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softness -> RE: Clothing (7/22/2009 8:17:28 AM)

Right now ... I wear what I chose, but usually I will choose something that I know is pleasing. They like that I am a woman, and they enjoy me in womanly clothes. They enjoy a dress as much as they enjoy ass hugging jeans. I know which clothes they most like to see me in, but I also know they do not expect me to wear them every day. I may be the house-femme but they dont expect me to clean in high heels and stockings ... (though they might let me start some cleaning, soon the chores would be forgotten). On occassion clothes are chosen for me and I have never yet felt anything less than stunning in those clothes.

I have had every thread of my wardrobe dictated to me, and I hated it. I found that men's taste in women's clothes very swiftly reveals what they think of women. I used to be dressed like a brassy tart. Now I am dressed with elegance and class 'nough said.



GreedyTop -> RE: Clothing (7/22/2009 8:47:45 AM)

Jonnie has not ever expressed a desire to dictate what I wear.  Thank god.  My wardrobe leans almost exclusively to jeans/shorts and tshirts/tank tops.  I do OWN a few dresses, and I do sometimes actually wear them, but only for special occasions.  Heels are mostly out for me (back problems), although I do have some Stevie NIcks kinda boots that I ca wear longer than regular heels.

I think, personally, it's not so much WHAT one wears as it is HOW one wears it.   I'm not comfy in really girly stuff, and it shows.  I *am* comfy in casual wear.  I move better, and feel better, in my casual stuff.



petmonkey -> RE: Clothing (7/22/2009 8:49:03 AM)

This has actually been something of a difficulty for me.  When We're home, He'd prefer a "no pants" monkey--liking natural light in a room and living in close proximity to neighbor's prying eyes makes this uncomfortable for me. We've balanced it thus far by closing the blinds in every room but my office and a large pajama collection.

edited to answers specific OP question:

For everyday wear, He doesn't care as long as it doesn't take long to get into and out of.   i wear what feels comfortable to me which may include a dress and (every so often) heels. He'd prefer i wore tiny clothes when We went out to a rock concert or a club. As i am most comfortable in my "Marian the Gothy, Punk Rock Librarian" persona, this too has been a struggle for me.  Working my way there . . .someday.  Although, i doubt i'll ever be able to gracefully wear electrical tape over my nips, like His last sub.



Mercnbeth -> RE: Clothing (7/22/2009 9:09:13 AM)

he prefers naked...and scantily clothed if there are folks around the house who He doesn't wish to offend with blatant nudity(like His parents).
 
clothes are selected depending on public venue/weather conditions and get His approval before leaving the house.



GreedyTop -> RE: Clothing (7/22/2009 9:37:09 AM)

*ponders beth nekkid*


:: THUD :::



LillyoftheVally -> RE: Clothing (7/22/2009 9:50:46 AM)

I have dark hair now because of my ex along with some lovey outfits that he bought that I wouldn't have picked myself. Mind he only picked things that suited me, that makes sense to me. If you are going to pick clothes for someone you pick something that flatters



Loki45 -> RE: Clothing (7/22/2009 10:02:23 AM)

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ORIGINAL: SteelofUtah

andi is the kind of girl who is comfortable in an old ripped and torn Metallica T-Shirt and sweats of free flowing capri's.

I perfer her in Dresses or Skirts.

I want a girl to be girlie.

She knows I won't pick out her wardrobe but if I am not happy with what she has chosen I will send her back to get something else and she knows then it is best to pick something she knows I would approve of... a skirt or sundress never leaves me without a smile.

andi is a plain girl though she doesn't do the make-up thing doesn't paint her nails, but when she wants to be sexy she can and still without any of the above mentioned things that is what I love about her.


You and I are in total agreement on this one. Though were I to have a girl with the taste to wear a Metallica shirt, I'm sure I could compromise on what is "girlie" -- perhaps the Metallica shirt and a leather or denim skirt. [:D]

Any girl who'd willingly don a Metallica shirt *and* be "girlie" must be an amazing girl.



Loki45 -> RE: Clothing (7/22/2009 10:06:24 AM)

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ORIGINAL: ExKat

I've found that men generally prefer skirts. Although he's never really given me much direction, wearing skirts more often tends to elicit a compliment than anything else. As such, I try and wear them when I can. He does prefer heels, which tend to work well with skirts.


I agree with this as well. If I ever allowed myself to be involved again, one of the things I'd say up front is "You can wear what you're comfy in. Just be advised that if you ask me how you look and you're wearing pants, you probably won't like my answer. The only way you can expect a totally positive response to that question is to dress 'like a girl."

