RedMagic1
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I've dated Asian women -- some of whom are kinkier than I am. And I'll tell you, this approach is gonna get you bupkis. Actually, it'll get you commands to send money via Western Union to Zamboanga, Philippines, to prove your true subbliness. Talk to her as though she's a woman, no race attached whatever. If you want to compliment her on her looks, say stuff like, "You have beautiful black hair," or, "Lovely eyes." Not (not not not not not) "I love your Oriental features." See her as a human being. See her as she really is. The fact that she is Asian is like winning the lottery. You got lucky. It can't be the first thing on your mind, or you'll get blown off, along with all the rest of the white guys whose idea of dating is to take a Hyundai out for a test drive, because they hear it's tighter inside.
< Message edited by RedMagic1 -- 7/12/2009 8:17:32 AM >
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