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aggravation - 8/24/2004 10:03:38 AM   
DarkDeadGirrrl


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Status: offline 		Good morning A/all. sorry if this is in the wrong section but I want to warn all Dommes not to waste their time with a slave from charlottesville, va. (email Me privately if you want more identifiable information) this person wasted a lot of time for Me and even had Me wait at a resturant after work, only for him to never show up or call and leave a message. since then, I have emailed him and recieved no response.
playing games is not something that I am intrested in, and I hope that this person will learn their lesson and stop. he claims to be in his 50's and speaks eloquently about financial servitude and chastity devices, among other things. I assume he has either read quite a bit or may have some limited experience, but be forewarned. It is all a game.
what a shame that some people have nothing better to do than waste time for others.

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RE: aggravation - 8/24/2004 10:13:48 AM   
afmvdp


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Status: offline 		Welcome to the real world. Financial domination is a joke anyway for people to prey on the weak minded outcasts. Second note, it's normally not well accepted by the masses here to directly attack a person without them being here to defend themselves so this thread isn't bound to last too long.

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RE: aggravation - 8/24/2004 10:21:24 AM   
DarkDeadGirrrl


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Status: offline 		well first of all, he is here. and secondly, I did not require the financial servitude, as a matter of fact, it was his insistence. My point is not about money, it is about wasting time for Me, as I am seeking a real submissive for a 24/7 ltr.

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RE: aggravation - 8/24/2004 10:29:08 AM   
Sundew02


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Status: offline 		I empathize, and understand what you are saying. BUT this is for you not him. Take the SN off the thread. Then it will remain a viable thread. The moderators will not let the thread stay with a sn in it. I have been there done that, and wasted tons of time with hotair slaves. So, yes I agree with you it is a great aggravation. We have discussed this problem many times, but here the site will not allow a direct flame on a user. I would be happy to talk with you in email about anything or this in particular. Sundew

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RE: aggravation - 8/24/2004 10:30:09 AM   
kiki blue


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Status: offline 		This thread will get pulled, most likely, for naming names, which isn't acceptable on most forums.

Chalk it up to bad experience, learn from it, and move on. No point being bitter.

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RE: aggravation - 8/24/2004 10:40:43 AM   
afmvdp


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Status: offline 		Just one of the many problems you face in the online world of anonymity. It's normally easy to realize that when they are pushing just how submissive they are down at every seconds pace they're as shallow and vacant in the real world as the online dom/me type that try to demand discipline over a keyboard and a computer screen.

It happens, I've already weeded through quite a few people who like the fantasy of something more than the reality of it.

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RE: aggravation - 8/24/2004 10:42:24 AM   
stormiKnightBEAR


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Status: offline 		Based on the guidelines of the board, this will be pulled.

It is a big no no to name names..... even if life were fair and
it was ok to name names it would still not help. Everyone learns
on their own.

One last thought, please don't forget it's not just the sub/slave/bottoms
that do not show up or do not follow thru. There are just as many
Doms/Masters/Mistresses. Unfortunately, not everyone was given the
same book at conception on common courtesy. So in their mind it's ok
to play games..... be they top/bottom, Dom/sub, Master/Mistress/slave.


So... as the song goes... Cowgirl/Cowboy up and get back on that horse
and ride!!

Have a good day,

stormi
property of Master Bear

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RE: aggravation - 8/24/2004 10:45:27 AM   
DarkDeadGirrrl


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Status: offline 		thank You all for the advice, I have edited the orginial posting so that anyone who wishes more information could email Me privately.
I am not bitter but this just happened 2 days ago, so I am probably being a bit pissy.

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RE: aggravation - 8/24/2004 11:24:29 AM   
LadyShoshin


Posts: 492
Joined: 7/19/2004
From: Burlington, Ontario
Status: offline 		Welcome to the real world of BDSM and the problems with online contacts. A person on here insisted I take a high figure gift certificate to an online store, of course no gift certificate appeared. Again, another so-called money slave.

I find meeting people at munches to be a good way to handle the no shows, at least if they don't show, you aren't sitting there feeling like a dufus.

