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RE: The Tea Parties-- - 2/20/2006 4:06:01 AM   
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That is truly interesting, I love tea and teas but profess to know very little--I am as always impressed by you.

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RE: The Tea Parties-- - 2/20/2006 4:19:29 AM   
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That is truly interesting, I love tea and teas but profess to know very little--I am as always impressed by you.


Being of the culture that spawned the kind of event you are talking of, I must admit it seems overly ordinary to me and holds little appeal.

If I where to do something of the like it would be studying with my girl the subtletys of the Japanese tea ceremony. Now that I would find interesting.

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RE: The Tea Parties-- - 2/20/2006 8:26:24 AM   
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they had one in southern california, but sadly, right before i learned about it, it disbanded.

oh well.

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RE: The Tea Parties-- - 2/20/2006 8:30:13 AM   
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If I where to do something of the like it would be studying with my girl the subtletys of the Japanese tea ceremony. Now that I would find interesting.



hmmm, subtle music, elegant soft lighting, incense, and the boy serving Me in My favorite outfit--oh not MY outfit, MY favorite outfit on him...

<makes note to add then when I see him in April>

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RE: The Tea Parties-- - 2/20/2006 1:14:22 PM   
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The Japanese tea ceremony is kinda interesting, although I admittedly don't know much about it....the problem is, I really just don't like the actual tea much.

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RE: The Tea Parties-- - 2/20/2006 1:23:31 PM   
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But you could deal, maybe, with the hygiene issue by having them naked except for a neosteel or similar.

This would also add to the humiliation.

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they are served by their naked or semi naked submissive/slaves----



I actually always had the subs respectfully clothed.

Other than the basic issues of having naked subs handling food (I have a food safety certification so unhygenic food prep really skeeves me), there is the issue of something I experienced at a tea I went to that I did not run. While the other subs were clothed (mostly of the sissy maid variety), one male sub showed up in a leather body harness & thong kinda thing. Every time he bowed to one Lady, he basically shoved his hairy ass toward another Lady.

Talk about off-putting when you're trying to enjoy a scone and Darjeerling.





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RE: The Tea Parties-- - 2/20/2006 1:26:18 PM   
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The Japanese tea ceremony is kinda interesting, although I admittedly don't know much about it....the problem is, I really just don't like the actual tea much.


Normal tea I loathe, green tea is OK. But it is the ritualised service that realy appeals and the fact that both partys would have to learn their role, not just the server. Might make for a very good 'bonding excersise' with a new girl as well as being enjoyable in its own right

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RE: The Tea Parties-- - 2/20/2006 1:37:07 PM   
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But you could deal, maybe, with the hygiene issue by having them naked except for a neosteel or similar.

This would also add to the humiliation.



Try to get that one past the health department.

Regarding humiliation...I think there's a time to serve, and a time to play. Serving at a formal tea (IMHO) is just that - serving. It's work. The trick is to be efficient, pleasing, on top of making sure the guests all have what they need, and ultimately, as much a part of the background as possible. The focus is on allowing the Ladies to enjoy conversation and each other's company.

There's plenty of other times for play.

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RE: The Tea Parties-- - 2/20/2006 1:44:01 PM   
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neosteel


at the risk of sounding dumb, what is a neosteel?

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RE: The Tea Parties-- - 2/20/2006 1:48:55 PM   
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at the risk of sounding dumb, what is a neosteel?


It's a type of chastity belt.

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RE: The Tea Parties-- - 2/21/2006 5:33:37 PM   
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Mistress Savannah, now of Virgnia, was very interested in this topic and lucky thinks She would not mind this sub sharing notes lucky took regarding teas. Perhaps some will be interested as it is a subject which to be enjoyed, can be taken seriously (but with a light heart):

Tea Tips From Ms. Savannah

SELECTING TEAS

Loose tea is generally best.
Tea flavor comes from tea oils, which are lost when leaves are crushed too small. This is why loose tea, which has larger leaf pieces, is preferred, though specialty tea bags can be found containing whole leaves.”Orange Pekoe” is a mid-level grade (not a flavor), inferior to whole leaf or most loose teas. Loose tea also allows better water circulation during brewing.

SERVING TRADITIONS

Time
Traditional tea time is 4:00 p.m.

Service
Ceramic teapots
In one brew Your favorite
In the other have hot water so guests may also choose from a selection of teas
Sidebar of loose teas in original containers, with an interesting assortment of tea infusers (one for each potential guest)
China creamer (for milk, not cream)
Lemon slice dish (for slices, not wedges)

Place Settings
Formal cloth tablecloth
Doilies
China cups and saucers; dessert plates
Silver tea spoons, dessert spoons, dessert forks, lemon forks, spreading knives as appropriate for each guest.
Cocktail napkins

Ambience
Fresh seasonal flowers
Unobtrusive soft music, perhaps Mozart

EQUIPMENT

Tea Balls and Tea Infusers
These hold loose teas in metalic mesh ball or other usually metal (but sometimes porcelain or even plastic) device with holes, such that tea can be immersed without spilling out into the cup while steeping. Some larger infusers are used for tea pots rather than cups. Some infusers can look like strainers or permanent coffee filters. There are many different types and designs. Some like the type with a long handle. Here is a link to a site that sells and shows many different balls and infusers: http://www.herbtrader.com/tea0103-tea-strainers--infusers---tea-bags.html



FOOD ACCOMPANIMENTS

Scones
Scones and jam are the traditional tea accompaniment. Scones are best served warm and fresh, split open, and topped with either lemon curd or thick homemade jam and clotted cream (Devonshire cream or creme fraiche).

