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annababy89 -> qualities of a D? s? (7/18/2009 9:24:14 PM)
what do you think are the best qualities for a Dom to have? a Sub? excluding the desire to be dominant/submissive

DarkSteven -> RE: qualities of a D? s? (7/18/2009 10:29:30 PM)
Integrity. Doing what he or she commits to.

caelestis -> RE: qualities of a D? s? (7/18/2009 10:38:38 PM)
Honesty and respect. For both.

peppermint -> RE: qualities of a D? s? (7/18/2009 10:46:16 PM)
Wonderful sense of humor.

Esinn -> RE: qualities of a D? s? (7/18/2009 11:29:48 PM)
My what is sexy thread sort of covered this. I forget her name but she has an absolutely sexy taste in music started a what is sensual thread and there was a 3rd. I understand the uniqueness here. though. Let me go eat and get back with you.

TurboJugend -> RE: qualities of a D? s? (7/19/2009 12:41:12 AM)
for the sub Beeing her self...not playing what she thinks she needs to be

DesFIP -> RE: qualities of a D? s? (7/19/2009 6:11:15 AM)
Integrity and honor. Beyond that authenticity, if you try to play a part you will wind up failing and being resentful that you can't be yourself.

ShoreBound149 -> RE: qualities of a D? s? (7/19/2009 7:14:09 AM)
Self Awareness is a good starting point.

NihilusZero -> RE: qualities of a D? s? (7/19/2009 8:46:13 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: caelestis Honesty and respect. For both. pet I'll add: Lucidity and Commitment.

Sunnyfey -> RE: qualities of a D? s? (7/19/2009 11:04:37 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Esinn My what is sexy thread sort of covered this. I forget her name but she has an absolutely sexy taste in music started a what is sensual thread and there was a 3rd. I understand the uniqueness here. though. Let me go eat and get back with you. blushes

Sunnyfey -> RE: qualities of a D? s? (7/19/2009 11:06:39 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: NihilusZero quote: ORIGINAL: caelestis Honesty and respect. For both. pet I'll add: Lucidity and Commitment. I'll add: a talent for communication, and empathy

BoundDragon -> RE: qualities of a D? s? (7/19/2009 12:03:47 PM)
Ooooo I think it is essential for a Dom to be firm but fair and definately caring (I would hate to be with a Dom who just didn't care... it spells disaster) I think both Sub & Dom need to be respectful. Its definately a two way thing

marie2 -> RE: qualities of a D? s? (7/19/2009 12:14:32 PM)
Responsibility and accountability (maybe those are basically the same thing) are the most important attributes for both parties in any type of relationship.

Acer49 -> RE: qualities of a D? s? (8/7/2009 5:08:30 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: annababy89 what do you think are the best qualities for a Dom to have? a Sub? excluding the desire to be dominant/submissive High ethical standards, irreproachable morals, upstanding character, devotion, loyalty, humility, trustworthness, realistic exoectations, scense of commitment, flexibilty, honesty, humor, consistantcy, creativity, willingness to learn and grow, High self esteem and self worth, strong family ties, unconditional love and acceptance

windchymes -> RE: qualities of a D? s? (8/7/2009 5:10:41 PM)
The ability to be all of the above away from the computer keyboard.

Sunnyfey -> RE: qualities of a D? s? (8/7/2009 5:12:08 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: windchymes The ability to be all of the above away from the computer keyboard. Your the first, you get 20 Sunny points for that right there [:D]

LadyPact -> RE: qualities of a D? s? (8/7/2009 5:17:53 PM)
I had to dig for this one. I wrote it a couple of years ago. quote: ORIGINAL: LadyPact Only ten? If I would give a list of ten, I would surely think of an eleventh, but here goes. 1. Trustworthiness 2. Honesty 3. Integrity 4. Intelligence 5. Craving for knowledge 6. Loyalty (I know that sounds like a submissive trait, but think about it.) 7. Compassion/Empathy 8. Creativity 9. Protective 10. Sense of humor I was wrong. When I wrote the list, I didn't come up with eleven. It was easily more like fifteen that immediately popped into My head. Just another glowing example of the complexity and wonder of domination.

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