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Isnt it Great? - 7/12/2009 11:08:27 AM   
vasha


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i believe a mood change for the boards in general is in order, to that end ild like to ask the following:

how great was/is it to find that one (or more if polly) who click, and you "work" with.  to Own and Be Owned?

i know now what its like to be owned... at least from my own perspective, and its a heady rush.   belonging. acceptance.  is beyond awesome.
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RE: Isnt it Great? - 7/12/2009 11:30:31 AM   
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If you're one of the lucky ones to find that feeling, it is wonderful, yes. I loved being owned when I last had a Mistress, and that is why despite part of me wanting to give up, I have not. I am sure that one day I will find another Dom(me) that suits me and I, them. Congrats are in order to you for finding what you were looking for!

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RE: Isnt it Great? - 7/12/2009 12:39:50 PM   
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Each day that i know him, each day that passes, is better than the last.  I fall deeper in love, deeper in submission and really looking forward to what's to come.

We didn't start this out looking for or even interested in a M/s relationship, but it's where we're at and where we continue to be heading.  It's beyond great... it's fantastic.

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RE: Isnt it Great? - 7/12/2009 1:27:32 PM   
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quote:

how great was/is it to find that one

In the beginning, it sucked 99% of the time, I hated the bastard...it was that 1% though, that kept me coming back for more

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RE: Isnt it Great? - 7/12/2009 4:12:35 PM   
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I love the feeling of being owned. there are times when I wonder what I got myself into, especially when he makes what seems to be an odd request until afterwards he explains and it suddenly makes sense. I like how he's always coming up with "good" surprises too.

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RE: Isnt it Great? - 7/12/2009 4:18:15 PM   
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You used to be in kungfu movies right?

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RE: Isnt it Great? - 7/12/2009 4:24:38 PM   
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It is very, very good to confidently Own some one.
  I knew before My Primary did, and he can look back now and understand what it meant when I tild him "I accept you"


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RE: Isnt it Great? - 7/12/2009 4:48:19 PM   
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Im going to be totally honest here and I may get a real ticking off for this.
I love Stephen with all of my heart and I know that he loves me equally but our love has made us very dependable on each other. We are like identical twins, we have a sort of telepathy. I am under his skin and he is under mine but both of us fear loss. We are very open and frank with each other regarding this one feeling that taints our otherwise blissful happiness but neither of us can rid ourselves of it.


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RE: Isnt it Great? - 7/12/2009 5:02:50 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: allthatjaz

Im going to be totally honest here and I may get a real ticking off for this.
I love Stephen with all of my heart and I know that he loves me equally but our love has made us very dependable on each other. We are like identical twins, we have a sort of telepathy. I am under his skin and he is under mine but both of us fear loss. We are very open and frank with each other regarding this one feeling that taints our otherwise blissful happiness but neither of us can rid ourselves of it.


All things come to pass. Reconciling that with feelings of bliss is one of life's hardest lessons. Each and every time a relationship falls apart for me I envy those that have long term relationships. But all things pass. And we all experience death.
It's an illusion to think that anything is permanent.


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RE: Isnt it Great? - 7/12/2009 5:12:09 PM   
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YES

It is indescribably delicious.

I'm a lucky girl.

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RE: Isnt it Great? - 7/13/2009 8:31:46 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: vasha

i believe a mood change for the boards in general is in order, to that end ild like to ask the following:

how great was/is it to find that one (or more if polly) who click, and you "work" with.  to Own and Be Owned?

i know now what its like to be owned... at least from my own perspective, and its a heady rush.   belonging. acceptance.  is beyond awesome.


i am extremely blessed to be owned by Chairman. i am thankful every day for this incredible journey together.


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RE: Isnt it Great? - 7/13/2009 8:38:08 AM   
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I am incredibly proud and honored that He sees enough potential in me to even consider it.

Even more so when I do something that is natural to myself, but incredibly pleasing to Him.

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RE: Isnt it Great? - 7/13/2009 10:25:01 AM   
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Good mood changer here :-)  It is truly amazing and i never knew what i was missing until i found it in my Mistress Kaiel...it is as if i was lost for years and now have found my true calling in love and devotion and service to my beautiful Ma'am.  When submission was a fantasy and a concept to me, i could only imagine what true devotion and submission would be like - as i grew to know Ma'am, making a life change and lifestyle choice became a no-decision/decision and i have never looked back and can only look forward....i have never loved or been loved as i am now and it is truly amazing to be where i am with who i am with...

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RE: Isnt it Great? - 7/13/2009 11:05:04 AM   
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It's fantastic.  I could not believe it at first.  Then came the realization that, yes, this is really happening.  I realized it's like:  Amazing.  Awesome.  Incredible.  Warm fuzzies all over.  To belong to someone totally.....to have all of me accepted, including my submissiveness.  That was new for me.  And to know that I can, and do, trust him totally.  That is so amazing, and there is so much more that I just can't find the words to express.  I love him totally.
 

~edited for wording~

< Message edited by sweetsub1957 -- 7/13/2009 11:06:57 AM >


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RE: Isnt it Great? - 7/13/2009 11:30:57 AM   
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Great doesn't even begin to describe it... I truly thought I would never kneel again and would always live vanilla after some bad experiences, to find this absolute bliss and contentment, while not even looking for it, almost still seems too good  to be true.

So many massive warm fuzzies, floating highs, incredible acceptance, contentment, belonging, openess... grabbing all those *special* moments and just being. Existing. Happy sigh. I am so very aware of how lucky I am.

Thank you for the mood change. :)

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RE: Isnt it Great? - 7/13/2009 11:54:59 AM   
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It's a sense of pride to have her kneel at my feet.  After her bad experience she told me she'd never kneel again.  Then we had our first meet face to face, it was pretty vanilla for the most part.  Things went on, constantly talking and teasing one another, then I let slip when my b-day was, and she decided she'd come visit me again on my b-day.  After a few days she said she'd thought of the perfect b-day present, when I asked her what she said she'd wear my collar for the day. Later that night, she changed her mind and said she needed me to be her master.

And now we're both anxiously awaiting my b-day.

Needless to say, there's just not a word to describe the awe-inspiring feeling I have at owning her.

< Message edited by SnareMage85 -- 7/13/2009 11:57:20 AM >


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RE: Isnt it Great? - 7/13/2009 9:30:45 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: SnareMage85

It's a sense of pride to have her kneel at my feet. 

Needless to say, there's just not a word to describe the awe-inspiring feeling I have at owning her.


that is SO awesome!  ive love to hear from more Dominants on the matter. i know what its like from my side of the fence after all, but not well the other.  (=)

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RE: Isnt it Great? - 7/13/2009 10:01:55 PM   
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I have said many times on these boards that I am ever so proud of clip.  The fact that I have someone in My service that amazes Me the way he does, is hard to describe.  The boy absolutely fascinates Me sometimes.

I'd have to say the thing that strikes Me the most is the way he looks up at Me while he's kneeling after he's lowered his eyes.  At the first look up, I see every bit of the devotion in submission that he has for Me.  The boy doesn't have to say a word.  It's all there, in his eyes.


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