Other
Other accompaniments are generally small, light pastries or possibly finger sandwiches, served cold.


TEA ACTIVITIES

Reading tea leaves
See http://www.soyouwanna.com/site/syws/tealeaves/tealeaves.html and similar websites. Brew tea in a pot without a strainer, pour, let settle. Then sip the tea while concentrating on the object of the reading, until there is only a little liquid left. Swirl the tea clockwise three times, swirling the leaves up the sides of the cup. The shapes you discern have meanings (see http://www.soyouwanna.com/site/syws/tealeaves/tealeaves3.html). For instance, circles mean success, triangles mean good karma, letters are names of friends and relatives, an arrow is bad news in love, and many, many more. There are also ways to attach a time horizon to the prediction (http://www.soyouwanna.com/site/syws/tealeaves/tealeaves4.html). The higher the symbol is toward the rim, the more important it is.


ADVICE FOR GUESTS

Holding the cup
Pick up your cup and saucer together - holding the saucer in one hand and cup in the other. The best way to hold a tea cup is to slip your index finger through the handle, up to almost the first knuckle, then balance and secure the cup by placing your thumb on the top of the handle and allowing the bottom of the handle to rest on your middle finger. Hold the cup lightly, by the handle - your pinky doesn't have to be extended (Contrary to popular belief, the ring and pinkie fingers should not be extended, but should rest by curving gently back toward your wrist). Hold the saucer under your cup while you sip your tea (lest you should spill or dribble).

Stirring
When stirring your tea, don't make noises by clinking the sides of the cup while stirring. Gently swish the tea back and forth being careful no to touch the sides of your cup if possible. Never leave your spoon in the cup and be sure not to sip your tea from the spoon either. After stirring, place your spoon quietly on the saucer, behind the cup, on the right hand side under the handle.



RECIPES

Scones:

3 cups all-purpose flour
3 tablespoons sugar
1 tablespoon baking powder
1/4 teaspoon salt
1/2 cup chilled unsalted butter, cut into 1/4-inch pieces
1 cup raisins
3 eggs, divided
1 cup plus 1 tablespoon milk, divided

Preheat oven to 450 degrees F. Spray a large baking sheet with vegetable-oil cooking spray. In a large bowl, combine flour, sugar, baking powder, and salt. With a pastry blender or two knives, cut butter into flour mixture until particles are the size of small peas; stir in raisins. In a medium bowl, beat 2 eggs lightly with 1 cup milk. Add to flour mixture; stir just until mixed.

On a lightly floured surface, knead dough gently. Pat or roll out the dough into a circle 1/2-inch thick. Using a lightly greased and floured 3-inch biscuit cutter, cut into rounds, cutting close together to generate as few scraps as possible. Dip cutter into flour as often as necessary to keep dough from sticking. Push scraps of dough together so that edges join; firmly pinch edges with fingertips to make a partial seal. Pat this remaining dough to 1/2-inch thick; continue to cut 3-inch rounds. Space 1-inch apart onto prepared baking sheet. NOTE: When making scones, work the dough quickly and do not overmix.

In a small bowl, combine 1 egg and 1 tablespoon milk; brush onto scones. Bake 15 to 18 minutes or until golden brown. Remove from oven and serve warm.

Tips: When the scones are cool, wrap airtight and hold at room temperature for up to one day or freeze to store longer. To reheat, unwrap scones (thaw wrapped, if frozen) and place onto a baking sheet. Bake in a 350 degrees oven 8 to 10 minutes or until warm.

Yields 12 to 14 scones.


Mother's Tea Biscuits Recipe:

1 beaten egg
2/3 cup milk
2 tablespoons lemon juice
2 cups flour
1 tablespoon sugar
4 teaspoons baking powder
1/2 teaspoon baking soda
1/2 cup shortening 1

1. In measuring cup combine the first three ingredients together and set aside.
2. Measure and sift all dry ingredients into bowl.
3. Cut in shortening until the mix resembles breadcrumbs.
4. When ready to bake combine milk mixture with dry ingredients mixing lightly with a fork until just mixed.
5. Roll out 1/2 inch thick and cut with 2-inch biscuit cutter.
6. Place on lightly greased cookie sheet about 1 inch apart.
7. Sprinkle with granulated sugar.
8. Bake at 400 for 10-15 minutes till lightly browned.
9. Serve warm.

Variations:
Stir in 1 cup of raisins, or chopped nuts with dry ingredients. Use a cookie cutter to make different shapes. Skip sprinkling granulated sugar on top then when they come out of the oven drizzle icing over the tops. Decrease milk to 1/3 cup and mix in one mashed banana with the milk. Mix in candied orange peel.


