PhoenixRed
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Hi all!
I took a break from the boards since about January. There have been a number of reasons why, both positive and negative. But that's not what this post is about. Upon my return to the boards, especially this forum, I have noticed quite a rise in the number of threads about burnout, being tired of the same old, same old topics that always seem to get started over and over. So, I thought it was good time to start more of a "feel good" kind of thread about positive things.
Background: In Jan, I dissolved the last of the D/s relationships that I had been in, the longest lasting a year. My hours at work were ridiculous, working 14+ hr overnight shifts, mostly nights and weekends with no end in sight. So, I decided to just "be" for a few months. I had also started to become more active in my local community just before that. Went to local events, even though I didn't have a sub to play with there. Wasn't really looking for one either. So, off I go to the closing event of a local group that operated one of the few "on premisis" play parties in the area. A friend came up to me and said "Hey, there's a new boy here, I already warmed him up, wanna beat him?" lol "Sure!" I said. The boy was already naked and strung up in the middle of the room. We had a short talk about yea's and nay's and we proceeded to have a great scene. I figured, great, that was fun, but that's all it was. I met him again at a social about a week later. He followed me home like a puppy, and we've been together ever since. I guess good things do sometimes happen when you least expect them! :)
Current: My dog is 14.5 yrs old. A bit over 2 weeks ago, he started having persistent seizures and "manic" episodes almost every day. It got to the point that I was scared to leave the dog alone. My mate has been going out of town for week-long trips for the last 3 weeks, so he couldn't help monitor the dog's condition. I had to start facing the reality that I may have to put my furry child down. My sub and I worked out our respective work schedules so that I went to work shortly before he got off from work. He went home, got a change of clothes, and stayed with the dog while I was at work. I stayed home most of the day while my sub was at work. There were a number of times that my sub was asleep when I came home from work, and then I was asleep when he left for work. I am so grateful that I had this wonderful man helping me to take care of my sick fur baby..I can't even tell you how much that meant to me that for 2 straight weeks, he was over at my house almost every day, helping me out. There is a happy ending for the dog, btw...we switched him to a new med (valium) and he's been seizure free for almost a week now.....back to the same old dog again!
So, to the point of this post...I really wanted to put forth a very positive experience I've had with my sub that meant a lot to me. There was no play time between us while all this was going on. It really gave me the warm fuzzies inside when I realized I can count on my sub to be there for me, whenever I need him to be.
Whether dominant or submissive, male or female, play partners or in a committed relationship...here's a thread to acknowledge, brag or whatever, about the things your partner does that just make you get those warm fuzzies. I hope there are a lot of wonderful posts about terrific people!
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RE: A positive thread.... - 
As far as relaying having had good experiences, one doesn't have to give decoded details if one is worried of dommes waiting to pounce. 
Besides, not every sub/slave that's good for one person is going to be good for the next. Also, if Domme and sub are worth much, neither will abandon or be abandoned for some kaniving vixen. If so, then it wasn't meant to last. 
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