If a girl chooses a skirt or dress and wears it well, chances are she won't have to ask me how she looks. She'd be able to tell by the way I can't take my eyes off of her.



roland23 -> RE: Clothing (7/23/2009 6:12:25 AM)

For me, clothing is central. My subs are required to wear dresses and/or skirts and heels. Heels must be at least 3 inches high. One of my subs has really naturally gorgeous legs, amazing skin tone. She does not have to wear stockings(no pantyhose), the other one does. Access is really important. Both of my subs are long distance, I don't know how this would work 24/7.  



MasterTslave -> RE: Clothing (7/23/2009 7:22:26 AM)

Master T pickes out my clothing sometimes...but He has me pick out my own things during the week...Master goes shopping with me most of the time and ok's or veto's outfits....i would not want to look like crap for Him (or in general)-He understands that i want to look nice and expects it from me.



petmonkey -> RE: Clothing (7/23/2009 2:06:45 PM)

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ORIGINAL: softness
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I found that men's taste in women's clothes very swiftly reveals what they think of women. I used to be dressed like a brassy tart. Now I am dressed with elegance and class 'nough said.


Often true, both positive and negative.



MasterAndrew56 -> RE: Clothing (7/26/2009 11:22:42 AM)

I am with roland 23,

Clothing is central to me too, I pick the clothes and buy them, slave wears what she is told, heels must be a minimum of 3 inches, skirts no longer than 12 inches, pantyhose or hold-ups as I require.



Juliannadelion -> RE: Clothing (7/26/2009 11:30:12 AM)

Asher chooses my clothing for me.

It makes me feel loved to be in clothing he hand picked.




Aileen1968 -> RE: Clothing (7/26/2009 11:47:23 AM)

I wear whatever he tells me. Sometimes it requires a shopping trip to get what he has requested.
I've come to learn that he likes heels, stockings and skirts.



spookyfe -> RE: Clothing (7/27/2009 10:03:44 AM)

i used to be jeans t shirts but now only skirts ideally or dresses.  unless im doing somthing impracticle which hardly happens.   in tyhe house its skirt top only outside i can wear bra and knickers he likes me in stockings but the summer he allows bare legs.  i have turned feminine and girly now never used to wear make up he doesnt ask me to but ive taken to it now



cdstacyPHX -> RE: Clothing (10/25/2009 9:01:31 PM)

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ORIGINAL: MasterAndrew56

I am with roland 23,

Clothing is central to me too, I pick the clothes and buy them, slave wears what she is told, heels must be a minimum of 3 inches, skirts no longer than 12 inches, pantyhose or hold-ups as I require.


I agree with MasterAndrew56. I just do as I am told. My masters of the past would pick out all of the clothes and I would just be thankful he bought me nice panties, bras, lingerie, stockings, etc. However, this is part of my fetish, so maybe I am not the best one to answer it.



AnnaOfAramis -> RE: Clothing (10/25/2009 9:39:26 PM)

When we're home (and no one else is) then I'm naked or very close to it (like just lingerie type of stuff). When dressed, the default is skirts or dresses, stockings or crotchless tights, no panties/bras- elegant but easy access being the general rule of thumb; There are times when the daily schedule requires pants and Master will tell me then if pants are ok (ie: going to the zoo, hiking, painting the house, gardening, stuff like that). Usually He lets me decide which particular outfit meets His requirements, but every once in a while, He chooses.

anna



SubOnlyForHim -> RE: Clothing (10/25/2009 11:01:07 PM)

Sir expects to never see my clothes, they're to come off at the door.

Of course, IF W/we leave the house, i should be very nicely dressed in a short skirt, to match Sir (who always looks yummy).



devilishpixie -> RE: Clothing (10/26/2009 2:38:32 AM)

Nubian muscle allows me to pick out what I wear most of the time. He loves me comfortable unless his goal is my discomfort. lol He loves me in jeans and a t-shirt with flip flops. He has told me though that when we live together he will typically pick my clothes and around the house i will either be naked or in nothing but one of his shirts.



leadership527 -> RE: Clothing (10/26/2009 8:45:10 AM)

Carol's wardrobe is definitely HEAVILY influenced by me... the entire closet full. But what she picks on a day to day basis is, as you said, her own choice keeping my preferences in mind -- unless I get a bug up by butt and want something in particular that is.



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