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RE: Creative Discipline - 7/13/2009 10:02:02 AM

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I think you'd best ask this question in the sub section and phrase it differently as like: what is your favorite punishment...
Personally, as an "s" type, I don't think you should have a FAVORITE punishment.

For me, just knowing he's perturbed with me works better than anything else he could come with.

Yea, I don't understand the idea that punishment is supposed to be fun. When I was living with my Mistress, I hated to screw up and was very happy with the fact that I can count on one hand the number of times I was punished in the years we lived together. Now the number of times I was played with or beat or any of the other many ways she came up with to torment me...that is a different subject. But that was play not punishment.

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RE: Creative Discipline - 7/13/2009 11:41:59 AM

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I think you'd best ask this question in the sub section and phrase it differently as like: what is your favorite punishment...
Personally, as an "s" type, I don't think you should have a FAVORITE punishment.

For me, just knowing he's perturbed with me works better than anything else he could come with.

Yea, I don't understand the idea that punishment is supposed to be fun. When I was living with my Mistress, I hated to screw up and was very happy with the fact that I can count on one hand the number of times I was punished in the years we lived together. Now the number of times I was played with or beat or any of the other many ways she came up with to torment me...that is a different subject. But that was play not punishment.

I think it is... what you call it...semantics?
Many people do not understand that one adult should feel the need to punish another adult at all ever... The whole idea is screwed... and talk about why it is difficult to understand that punishment could be fun...well i do not understand that at all... of course punishment should be fun when it is between two consenting adults.... the whole 'i am so displeased' look by the Dominant and then the shameful underdog 'oh my god i have dissappointed him' behaviour of the slave is either totally pompous or totally vanilla as i would experience it.
But everybody to their own, whateva rocks your boat...
I just prefer it all with a good dose of humor really
punishment or funishment... what's in a letter?

Op... breadcrumbs in your bra could be a good punishment for some misbehaviour too. Try to get through the day suffering that then...

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RE: Creative Discipline - 7/13/2009 2:56:17 PM

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Is this punishment or funishment? Because he could have told you to write 500 times "I will not interrupt when he is working" and that would have been punishment, as would have been to tell you to scrub the kitchen floor with an old toothbrush.

Funishment with no marks? Wider implements are less likely to leave marks than will narrower ones. Scratching, pinching, clamps etc on areas covered by a bathing suit can be effective also. As can restraints and tickling if you play that severe.

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RE: Creative Discipline - 7/13/2009 6:22:35 PM

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the whole 'i am so displeased' look by the Dominant and then the shameful underdog 'oh my god i have dissappointed him' behaviour of the slave is either totally pompous or totally vanilla as i would experience it.

Well, first off, thanks for jumping to a conclusion about how our relationship works. The whole "grounded for a week" and "no allowance" was childish.

Second. Master and I are adults who love and care for each other. I genuinely care when he's unhappy or angry...because I genuinely care about him and his happiness. (FYI, it works in the other direction, too) I want us to have a happy relationship, just as I want him to be happy with having me in his life. So, when I'm the cause of his unhappiness it bothers me. It doesn't lead to disappointed looks, being grounded, or having an allowance away. It leads to discussions about what's going on in our lives.

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RE: Creative Discipline - 7/14/2009 1:49:12 AM

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I just get hyper sometimes and keep bugging Him.
For instance, today, i kept wanting to touch Him, but my touch was light and tickled His arm. He was working on His computer and got rather irritated.

I'd get you a kitten. They're more fun to play with.

If you're not getting enough attention that's one thing and no 'punishment' is going to fix that.
If you're immature and must taunt your master to 'give' him opportunities to 'show' you he is the master you need to rethink the relationship.
If you're really that hyper and he needs his space then ask him if there is anything you can do for him to make his life easier so he will have more time for you later i.e. filing, taking out the trash, weeding the garden, polishing his shoes...

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RE: Creative Discipline - 7/14/2009 2:16:57 AM

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the whole 'i am so displeased' look by the Dominant and then the shameful underdog 'oh my god i have dissappointed him' behaviour of the slave is either totally pompous or totally vanilla as i would experience it.
Well, first off, thanks for jumping to a conclusion about how our relationship works. The whole "grounded for a week" and "no allowance" was childish.

Second. Master and I are adults who love and care for each other. I genuinely care when he's unhappy or angry...because I genuinely care about him and his happiness. (FYI, it works in the other direction, too) I want us to have a happy relationship, just as I want him to be happy with having me in his life. So, when I'm the cause of his unhappiness it bothers me. It doesn't lead to disappointed looks, being grounded, or having an allowance away. It leads to discussions about what's going on in our lives.

And for taking that personal i sentence you to put your lovely hair in two pigtails and as much make up on your face as possible (don't skimp on the lips) and stand infront of the mirror wink at yer self and ask: "Hi sexy do you fancy me?" as many times as it takes you to start laughing...

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RE: Creative Discipline - 7/14/2009 2:26:43 AM

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scrub the kitchen floor with an old toothbrush.

That brings up the grouting a treat... and i have to admit... i really wouldn't do it unless He'd make me... brill suggestion Des

I still think this question might have been better asked in the sub section... because i have yet to read any Creative Discipline idea from any Masters here... are they keeping all their ideas secret? or don't they have any?

there is hope still...maybe toture will write about using some Bastinado

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RE: Creative Discipline - 7/14/2009 4:44:20 AM

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Honestly, as a Switch, If you we annoying me by nattering away with no point, touching me annoyingly, ect. You'd be gagged and handcuffed in the corner kneeling on rice.

Trust me, that friggin works whatever side of the slash your on. I dare you to defy him after that....

*wanders off and rubbing her knees*

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