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RE: Is this treating a man as an inferior? - 7/23/2009 8:29:17 AM

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i m not violent psychopathic or deluded . im just one of many ordinary men who find Women increasingly difficult to work out thats all
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RE: Is this treating a man as an inferior? - 7/23/2009 9:27:21 AM

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She had not prior contact with me. And in any case Lady Ellen, the first principle of customer service is the customer is always ALWAYS right. That means You serve the customer no matter what save for example the customer is threatening You or has threatened You or other staff, that might be different. But outside that, and this was not the case here, there is NO excuse for not serving the customer
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RE: Is this treating a man as an inferior? - 7/23/2009 11:28:33 AM

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i m not violent psychopathic or deluded . im just one of many ordinary men who find Women increasingly difficult to work out thats all
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The Deluded aspect is HIGHLY debatable.

To believe that every woman who does not treat you exactly as you feel you should be treated is somehow a Domme, any woman who asserts herself and isn't an emotional punching bag is treating you as Inferior, to the silliest of concepts that a Woman in Boots MUST be a Domme. This is DELUSIONAL and yes does make you Deluded.

This is the Symptoms of Borderline Personality Disorder...... Many of us here see this pattern in your posts and continued nonsence and perhaps you need to look into it. OR as I suspect you find the idea of Power Dynamics to be the loss of Mental Acuity and this is the reason for your Nick Name of Lobodomslavery and that you hold contempt for people who are active and happy within them.

Either which way you need help, Perhaps you take some time and address the actual reasons why you "Honestly" think all these women are Domiant People and See if it fits into the BPD or ask yourself why you hold such contempt for people to interact with other people in a way that makes them happy and then find out what about this interaction threatens your sense of right and wrong.

Kevin either way, it isn't funny or cute and in my opinion never has been, it's insulting to many people and to those who don't see what I have in your posts it just makes you look silly. Maybe that is what you want or maybe you sit back and call all of us who interact with you Idiots for doing so when you think either so lowly of us.

I seriously hope that if they things you have posted are REAL and how you REALLY feel that you look into addressing BPD at least getting some kind of therapy for the unrealistic way you see the world and why you let people walk all over you (Most of your stories I find very hard to believe not because of them being to intense but rather because they happen to you ALL THE TIME)

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RE: Is this treating a man as an inferior? - 7/23/2009 11:32:26 AM

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She had not prior contact with me. And in any case Lady Ellen, the first principle of customer service is the customer is always ALWAYS right. That means You serve the customer no matter what save for example the customer is threatening You or has threatened You or other staff, that might be different. But outside that, and this was not the case here, there is NO excuse for not serving the customer
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This is NOT true.

I have done customer service for many years and will tell you that the customer is RARELY right and although you should attempt to always make a customer feel important, if a reasonable amount of customer service is available at the time some customers will have to accept that waiting is a natural concept of business.

The Above statement you made sure shows you think of yourself as being very self important and expect the world to service you somehow. You are not the center of their universe and I am sure they do not pay them enough to deal with people who accuse them of being a Domme if they don't lie down at your feet the moment they are in your presence.

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RE: Is this treating a man as an inferior? - 7/23/2009 11:36:21 AM

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Lobo, Why didn't you just ask for a manager and make a complaint with him or her. It would be more productive than crying in the forum section.

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RE: Is this treating a man as an inferior? - 7/23/2009 11:43:40 AM

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i m not violent psychopathic or deluded . im just one of many ordinary men who find Women increasingly difficult to work out thats all
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Ordinary? Well I've seen some posters stretching the meaning of some words but this has to be of erm... bubblegum proportions.

In fact if we could stretch money the way you stretch the meaning of the word ordinary we could eradicate poverty all over the world in the next half hour.

Kevin you're one of a kind. Really.

You appear to have headbutted the Blarney Stone a few times, but you are most definitely one of a kind.

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RE: Is this treating a man as an inferior? - 7/23/2009 11:47:40 AM

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No i just picked my handle very randomly. it had nothing to do with any of your argument. i have no contempt for anyone. i made up the handle. i know nothing about mental acuity or whatever that is. i do not have contempt at all for members of this community. on the contrary they have been my lifesaver, before getting involved here, i was very depressed, isolated and thought very little of myself, i was even suicidal. i had no friends and thought i was worthless. Now at least i have a social group to engage with
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RE: Is this treating a man as an inferior? - 7/23/2009 11:50:15 AM

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She had not prior contact with me. And in any case Lady Ellen, the first principle of customer service is the customer is always ALWAYS right.

alllrighty...

you are talking about a place that deals with DRUGS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! how fucking long do you think the pharmacist would keep his hard earned license if he agreed with you?

"Uh...excuse me...Mr Pharmacist person? I know it LOOKS like the Dr wrote this prescription for Extra Strength Gas-X but i KNOW he meant morphine. *squeezing ass cheeks together so pharmacist does not know he really needs the Gas-X*

HUH? Whadda ya mean you have to call him? Do I look like a drug addict to you??? I am the CUSTOMER, damnit *slams fist on counter to make his point. Crack pipe falls out of shirt pocket* and i am ALWAYS right!! Don't believe me, just ask Kevin. Now gimme my fucking morphine you white coated geek!!!"

