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ORIGINAL: MsStarlett

Honestly, when I hear a sub asking to be a 24/7 live in slave right from the get go - It sounds like "Hi!  I'm a homeless bum and need a place to live."

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ORIGINAL: NakedHouseboy99

Expect to spend 95% of your time scrubbing toilets, cleaning floors, and performing all of those menial tasks that no dominant woman should have to do - and expect to be ignored by her 95% of the time.

The primary job of a 24/7 male slave is to make her life easier and more enjoyable - and most of that will entail you doing the above while she pursues areas of greater interest to her which will likely include other males she finds much more attractive and intersting than you in both a D/s and vanilla sense.

It really is all about her and not you - that is the reality of a true 24/7 male slave postion.

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ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

Put the pieces together.  His post essentially states he has had no luck finding a Domme.  His question here indicates that he's only interested in hitting his live-in goal as soon as possible.  He's not yet at the point where he's thinking of a relationship instead of a playtime situation.

All this indicates that he's had little if any RL experience.

He may have scened a few times.  But no way could he have gotten the years of experience for an Expert rating.  He's blowing smoke.

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ORIGINAL: Toppingfrmbottom

And how do you know he's not an expert in fire play, and before you say age, alone rules it out age isn't indicative on anything one way or another. Give me a more valid reason than age.

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ORIGINAL: DarkSteven



5. You claim to be an expert in all kinds of things, including fisting, whips, and fire play.  You're obviously trying to blow smoke and fake it.  Do you realize how dangerous some of those activities are if done by someone who has no clue what he's doing?  Not only are you a liar, but you don't understand the responsibility to be safe.

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ORIGINAL: NakedHouseboy99

Expect to spend 95% of your time scrubbing toilets, cleaning floors, and performing all of those menial tasks that no dominant woman should have to do - and expect to be ignored by her 95% of the time.

The primary job of a 24/7 male slave is to make her life easier and more enjoyable - and most of that will entail you doing the above while she pursues areas of greater interest to her which will likely include other males she finds much more attractive and intersting than you in both a D/s and vanilla sense.

It really is all about her and not you - that is the reality of a true 24/7 male slave postion.

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ORIGINAL: Toppingfrmbottom

You don't need to have a Domme to do activities or have years of experience. He could of been  a demo subby or he could play with someone quite regularly over a number of sessions* enough to know an expert level of this*who while not his domme was his play partner. Doubtful, but I still personally wouldn't call bullshit on someone's level of experience or not unless I knew them personally, and knew for a fact what they have or have not done. Or until I have talked to them and they have proved or dis proved their knowledge or lack of.


I did ask however and you did answer so thank you:)

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ORIGINAL: thishereboi


While you make some great points, I have to admit I have trouble with the "expert" in some of the things listed. I have been fisted many times and I find it really hard to come up with anything about it. that would rate an expert label. Now when I am on the top side of it, then I can see it being important to know a great deal about the subject. But when I am on the bottom? Sorry, but basically all you have to do is lay down and relax.

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ORIGINAL: NakedHouseboy99

Expect to spend 95% of your time scrubbing toilets, cleaning floors, and performing all of those menial tasks that no dominant woman should have to do - and expect to be ignored by her 95% of the time.

The primary job of a 24/7 male slave is to make her life easier and more enjoyable - and most of that will entail you doing the above while she pursues areas of greater interest to her which will likely include other males she finds much more attractive and intersting than you in both a D/s and vanilla sense.

It really is all about her and not you - that is the reality of a true 24/7 male slave postion.

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ORIGINAL: CatdeMedici

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ORIGINAL: NakedHouseboy99

Expect to spend 95% of your time scrubbing toilets, cleaning floors, and performing all of those menial tasks that no dominant woman should have to do - and expect to be ignored by her 95% of the time.

The primary job of a 24/7 male slave is to make her life easier and more enjoyable - and most of that will entail you doing the above while she pursues areas of greater interest to her which will likely include other males she finds much more attractive and intersting than you in both a D/s and vanilla sense.

It really is all about her and not you - that is the reality of a true 24/7 male slave postion.

Please do not speak in generalizations, it is like that in SOME Fem Dom Households but far from ALL.

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ORIGINAL: Toppingfrmbottom

I assume he's the one fisting others, but if he's not maybe he's an expert at laying there and taking it lol.

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ORIGINAL: daintydimples

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ORIGINAL: Toppingfrmbottom

I assume he's the one fisting others, but if he's not maybe he's an expert at laying there and taking it lol.

This really did make me laugh out loud!!

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ORIGINAL: LadyNTrainer

There is so much wrong here I can't even begin to articulate it all.

A 24/7 live-in D/s situation is a serious relationship and a serious commitment.  It's not quite the same, but can be very much like the D/s equivalent to marriage.  You're going to be awfully close and intimate in this situation, closer in some ways than a vanilla married couple whether or not you're having sex or sleeping in the same bed.  Relationship parameters can differ in D/s, but it's still an intensely intimate situation.

Now, would you go around randomly proposing marriage to women and complaining because nobody will marry you - using a totally classless screen name no less - and expect anyone to be even vaguely interested?  Mostly the reaction is going to be, "OMG, this guy has NO clue what ANY kind of relationship is about, let alone a 24/7 D/s relationship."  And you get kicked to the curb, in most cases about thirty seconds after they read your screen name and decide they really don't need a big pimp in the house who wants to do "69". 

So, yeah.   WTF were you thinking?  Dommes are people too, so how about working on being a decent enough human being that one of them may actually want to get to know you, form a relationship with you, and be interested in spending her life with you.  Otherwise, you're shit out of luck.  It doesn't work in real life the way it does in porno movies, where leather-clad dominatrixes are happy to grab some random dude off the street and force him into 24/7 slavery.  You need social skills and relationship skills to get another human being interested in you, and currently you are advertising loud and clear that you have neither.  That would be why you're not having any luck. 

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ORIGINAL: thishereboi



While you make some great points, I have to admit I have trouble with the "expert" in some of the things listed. I have been fisted many times and I find it really hard to come up with anything about it. that would rate an expert label. Now when I am on the top side of it, then I can see it being important to know a great deal about the subject. But when I am on the bottom? Sorry, but basically all you have to do is lay down and relax.

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ORIGINAL: LadySweetOrSour

OMG, I totally misread. I thought the name was byg gymp.

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ORIGINAL: MsStarlett

Honestly, when I hear a sub asking to be a 24/7 live in slave right from the get go - It sounds like "Hi!  I'm a homeless bum and need a place to live."

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ORIGINAL: bygpymp69

i am trying to get help i wanna be a mistresses live in slave and havent been having any luck any advice on a more efficent way to do this would be appreciated