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Aylee -> RE: Is this treating a man as an inferior? (7/23/2009 6:59:28 PM)

Rule. . .

Never mind.




purepleasure -> RE: Is this treating a man as an inferior? (7/23/2009 8:20:46 PM)

Rule, the difference is that you are sane.




wandersalone -> RE: Is this treating a man as an inferior? (7/23/2009 8:47:14 PM)

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ORIGINAL: lobodomslavery

i know nothing about mental acuity or whatever that is.


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lobodomslavery -> RE: Is this treating a man as an inferior? (7/24/2009 1:58:22 AM)

i have been to two munches. they were good craic. And no i have never spilled drink on a Domme water or otherwise. i dont think in reality i would have the character to do it. it s just an idea that a Domme suggested which i find intriguing
kevin




LadyPact -> RE: Is this treating a man as an inferior? (7/24/2009 11:06:47 AM)

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ORIGINAL: lobodomslavery

No i just picked my handle very randomly. it had nothing to do with any of your argument. i have no contempt for anyone. i made up the handle. i know nothing about mental acuity or whatever that is. i do not have contempt at all for members of this community. on the contrary they have been my lifesaver, before getting involved here, i was very depressed, isolated and thought very little of myself, i was even suicidal. i had no friends and thought i was worthless.  Now at least i have a social group to engage with
kevin


So the low opinions of people on the site make you feel better about yourself?  As I've said before, I think it is a case of wanting attention and bad attention is better than none at all.  No one else is willing to give it to you, so you come here.

I have a challenge for you.  Print up the threads that you have started and take them with you to your next therapy appointment.  Use one of your sessions to go over your incessant thoughts about how any woman who isn't kissing your ass, wearing boots, driving cabs, etc is a Domme.  Literally show these to your health care professional so that a good assessment can be made regarding your mental health. 

I know the prospect of doing so probably scares you to death after already being kept in a mental facility after your prior break down.  The loss of freedom due to mental incapacity once before is a frightening proposition to do again, but wouldn't it be better to get the help that is needed?

Humiliation is absolutely a kink.  So is acting in a way that people will feed that part of you that says you need to be ridiculed.  There is also a point where a kink goes to far and is no longer healthy.




lobodomslavery -> RE: Is this treating a man as an inferior? (7/24/2009 12:03:08 PM)

We have an old saying in ireland.  its an ill wind that will always blow someone some good. And we also firmly believe in the mantra, sticks and stones will break my bones but names , and you can take that as labels too, Lady Pact, will never hurt me. it s only words at the end of the day. Sorry to disappoint You, it has no affect on my mental health whatsoever
kevin




Rule -> RE: Is this treating a man as an inferior? (7/24/2009 2:19:18 PM)

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact
acting in a way that people will feed that part of you that says you need to be ridiculed.  There is also a point where a kink goes to far and is no longer healthy.

It can go disasterly wrong, yes. However this behaviour is also sometimes typical of a natural slave. What he is doing is likely instinctive behaviour, it is part of his natural development. He is a caterpillar wanting to be a butterfly. That transformation is only possible if he finds a true master to keep him safe and to direct him responsibly.




LadyPact -> RE: Is this treating a man as an inferior? (7/24/2009 3:57:02 PM)

Fair enough, lobo.  However, you did fail to accept the challenge.  Perhaps I'm not as wrong as you would like to believe.




Aylee -> RE: Is this treating a man as an inferior? (7/24/2009 4:22:26 PM)

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ORIGINAL: lobodomslavery

We have an old saying in ireland.  its an ill wind that will always blow someone some good. And we also firmly believe in the mantra, sticks and stones will break my bones but names , and you can take that as labels too, Lady Pact, will never hurt me. it s only words at the end of the day. Sorry to disappoint You, it has no affect on my mental health whatsoever
kevin



Should I actually explain those two sayings. . . 

Or will it fall on "deaf ears?"




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