Of course we waste some of our time waiting for people who have begged us to take them on, thats just one of the hazards of the search.

I had a call last night from a sub I have met at a couple of events, he asked if he could drop by and order a pizza for the two of us. I thought he just wanted to talk so I met with him on a friendship basis. After pizza, pop and lots of conversation, he asked if I would consider him as a part time sub and the 3rd in my stable. I haven't said yes, nor would I play with him, I demanded the 2 day cooling off period. I also started to slip naturally into Domme mode and he knew it.

My recommendation for meeting someone off a personals site, make sure you have money to buy a refreshment and take a book. That way you at least have some quiet time reading and the time is not wasted.

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RE: aggravation - 8/24/2004 11:39:45 AM   
DarkDeadGirrrl


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Status: offline 		funny but I too had an offer for a gift certicate to amazon.com, by a slave who said I could have any dollar amount and that he had given one to a Dopmme who had it done by 25 times her shoe size and 10 times her age, ect. I declined. I knew that was one that had to be a fake.

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RE: aggravation - 8/24/2004 12:04:16 PM   
LadyShoshin


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quote:

ORIGINAL: DarkDeadGirrrl

funny but I too had an offer for a gift certicate to amazon.com, by a slave who said I could have any dollar amount and that he had given one to a Dopmme who had it done by 25 times her shoe size and 10 times her age, ect. I declined. I knew that was one that had to be a fake.

*LOL* Same guy, I fell for it, but at least no harm was done, I watched for red flags that might indicate he was trying some sort of fraud. I kept copies of his profile and all correspondance.

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RE: aggravation - 8/24/2004 12:13:07 PM   
DarkDeadGirrrl


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RE: aggravation - 8/24/2004 12:16:10 PM   
MistressDREAD


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yells from the top of My lungs..........

HUMILIATION IS A KINKKKKKK!!
sum subs get off on its use in many
ways which include the set up for
the let down.

If You put Your self in a position to
be used You most definatly will be.

Sum lessons hard learned. Go lick Ya
wounds on the other side in Your Journal.
JMO.


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RE: aggravation - 8/24/2004 12:22:03 PM   
LadyShoshin


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From: Burlington, Ontario
Status: offline 		*LOL* No wounds to lick, I got played with no harm, no foul. I will know better the next time. It is a learning curve.

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RE: aggravation - 8/24/2004 2:50:04 PM   
DarkDeadGirrrl


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Status: offline 		Exactly. I am not licking wounds, just pointing out that there is one to be on the lookout for. a lesson learned is a lesson hopefully remebered.

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RE: aggravation - 8/24/2004 4:59:10 PM   
MistressDREAD


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Status: offline 		hahaha
actuallly Shoshin
I was responding to
Dark Deads post
and it ended up
after Yours but
if the shoe fits...
~winks~
I find that
after they say
oooooh Ill come
and serve Your
every command
24/7 for ever an ever
and I then go about
telling them I command
them to send Me a
copy of Thier ID a
copy of their fingerprints
for police ID check and
SSN for a credit check
befor I send a ticket to come to Me
I find most so called finance
slaves whom havent a clue
go runnin. HA!
sure fire way to weed out
those whom truly desire to
come to You and those
whom only think they do.
The slaves on here that
I have come in contact
with and contracted had
no issue sending Me
what I asked for as soon
as I asked and dident
disapear the moment I asked
for it but were just as true
to their words as I am.
And gawd were those that
contracted with Me a delite!
To bad none were as masocist
as they thought they were even
if they were great slaves........sighs
one day one day

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RE: aggravation - 8/24/2004 9:15:38 PM   
LadyShoshin


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From: Burlington, Ontario
Status: offline 		I live in a roommate situation with a fellow we have dubbed uberpainslut. He loves to squick my new subs by bringing out a picture of his back & ass after a good going over with the sjambok & says very seriously "i left the toilet seat up once, i won't do it again"

I even made him up business cards with his online name, email address, the title Uberpainslut & the pic of his backside. He very proudly hands them out at events. *LOL*
Sounds like you have a good system for weeding out the bad seeds.

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