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PeonForHer -> RE: Making a sub torture himself while you watch (7/16/2009 10:20:43 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Lockit I enjoy it with a number of types of play and for a number of reasons, in person or not. It just makes me smile thinking about it! I have even taken pictures and found that added a bit of spice. hehe Got some of my new bedroom remodel with a number of mirror's. Very interesting! Mirrors! I've never seen a discussion on them here. But I can imagine they'd help a lot with forced self-torture. Hmmmm . . . .

rob425 -> RE: Making a sub torture himself while you watch (7/16/2009 4:01:57 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MsStarlett I recently purchased a Violet Wand. I was under the impression that there was something we could do with this that involved having my boy hold a rod while I zapped him. As long as he held the rod, the torture would continue. I would be VERY interested in this method of having a boy be an active participant in his discomfort. Its called a body contact probe, or body contact pad. You can hook up to your victim's body, usually a metal rod most of the time it is taped to the submissive's body in the stuff I have seen. Its called a body contact probe, or body contact pad. With that you can run your hands slightly above the body and thats where the person with the probe attached will feel the shock That process is also know as the reverse application of the violet wand Keep inmind pretty much you are removing the safety of the glass around the electrode seen with the other accessories. so attaching it with the power off would be the easiest ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- As ti the original post at hand, this type of play takes alot of will power for me to hurt myself in some ways, so as long as I see that the dominant is into it. Personally if a was a dominant in the situation I would think it is a very submissive act and they are looking to please. For me in general this hits on the fact that I am really controled by the person telling me what to do. And the fact that I know she is watching is extra turn on as I want to do my best to please

marsneedswomen -> RE: Making a sub torture himself while you watch (7/16/2009 5:59:05 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: AAkasha I have this mood I get into now and then where I want to make a guy do things to himself while I watch. I could be sitting right next to him or pacing around him, perfectly capable of doing it to him myself - but I find the fact that he's forced to cause HIMSELF discomfort to be really arousing. I may pleasure myself while I watch him, to keep him encouraged and make him feel like a sex object, or I might just sit there and watch. I may give orders to make him do it faster, harder or more painfully, or threaten to 'really' hurt him if he doesn't do it right. I'm being vague on what "it" is, because it can vary - it's whatever is most painful or uncomfortable for the man. It may be humiliating, like fucking himself with a dildo, it may be painful (like cbt or extreme nipple torture) or it might be helplessness -- fastening on his own restraints when I have the key, or snapping on the handcuffs knowing that once they are on, he isn't going anywhere. Do other femdoms enjoy making their subs do things to themselves right in front of you? Subs - does this kind of 'forced self torture' make you feel more used and helpless, and is therefore more exciting, or do you long for HER to do the things to you? Akasha More used and helpless perhaps, but controlled--definitely

strokesoncam -> RE: Making a sub torture himself while you watch (7/20/2009 8:34:19 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: AAkasha I have this mood I get into now and then where I want to make a guy do things to himself while I watch. I could be sitting right next to him or pacing around him, perfectly capable of doing it to him myself - but I find the fact that he's forced to cause HIMSELF discomfort to be really arousing. I may pleasure myself while I watch him, to keep him encouraged and make him feel like a sex object, or I might just sit there and watch. I may give orders to make him do it faster, harder or more painfully, or threaten to 'really' hurt him if he doesn't do it right. I'm being vague on what "it" is, because it can vary - it's whatever is most painful or uncomfortable for the man. It may be humiliating, like fucking himself with a dildo, it may be painful (like cbt or extreme nipple torture) or it might be helplessness -- fastening on his own restraints when I have the key, or snapping on the handcuffs knowing that once they are on, he isn't going anywhere. Do other femdoms enjoy making their subs do things to themselves right in front of you? Subs - does this kind of 'forced self torture' make you feel more used and helpless, and is therefore more exciting, or do you long for HER to do the things to you? Akasha A mistress I see feels the same way. I "get" the kink, but it doesn't do a lot for me. I do it because she tells me to obviously but for me the exciting thing is her doing it TO me. If I do it myself I can control exactly how hard or how bad it gets. It's not that I won't do it hard, it's that I have the control and that is not a turn on for me. It's the same idea with being tied up vs. not. I prefer to be tied and have both punishment and rewards administered by her :-)

HarryVanWinkle -> RE: Making a sub torture himself while you watch (8/11/2009 2:59:40 PM)
If it were doing it right in front of Her, where Ma'am's slave could see and feel the pleasure it gives Her, the energy flow would be there and he feels it would most likely be as satisfying to him as Her doing it Herself. Her slave doesn't know thats the case, just guessing. If it was on camera, or cybering, without Her physical presence near him, it would do absolutely nothing for him quote: ORIGINAL: AAkasha I have this mood I get into now and then where I want to make a guy do things to himself while I watch. I could be sitting right next to him or pacing around him, perfectly capable of doing it to him myself - but I find the fact that he's forced to cause HIMSELF discomfort to be really arousing. I may pleasure myself while I watch him, to keep him encouraged and make him feel like a sex object, or I might just sit there and watch. I may give orders to make him do it faster, harder or more painfully, or threaten to 'really' hurt him if he doesn't do it right. I'm being vague on what "it" is, because it can vary - it's whatever is most painful or uncomfortable for the man. It may be humiliating, like fucking himself with a dildo, it may be painful (like cbt or extreme nipple torture) or it might be helplessness -- fastening on his own restraints when I have the key, or snapping on the handcuffs knowing that once they are on, he isn't going anywhere. Do other femdoms enjoy making their subs do things to themselves right in front of you? Subs - does this kind of 'forced self torture' make you feel more used and helpless, and is therefore more exciting, or do you long for HER to do the things to you? Akasha

LadyJulieAnn -> RE: Making a sub torture himself while you watch (8/11/2009 3:14:03 PM)
I love doing this with my boy. Sometimes I just tell him I'm going to use him, and then make him put on an uncomfortable gag or suck a dildo or his fingers deeply, all while I masturbate with my vibrator in front of him. I also love having him stuff his mouth with a cloth or panties, while I watch.

pyroaquatic -> RE: Making a sub torture himself while you watch (8/11/2009 3:43:39 PM)
YES PLEASE MAY I HAVE ANOTHER, MISS? after reading everything that people have posted... some damn good ideas.

BalletBob -> RE: Making a sub torture himself while you watch (8/13/2009 9:11:26 PM)
I have had a Female Friend who had me do some things, since We couldn't be RT. Well it was so NICE ! I loved it, and she really enjoyed it too. I miss that kind of thing, just knowing I had to do it to myself, to PLEASE HER ! Free to be me, sub BalletBob

elegantcdgoddess -> RE: Making a sub torture himself while you watch (8/14/2009 12:44:35 AM)
i like doing it. It can be highly erotic scene. Especially when i am in my cold, aristocratic mood. Well, you dont expect me to sweat or break nail just to punish him? What i tried, and really liked, was to have someone else punished him for me. Semi-stranger, dom male, as i sit comfortably, enjoying my smoke, or drink, and on the end to leave with that person, for little chat, i mean i have to thank him for such favour.

takemenaked -> RE: Making a sub torture himself while you watch (8/15/2009 1:39:42 AM)
Degrading oneself in front of ones betters is a good way to learn humility.

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