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RE: Non Kinky submission - 7/15/2009 9:46:17 PM

MeaganBlake

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I am a Domme, and I would love to have a service sub. I'm not sure whether my thinking is less vanilla than a submissives, though. I think anyone would love that opportunity.

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RE: Non Kinky submission - 7/16/2009 7:02:06 AM

nephandi

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Greetings

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I'm not really sure where this question would fit best. I'm making the wild assumption that submissive women think more like woman not involved in this lifestyle than Domme women. If this question is really ignorant or ridiculous, i apologize.

Huh??? Dominant women are not part of the BDSM lifestyle or Dominant women do not think? What do you mean here.

You post is real hard to read, I am sorry. But are you asking if pepole not in this lifestyle would want to take in a service oriented sub for non kink service. I do not know, but I suspect many would jump at the chance to get free work done, though many might find it strange. You could always try putting an add in the paper, say you enjoy doing work for women and if any woman want your free services. I would jump at the opportunity to have someone come here and clean my floors, take out my kitty litter, fix the bad board on my porch and such things, I would even throw in a home cooked meal as thanks. Hell if that sort of thing is what you want, a woman to work for just up in an add in the paper, how much can that really cost and see if anyone bites.

You might want someone to vouch for you though, many might think that a man offering such services had ulterior motives.

Good luck and I wish you well

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RE: Non Kinky submission - 7/16/2009 4:52:37 PM

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Well, I am a dominant woman and I would love to have someone come and tend to my needs with no expectations. However, I would also be enjoy a relationship with sub/slave that took care of my needs. What I can't find is a sub that is truly interested in service. I am sure they are out there, I just have found one yet.

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RE: Non Kinky submission - 7/18/2009 2:37:30 AM

Mistressbinature

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ORIGINAL: realsub2424

I'm not really sure where this question would fit best. I'm making the wild assumption that submissive women think more like woman not involved in this lifestyle than Domme women. If this question is really ignorant or ridiculous, i apologize.

I'd like to know anyone's opinion. I think that to accept someone as a sub or slave, a person needs to know a little about the this culture. But does anyone think that on a purely service oriented relationship a woman not involved in any kinky activities would enjoy having a sub. I'm just thinking about cleaning, shopping, yardwork, and other areas someone would enjoy having taken care of. If it was more acceptable and less shocking, do you think that everyday women would take on a submissive male and use him to make life easier.

I'm talking about pure theory here. A situation not involving a needy sub, or a kinky relationship. Simply a service arrangement where the woman could have her normal relationship, normal life, but have an extra person around to take care of things she didn't want to deal with.

Again, I hope this question isn't too ridiculous. I hope to hear your points of view.

Thanks

It depends on how the sub presents himself. If he presents himself as a strong man who happens to be a submissive, the lady should be fine, However if he presents himself as a whiney little bitch, there is probably going to be a problem

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