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Dooleys1981 -> dual subs (7/22/2009 9:15:24 AM)
Anyone ever been interested in subbing alongside another sub? I guess it happens but its something i've always thought about and been interested. The idea of being tied down or caged and having to watch the other suffer, only to know that soon your roles will be reversed Maybe tied together or just ordered about next to each other. Anyone had any similar experiences or interested in trying it? would be fun with even more subs

crouchingtigress -> RE: dual subs (7/22/2009 9:33:18 AM)
It depends on the scene to be honest I know that in some situations it really works for me, but in other situations like if I am in kid space playing happily with Daddy and someone else is being beaten with thier lips sewn shut, it can be jarring enough to ruin it for me. My thought would be negotiate the scene with all the parties involved. And for a little taste to see if you would like it...I would suggest, using equipment next to a scene that you really resonate with... the energy transference there can be yummy to swim in.

IronBear -> RE: dual subs (7/22/2009 10:36:08 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Dooleys1981 Anyone ever been interested in subbing alongside another sub? I guess it happens but its something i've always thought about and been interested. The idea of being tied down or caged and having to watch the other suffer, only to know that soon your roles will be reversed Maybe tied together or just ordered about next to each other. Anyone had any similar experiences or interested in trying it? would be fun with even more subs Include slaves in this mix and you will find this in a good many if not most Poly Homes. Nothing new about it anyway. It also can be experienced in swinging groups who incorporate some areas of BDSM in their bedroom frolics. I'm planning on doing this with a couple of potential play partners and whilst tied over chairs, using a flogger in each hand in a figure of eight pattern and simultaneous flogging a pair of taught naked arses..

LillyoftheVally -> RE: dual subs (7/22/2009 10:39:58 AM)
Nod's to IronBear. In many poly relationships that is indeed how it works. I know that for me there can be shifts in hierarchy depending on the mood or characteristics of the subs one may be more sadistic or dominant and that naturally surfaces.

ExKat -> RE: dual subs (7/22/2009 10:42:51 AM)
Damn, I thought this was about dueling subs. Two girls, duking it out over who gets to sleep in the bed or fetch master's coffee. Two guys with lances, riding towards each other on unicycles over the privilege of giving a pedi. Yep, I've done the dual sub thing once or twice. It was fun with even more subs. I get off on my own pain/pleasures and hers.

IronBear -> RE: dual subs (7/22/2009 2:28:49 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LillyoftheVally Nod's to IronBear. In many poly relationships that is indeed how it works. I know that for me there can be shifts in hierarchy depending on the mood or characteristics of the subs one may be more sadistic or dominant and that naturally surfaces. From Master's perspective, I find that the better I know the slaves, the easier it is to keep tabs on them, be aware of any minute changes, anticipate possible changes and why (OK period time is easy which is what calenders are made for), and thus keep on top of the situation in it's state of flux and calmness. Where things can go pear shaped is when I am laid up or back in hospital. Still neets is pretty good and can be quite the autocrat when she needs to be. By and large, I do look for and try to identify the dominant slave because she is most likely to become a person slave for me but certainly she is the top candidate for the First Girl position (Read First Girl = Housekeeper) in my home. Housekeeper being the most senior female servant.

LillyoftheVally -> RE: dual subs (7/22/2009 2:53:57 PM)
And that is what makes the difference between organisation and calmness. Things will change and in terms of poly the change is more noticeable as it will have a ripple affect on the rest of the home. Being on top of that when you can means that changes can be stemmed or encouraged. Very few social relationships are static.

Delphinus -> RE: dual subs (7/22/2009 3:07:07 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Dooleys1981 Anyone had any similar experiences or interested in trying it? would be fun with even more subs That's why I'm here. Logistically, it's not working out like I had hoped. I'm coming across more roadblocks than I expected to making it happen, but they're sensible roadblocks...I just hadn't considered them before. Perhaps one day when I'm feeling ballsy I will post and ask for advice.

MAMBOdeBEAU -> RE: dual subs (7/22/2009 3:23:30 PM)
OP: If one lives in a POLY home as the gentleman..BEAR above has said..it is an occurance in the household because it is not sessions but daily life.. So yes having had a POLY home of 5..I have "ordered about" and flogged several.. What I see from the experiance as a DOMME is simply that there is more MIND play going on so it adds to the dynamics of the day or playtime. Hearing another's squeals,kneeling side by side with asses in the air.. or being tied on a double rack has been delicious for my boys..visually and auditorily... and also for ME. MAMBO

IronBear -> RE: dual subs (7/22/2009 5:31:35 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ExKat Damn, I thought this was about dueling subs. Two girls, duking it out over who gets to sleep in the bed or fetch master's coffee. Two guys with lances, riding towards each other on unicycles over the privilege of giving a pedi. I actually thought of Duelling Subs on stage playing "*The Master Came Down To Georgia*" with pubic hairs being plucked and the rhythm being done by having a flogger in each hand and beating out the tune that way as well as a Jaws Harp to add to the effect.

newone11 -> RE: dual subs (7/22/2009 8:19:35 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: IronBear I actually thought of Duelling Subs on stage playing "*The Master Came Down To Georgia*" with pubic hairs being plucked and the rhythm being done by having a flogger in each hand and beating out the tune that way as well as a Jaws Harp to add to the effect. That's harsh. I like it. [:D]

Joseff -> RE: dual subs (7/22/2009 8:54:24 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ExKat Damn, I thought this was about dueling subs. Two girls, duking it out over who gets to sleep in the bed or fetch master's coffee. Two guys with lances, riding towards each other on unicycles over the privilege of giving a pedi. Yep, I've done the dual sub thing once or twice. It was fun with even more subs. I get off on my own pain/pleasures and hers. I like this idea, have to work on setting something up.

BalletBob -> RE: dual subs (7/22/2009 9:04:48 PM)
I done this before when MADAM had me tied next to her husband. It was neat seeing some of the things she done to him first. That is how I first tried the Riding Crop. He was enjoying it so much, I asked for it to be used on me. I have fond memories to this day ! I would love to be tied to a female sub, someday. That would be so neat. Missing the good times, Sub BalletBob

vixenmoon -> RE: dual subs (7/22/2009 9:17:05 PM)
The OP describes a scene, whereas the replies seem more geared towards polyamoury. Perhaps clarification is in order? Are you wondering about a casual scene, short term, or long term relationships?

BalletBob -> RE: dual subs (7/22/2009 9:24:31 PM)
The OP asked for Experience or Interests. I had Experience, and now have an Interest.

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