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lally2 -> RE: Salve?or sub? (7/23/2009 11:24:06 AM)
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ORIGINAL: sirsholly
i have a hard time keeping them straight.
The last time i confused the two the manager of Subway asked me to leave. It was then i realized rubbing the ham/cheese/rye on my ass was not going to help that pesky rash. 'Course, it soon became apparent that the nasty taste in my mouth was from BenGay.
thanks for the giggle [:)]
in a way there is a world of difference. a submissive (tends to be, but isnt always - note the 'hedging) someone who is 'freer' with their opinions, thoughts, ideas and feelings. generally they have more input, some choices and i spose, up to a point the exchange between Master and sub can be more open.
a slave (tends to be, but isnt always..lol [:)]) someone who does not have so much freedom. they tend to be more geared toward their Masters needs and are there to serve in all and every capacity without murmur or dissent because to question or rise above their position would challenge their dynamic too dramatically.
but then its down to each individual and their relationship and - i guess, the emotional and reciprocal content.
it is hard in a poly situation not to feel jealousy at times and to feel that one is getting more than another. ive tried poly and it didnt work for me, largely for that reason, though there were other reasons too.
i would offer the suggestion that you look at what you have with youre Master and value those times and things you share. there must be specific moments in the day when his concentration on you makes you fulfilled and happy or you would not still be there. focus on those.
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