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RE: The Tea Parties-- - 2/21/2006 5:49:02 PM   
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dear lucky, thank you so very much, this is awesome---and welcome to the boards---<smiles>

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RE: The Tea Parties-- - 2/21/2006 6:45:49 PM   
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Tea Balls and Tea Infusers
These hold loose teas in metalic mesh ball or other usually metal (but sometimes porcelain or even plastic) device with holes, such that tea can be immersed without spilling out into the cup while steeping. Some larger infusers are used for tea pots rather than cups. Some infusers can look like strainers or permanent coffee filters.



A note on infusers: when using full leaf for loose brewing (definately the prefered method of brewing tea), individual tea-ball type infusers basically suck. They don't allow enough room for the water to mingle with the leaves, nor do they leave enough room for the tea leaves to expand (they'll quadruple in size while brewing).

My personal prefered method is to use a drop-in basket style infuser made of plastic that fits into the mouth of the teapot and drops nearly to the bottom. Many teapot makers are making them with infusers that come with the pot these days (Republic of Tea, Chantal come to mind). It's still pretty tough to find extra baskets for those teapots that don't have them. The advantage of the drop in infuser is that it allows plenty of room for water circulation and leaf expansion, plus you can remove it when the brew is at the strength you want. If you leave the leaves in, they tend to become bitter after a little while.

Another method is to get large tea filters from a specialty store, which are sort of jumbo empty tea bags, and add your own loose tea to brew them. I always seem to detect a papery taste to the tea though, so not my fav thing to do, however, if you just want to make a cup rather than the pot, it's a good option.

Probably the *best* thing for the tea itself is to just spoon the leaves straight into the pot, then pour the tea into the cup through a tea strainer once brewed. This is completely proper tea etiquette should you chose to use this method.

A couple of web resources should you be interested in getting some loose teas:

www.adiago.com
www.theteatable.com

Adiago has a great little teapot with a drop in strainer for about $9. Chantal pots are also fairly affordable at under $20 for the smaller ones.

Republic of Tea teas are fairly widely available these days as loose, and are decent.

One of my favorite place to buy loose tea is a place in Annapolis called Alchemy Tea. They sell only organic, and have samples of the teas they sell in small jars, so you can go through and sniff them to get an idea of what you are buying. You can also just buy a cup of anything to try it. Not a bad thing as some of their teas are quite expensive.

A couple of tea trivia items:
~ All tea comes from the same plant; variations are iprimarily n geography and when the leaves are picked.
~ Herbal "tea" is not tea at all but more correctly a tisane.
~ If you are watching your caffeine but want "real" tea, you can remove most of the caffeine by pouring boiling water over the tea for about 45 seconds, pour out the water but reserve the leaves, then adding more boiling water to the leaves. Most caffeine is leached out of the tea leaves in the first 45 seconds, so you'll end up with a brew with about 25% of the original caffeine.

Now, why the heck can't I hammer out papers for my classes this easy....

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RE: The Tea Parties-- - 2/21/2006 6:46:05 PM   
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Does anyone know if we do kinky Victorian tea party’s in Britain? I have not come across them before, I want to go to one, I will start dusting off my stovepipe hat immediately.

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RE: The Tea Parties-- - 2/21/2006 7:10:03 PM   
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You might email RavnMuse off line, he is in the UK and may be able to direct you---have fun and don't spill!

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RE: The Tea Parties-- - 2/21/2006 7:56:49 PM   
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I've been online a long time (10 years) and this was one of the very first things I found when I started looking into the BDSM community on the web. I love the idea but have never been to one. Not even virtually which, really, what would be the point. So far I've only seen groups for them in California and the UK.

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RE: The Tea Parties-- - 2/21/2006 8:23:46 PM   
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I've been online a long time (10 years) and this was one of the very first things I found when I started looking into the BDSM community on the web. I love the idea but have never been to one. Not even virtually which, really, what would be the point. So far I've only seen groups for them in California and the UK.


I've gone to one at a club in Philly, and I hosted a few with some friends of mine. I've also been to a couple vanilla ones, and to some rather lovely tea room restaurants (www.teamap.com to find a local one).

The best advice always is - if no one else is doing it - start one yourself :-)

Although I'd like to get back into having them again, I'll probably do them on a smaller scale; rather than an "event", just an afternoon with friends.

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RE: The Tea Parties-- - 2/21/2006 8:37:28 PM   
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I think I may just have to host a tea-party here in QLD. ;)

*wanders off to do evil ponderings*

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RE: The Tea Parties-- - 2/21/2006 8:40:03 PM   
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I think I may just have to host a tea-party here in QLD. ;)

*wanders off to do evil ponderings*



Tea goes so well with revolution and other evil doings ;-)

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RE: The Tea Parties-- - 2/21/2006 8:48:48 PM   
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Tea goes so well with revolution and other evil doings ;-)


Why yes, yes it does. ^_^ One must remember however to not spill it on the nice carpet ;)

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