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Viridana -> RE: Daddy Dom & little girl relationship (8/6/2009 1:52:20 PM)

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ORIGINAL: SirAntonio
.  I know friends within the lifestyle that just do not get this. 


Do they have to get it?
I have a friend with a fetish that even though I open my mind as much as I possibly can, I can not for the life of me understand what it is that is appealing about it and for him, he will probably always feel misunderstood with his thing when talking to me. But the thing is, it doesn't matter. He doesn't have to justify what he's doing, and me "getting it"  or not is of no consequence at all.





Toppingfrmbottom -> RE: Daddy Dom & little girl relationship (8/6/2009 2:41:47 PM)

Not really. I am lazy and undisciplined all around, it has nothing to do with little girl vs responsible adult. I quite frequently shine off stuff I should be doing because I am to lazy to care to do it.
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ORIGINAL: SirAntonio

Question - Does anyone feel a conflict when her little girl wants to come out but you have adult responsibilities?  Share with me, the dilemma ???




Toppingfrmbottom -> RE: Daddy Dom & little girl relationship (8/6/2009 2:47:01 PM)

Personally I don't believe in unconditional love and never will. I am not foolish enough to think there are not things you can do that would destroy my faith trust and love in the person. I know for a fact you can destroy my feelings for you with certain actions* you the general you and not aldompdx.* And there's things I could do to destroy Daddy's love trust and feelings for me.
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ORIGINAL: aldompdx

In a parent child relationship, unconditional love is primarily in one direction. That is the nature of the immature ego. As a person matures, they become able to reciprocate unconditional love. This growth does not preclude one from continuing to experience their partner's unconditional love, thus continuing to feel open and safe -- plus the capacity to share their own unconditional love.






Acer49 -> RE: Daddy Dom & little girl relationship (8/7/2009 5:57:27 AM)


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ORIGINAL: SirAntonio

I am curious to see how many share this type of relationship? It is so misunderstood relationship in the lifestyle.  I would enjoy others views.



I am afraid I do not see the confusion. From where I sit, it is indeed a very tender and special type of relationship. It is a relationship where the showing of one another's softer emotions is deemed acceptable




LilGirlBreaker -> RE: Daddy Dom & little girl relationship (8/7/2009 9:18:02 AM)

Daddy/daughter came naturally to us. We met here on CM last year and are now engaged. My girl needed to feel like a little girl again, getting spankings and corner time.I was already a Daddy Dom for several years, and so our needs and talents meshed perfectly. Our only challenge now is finding a little sub sister to join us. We have been on contact with a few here, but I always initiate contact, and once my girl says hi to the prospective little sister, the little sister flakes out and disappears... Crazy




SirAntonio -> RE: Daddy Dom & little girl relationship (8/7/2009 11:56:04 AM)

@LilGirlBreaker - I have just attempted to contact others little girls to have conversations with, ask questions, she what their responses are, so I can learn.  I also get a negative response.  Do not feel you are the only one out there, have an exchange and 24 or 48 hours later they act as if there was never an exchange.




SirAntonio -> RE: Daddy Dom & little girl relationship (8/9/2009 7:36:48 AM)

Are there any Daddy and little girls out there that are married?




Daddyssidney -> RE: Daddy Dom & little girl relationship (8/9/2009 8:58:17 AM)

My Daddy and I are not yet married but W/we have talked about it......and if all goes well W/we will heading down that road....
Be Well
sidney




SirAntonio -> RE: Daddy Dom & little girl relationship (8/9/2009 1:59:52 PM)

@Daddyssidney - Congrats.  We are talking also.... It is a grand thing, is it not!




Toppingfrmbottom -> RE: Daddy Dom & little girl relationship (8/10/2009 7:24:09 PM)

Sure there are, why w*ouldn't there be.
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ORIGINAL: SirAntonio

Are there any Daddy and little girls out there that are married?




SirAntonio -> RE: Daddy Dom & little girl relationship (8/11/2009 4:39:13 AM)

Good morning Toppingfrombottom - I just wanted to see how many DD / lg are married and hear from them...  I wanted to see how many would answer and ask them how different it is being married etc.... 




ladylikesdaddies -> RE: Daddy Dom & little girl relationship (8/11/2009 5:07:50 AM)

For me, it's not about age play, far from it. I prefer the Daddy Dom type as I long to be nurtured, cared for, looked after. In my day to day life I'm responsible for so many things (house, work, children etc) and I crave the escape from my day to day pressures, to have someone else make the decisions and take charge. I want to curl up in his lap and to be told that He'll take care of everything.




SirAntonio -> RE: Daddy Dom & little girl relationship (8/11/2009 9:17:13 AM)

@lady - Understand what you say.  For us, it is not about age play....  It is all about how my little one feels inside and my desire to care for her...  In our time together, we have not age / role played.  We are continue to learn about each other and having our relationship grow.




Daddyssidney -> RE: Daddy Dom & little girl relationship (8/11/2009 10:31:51 AM)

My Daddy and I are still in the talking vase about getting married. W/we still have some things to get through...but if all goes well......wedding bells will be in O/our future.. And YES, it is very exciting... :)
Be Well
sidney




fuzzywumpas -> RE: Daddy Dom & little girl relationship (8/11/2009 10:37:44 AM)

edited to clarify that yes we are......it's been over one year for Daddy and I.......  [;)]




SirAntonio -> RE: Daddy Dom & little girl relationship (8/12/2009 6:27:16 AM)

Congrats Daddyssidney.  fuzzyupas, how has it been since you been married and prior ? 




SirAntonio -> RE: Daddy Dom & little girl relationship (8/13/2009 6:21:40 PM)

Question - Have any little girl or boy has / have issues when their Daddy / Mommy is away?




KneelforAnne -> RE: Daddy Dom & little girl relationship (8/13/2009 7:11:57 PM)

I have a question, if I may OP... 

I don't know a lot about D/lg, and I do thank you so much for starting this discussion.  I admit to being one that this "squicked" out at first, simply because I didn't understand it. 

Now, I'm interested in this dynamic--I like the aspect of the caring, nurturing Dom... but, I am wondering how sadism/masochism can be incorporated?  I realize that it CAN be... these relationships have the possibility of developing into whatever we like.

I suppose I am wondering if anyone has successfully developed a D/lg with S/m practices incorporated, but not necessarily as punishment.

In my mind, I like the duality of it... and as I feel a nurturing relationship is what I seek... I'm also developing into a bit of a maso. 

Is it/ has it been successful -- or are they two sides of completely opposite coins?




SirAntonio -> RE: Daddy Dom & little girl relationship (8/14/2009 5:35:46 AM)

Greetings Knnefor Anne - Congrats for finding a interest in a DD lg or MD lg etc....   It is very interesting and fullfilling relationship.  Just from my keyboard, if two wish to incoropate SM into this relationship, they can.  My little one and myself have sessions, it is not an everyday thing but she has needs as I do.




HumiliatePorky -> RE: Daddy Dom & little girl relationship (8/14/2009 5:38:48 AM)

The Gentle aspects of the relationship between daddy and his little girl reminded me of the aspects between puppy and owner, I find this type of relationship can be sweet and if it is as anything as I've read about, this is most likely the type of dom I'd prefer to serve.




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