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Overconfident sub and his IQ - 7/12/2009 4:41:24 AM   
SubOfPrincess


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Status: offline 		Hi All. Is it normal when my sub, thinks he is more than me and that he has higher IQ than me ? He is acting as if he is here the one who is better than me, more important than me and with higher IQ. What would you do to solve this problem ? Thank you for your feedbacks , PRINCESS
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RE: Overconfident sub and his IQ - 7/12/2009 4:50:08 AM   
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ORIGINAL: SubOfPrincess

Hi All. Is it normal when my sub, thinks he is more than me and that he has higher IQ than me ? He is acting as if he is here the one who is better than me, more important than me and with higher IQ. What would you do to solve this problem ? Thank you for your feedbacks , PRINCESS


How I would solve the problem is irrelevant because I would not have this problem. IQ doesn't mean shit for submission or dominance.

Why are you putting up with it?

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RE: Overconfident sub and his IQ - 7/12/2009 4:56:53 AM   
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Status: offline 		I am completely in agreement with LaT--no one can MAKE you feel any certain way and when you do, it's because there is some achilles heel that someone is pinching. Evaluate your responses, his behavior and make your decisions from there.
 
BTW, that behavior overtly pushed in My face, in My house sees the door and it has in the past.

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RE: Overconfident sub and his IQ - 7/12/2009 5:58:23 AM   
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Status: offline 		Unless you feel the way he does, show him the door, and never look back.    
Ideally, a high IQ should mean you have someone fun and interesting to date and play with...    In your case, it means an *sshole trying to undermine your integrity as a human being.   M

< Message edited by FullfigRIMAAM1 -- 7/12/2009 6:00:00 AM >

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RE: Overconfident sub and his IQ - 7/12/2009 6:12:59 AM   
wingerzzz


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Status: offline 		Depends on what is actually happening.

1) He is actually acting like this then that is just some narcissists or passive aggressive behavior to manipulate. It a character flaw and only you can decide if you want to put up with it or not.

2) If he is really not doing this but you are feeling that way and there is miss communication then the issue is on you.


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RE: Overconfident sub and his IQ - 7/12/2009 6:13:21 AM   
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Diane

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RE: Overconfident sub and his IQ - 7/12/2009 6:15:44 AM   
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ORIGINAL: SubOfPrincess

Hi All. Is it normal when my sub, thinks he is more than me and that he has higher IQ than me ? He is acting as if he is here the one who is better than me, more important than me and with higher IQ. What would you do to solve this problem ? Thank you for your feedbacks , PRINCESS


Are you using his profile to post with?

At any rate, it sounds like you're not really very dominant.

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RE: Overconfident sub and his IQ - 7/12/2009 6:15:55 AM   
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What would you do to solve this problem ?
i would show his high IQ the door.

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RE: Overconfident sub and his IQ - 7/12/2009 6:18:11 AM   
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What would you do to solve this problem ?
i would show his high IQ the door.
   LOL.    M

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RE: Overconfident sub and his IQ - 7/12/2009 6:25:19 AM   
MistressNatasia


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Status: offline 		People have feelings for one reason or another, get your Domme on, don't look back, kick what you DON'T need to the curb. Show your submissive they are a dime a dozen regardless of supposed IQ.....( I say supposed due to the nature of the test being unclear to me). Show the idiot how many submissives are availible to you through email here on cm alone, THEN show him the door. Always use your own account to post and email.

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RE: Overconfident sub and his IQ - 7/12/2009 6:53:24 AM   
SubOfPrincess


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Status: offline 		Just dont answer if you have a problem bitch.

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RE: Overconfident sub and his IQ - 7/12/2009 6:56:20 AM   
SubOfPrincess


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ORIGINAL: UglyTruth

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ORIGINAL: SubOfPrincess

Hi All. Is it normal when my sub, thinks he is more than me and that he has higher IQ than me ? He is acting as if he is here the one who is better than me, more important than me and with higher IQ. What would you do to solve this problem ? Thank you for your feedbacks , PRINCESS


Are you using his profile to post with?

At any rate, it sounds like you're not really very dominant.




You are not a Domme. I can use my sub nickname and him for my post whenever i wish. So fill yourself with dildo a shut up

< Message edited by SubOfPrincess -- 7/12/2009 6:57:43 AM >

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RE: Overconfident sub and his IQ - 7/12/2009 6:57:34 AM   
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Status: offline 		Well bless your heart! Aren't you precious.

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Just because you are well educated, articulate, and can use big, fancy words, properly........does not mean you are right!

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RE: Overconfident sub and his IQ - 7/12/2009 6:58:19 AM   
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Status: offline 		I'd start with a little knife play... by cutting "stupid cunt" into his forehead before kicking his ass to the curb.

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RE: Overconfident sub and his IQ - 7/12/2009 6:59:52 AM   
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Status: offline 		Wow, "princess", for someone who came to a forum seeking advice, you sure know how to be a jerk when people give you their views.  Run along now, and go play in the sandbox with the rest of the children before Mommy comes around and washes your potty mouth out with soap.

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RE: Overconfident sub and his IQ - 7/12/2009 7:00:37 AM   
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ORIGINAL: SubOfPrincess

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ORIGINAL: UglyTruth

quote:

ORIGINAL: SubOfPrincess

Hi All. Is it normal when my sub, thinks he is more than me and that he has higher IQ than me ? He is acting as if he is here the one who is better than me, more important than me and with higher IQ. What would you do to solve this problem ? Thank you for your feedbacks , PRINCESS


Are you using his profile to post with?

At any rate, it sounds like you're not really very dominant.




You are not a Domme. I can use my sub nickname and him for my post whenever i wish. So fill yourself with dildo a shut up


It's pretty easy to act the part when there is the entire internet between the two of us. Why can't you wear the pants when it comes to your sub?

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RE: Overconfident sub and his IQ - 7/12/2009 7:01:20 AM   
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You're the dominant, why are you putting up with it?


Diane


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ORIGINAL: SubOfPrincess

Just dont answer if you have a problem bitch.


You do understand that this type of response will not garner you much helpful advice.  Her question was a valid one....you're answer speaks volumes.

ETA....of course this is assuming you were replying to the person you posted your response to.  Doesn't really matter as it was uncalled for anyway.

< Message edited by CarrieO -- 7/12/2009 7:05:36 AM >

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RE: Overconfident sub and his IQ - 7/12/2009 7:02:23 AM   
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when does school start?


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RE: Overconfident sub and his IQ - 7/12/2009 7:04:02 AM   
plushiecat


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Status: offline 		Wait wait...can we feet the trolls TO something?  Like the Killer Rabbit?  :D

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RE: Overconfident sub and his IQ - 7/12/2009 7:05:25 AM   
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ORIGINAL: SubOfPrincess
Hi All. Is it normal when my sub, thinks he is more than me and that he has higher IQ than me ? He is acting as if he is here the one who is better than me, more important than me and with higher IQ. What would you do to solve this problem ? Thank you for your feedbacks , PRINCESS
Your responses towards UglyTruth and DianaB269 are improper. I think that you would do well to show them respect.
 
As for your sub: he is undoubtedly more intelligent than you. As LaTigresse said, it doesn't mean shit.
 
On how to deal with it: pleasantly agree. Next tie him to a roof beam and use the whip on him. Do not explain yourself and do it every time he states that he is more intelligent than you. If he is truly intelligent, he will get it - eventually.

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