relationship dynamic you have - that works for you so it is good. i don't share that way and so am not involved in such an arrangement. i don't think of it as a matter of being jealous or insecure, it is just not what i want for myself.

When i think of the time involved, i'm not sure how it could be managed. his work, my work, his kids, my kids, his dogs, my dog - geez - we have a standing going away together once a month appointment so that we can have three uninterrupted days together with no work, no phone, no offspring, or other distractions and interruptions. he's a high maintainence kind of guy, but then, i am a high maintainence kind of girl as well.

how do you manage to find time to train someone else in the midst of the day-to-day duties and activities of life?

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RE: would you train....? - 2/20/2006 10:06:02 PM   
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how do you manage to find time to train someone else in the midst of the day-to-day duties and activities of life?

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Between his busy life and my busy life, i would imagine if i ran into scheduling issues, he would prioritize them.

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