And while i am at it might i add that a pharmacy deals with medications that can cause serious harm and/or kill patients if an error is made? Diligence by the staff is imperative and keeps their customers safe...even the obnoxious ones.

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RE: Is this treating a man as an inferior? - 7/23/2009 11:56:21 AM

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BS. I was in customer service and I can tell you the idea is ludicrous. She served her customer and went on to do other things, plain and simple. She smiled.. some smiles are small and not smirks! She acknowleged your presence with that smile and that was all that was required. Truthfully most customers are just faces. I never noticed one was any different from the next, the could have been a playboy bunny or peter rabbit and it would not have phased me.
She had no prior contact with you, but apparently someone else did or you would not have the drugs in hand shortly thereafter.
From your reasoning do you assume the other clerk was submissive?
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ORIGINAL: lobodomslavery

She had not prior contact with me. And in any case Lady Ellen, the first principle of customer service is the customer is always ALWAYS right. That means You serve the customer no matter what save for example the customer is threatening You or has threatened You or other staff, that might be different. But outside that, and this was not the case here, there is NO excuse for not serving the customer
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RE: Is this treating a man as an inferior? - 7/23/2009 12:09:47 PM

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lobo, you are QUITE deluded

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RE: Is this treating a man as an inferior? - 7/23/2009 12:11:52 PM

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Im going with the humiliation fetish angle
And right now Im choosing not to feed it, altho I have fallen by the wayside a few times, because wellllllll other posters comments are just too tempting.
Stella you once again rock!!
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RE: Is this treating a man as an inferior? - 7/23/2009 2:12:33 PM

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i obviously dont feed his fetish. my profile only got looked at, i didnt get a message.

Maybe he thought i had contact details for village idiot vacancies. lol

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RE: Is this treating a man as an inferior? - 7/23/2009 3:26:44 PM

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No i just picked my handle very randomly. it had nothing to do with any of your argument. i have no contempt for anyone. i made up the handle. i know nothing about mental acuity or whatever that is. i do not have contempt at all for members of this community. on the contrary they have been my lifesaver, before getting involved here, i was very depressed, isolated and thought very little of myself, i was even suicidal. i had no friends and thought i was worthless. Now at least i have a social group to engage with
kevin

See what I"m saying folks...

This is why treading carefully about this fellow is not a bad idea...

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RE: Is this treating a man as an inferior? - 7/23/2009 3:52:11 PM

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At first I thought sub frenzy, but he may indeed be a slave as he indicates on his profile. (Your video presentation is not interesting, lo: you keep your hand before your mouth, say nothing and the whole presentation is about one second in length.)

I recommend that you start a journal. I also recommend that you acquire some professional skills. Perhaps you can train to be a secretary?

All you show in your profile now is kink oriented and about what you want. A mistress is barely or not interested in such things, unless she is a bad egg.

What are your professional, your hobby, your intellectual interests? If you cannot tell who you are, then tell what you are, what your function is. A slave is like an unattached organ of his mistress. Organs have functions. Perhaps you will say: A slave can be anything that he is commanded to be, can be trained to be anything a mistress wants. That may be true, but it is not good enough.

Have you ever been to a munch? (I haven't, but I think that you might benefit from attending one.)

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RE: Is this treating a man as an inferior? - 7/23/2009 4:30:55 PM

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Have you ever been to a munch? (I haven't, but I think that you might benefit from attending one.)

Yes. He throws water on the females at the munch.

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RE: Is this treating a man as an inferior? - 7/23/2009 4:50:20 PM

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Why?

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RE: Is this treating a man as an inferior? - 7/23/2009 6:13:13 PM

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Why?

To see their reaction.

http://www.collarchat.com/m_2628407/mpage_1/tm.htm

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RE: Is this treating a man as an inferior? - 7/23/2009 6:33:35 PM

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I have read the first two pages of that thread. It seems that either he has a scientific inclination, or that he is allowing himself to be gullibly fooled by some irresponsible woman who suggested the crazy idea to him.

In any case nowhere in those two pages does he state to have spilled water on dommes at the one munch that he attended.

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RE: Is this treating a man as an inferior? - 7/23/2009 6:44:51 PM

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smiles You'd have to read all his posts. This guy is seriously deranged, or just likes giving the rest of us a laugh.

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RE: Is this treating a man as an inferior? - 7/23/2009 6:55:24 PM

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The gods themselves by definition are crazy. If they were normal, they would not be gods, but merely humans.

I have been called crazy myself, at which I sincerely said "Thank you".

Lo, I imagine that you have few funds and that you may be consulting a physician or psychiatrist for one or another problem. Tell him that I think that you might benefit from visiting a professional domme and ask them whether they will support that experiment and have the fee you pay such a domme to be reimbursed. (Ask the domme for a receipt.)

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