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RE: Ideas on humiliating a man - 7/26/2009 7:36:17 PM

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Going out in public with you without your shirt on?

What?

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RE: Ideas on humiliating a man - 7/26/2009 8:15:04 PM

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First I am "assuming" that this is something he wants. and he wants to be treated this way.
If that is the case you need to learn what humiliates him. then use that list.
I do not feel your first list of items are realistic and doable.

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RE: Ideas on humiliating a man - 7/27/2009 2:12:49 AM

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Public play requires a lot of planning and precautions need to be taken. In fact it isn't really public at all if planned right, although the subject certainly feels as though they are out there fully on display. It's public because the subject thinks it is. The power of what the mind thinks, allows you to take the subject to a place that pushes them to their edge and if you remain careful and follow your plan, no one else ever knows that your subject even exists.

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RE: Ideas on humiliating a man - 7/27/2009 3:07:21 AM

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ORIGINAL: bitch2hurt

I am going to be topping a man for the first time, and I'd like to get some ideas on humiliating him. I have already thought of:
- taking him dress shopping, trying on dresses, showing me how he looks in them, and asking other shoppers what they think;
- making him walk downtown in his new feminine outfit;
- making him get down on his knees and ask every man he encounters if he may give them a blowjob, or clean their shoes with his tongue;
- taking him into a bar to do the above;
- verbal humiliation;
- making him pee into his pants out in public, then making him stand there and point out to everyone what he has done; and, at the end of the night:
- making him go skinny dipping in his motel pool, and locking him out of his room.

Any other ideas would be greatly appreciated.

I would not advise public humiliation, more times than not, the Dom end up being viewed as an idiot and you have crossed the line, forcing your kink on people who don't want it

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RE: Ideas on humiliating a man - 7/27/2009 3:16:55 AM

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un -be- fukkin- lievable

You have spent too much time watching porn..
"Topping for the first time"...and last I HOPE if ever!!!

****Get a t-shirt made that says.." The joy of knowiing nothing"
then go for a walk with this poor bastard..that should humiliate

GQ

oh shit wait..was this thread about humiliating yourself..??
oh ok..fine then

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RE: Ideas on humiliating a man - 7/27/2009 3:44:17 AM

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and after he's been locked out of his room nekkid for some time you could tell him to jump of the balcony and kill himself... that should take care of all the embarrassment...
oh wait... maybe you could jump after him and kill yourself too, that would definitely do it

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RE: Ideas on humiliating a man - 7/27/2009 7:14:52 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: GYPZYQUEEN
wait..was this thread about humiliating yourself..??

Actually, I thought it probably was, though not quite in the way that you mean.

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RE: Ideas on humiliating a man - 7/27/2009 12:57:07 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: bitch2hurt

I am going to be topping a man for the first time, and I'd like to get some ideas on humiliating him.

Oh I dunno... marriage?

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RE: Ideas on humiliating a man - 7/27/2009 3:49:09 PM

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I'm seeing a struggle here to draw a distinction between humiliation play and spring break.

The smartest thing you've done is admit you have no experience. The next smartest thing you could do is not be anyone's top as mug shots are rarely flattering.

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RE: Ideas on humiliating a man - 7/27/2009 3:50:17 PM

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Edited to remove the duplicate. My apologies :)

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RE: Ideas on humiliating a man - 7/27/2009 8:55:58 PM

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a quick sharp tongue indeed...good luck gomez.

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RE: Ideas on humiliating a man - 7/28/2009 1:16:13 AM

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does humiliation have to include rudeness?

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RE: Ideas on humiliating a man - 7/28/2009 1:20:26 AM

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I don't think there's anything wrong with the ideas, but there appears to be an undercurrent of a lack of empathy.

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RE: Ideas on humiliating a man - 7/28/2009 2:00:13 AM

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He should be made to wear lipstick and some mascara while in his male clothes. Shopping for panties and lingerie with a lacy bra showing under his clothes will do nicely as well.
How about buying a dildo, something big, black and beyond obscene. Make him test it to see that it fits into his mouth.
Just some ideas from a sissy.
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RE: Ideas on humiliating a man - 7/28/2009 9:13:46 AM

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Boyfriend and I have been together a little over 8 months. Just found out he likes to be dressed up like a woman, and paraded around town, not ours of course. I just came out of a relationship where my husband turned out to be gay. It didn't freak me out to see the boyfriend in a wig, I didn't have any reaction at all. My biggest fear would be that he would be gay as well. We had a discussion about it, and he told me he was afraid at first to tell me because of my last situation. He explained that it's a mindset with him, when a woman dresses him and puts makeup on him, he is in a "zone". And it is a way for a female to show him he isn't as much of a man as he thinks he is. But in my mind, I don't know how I will feel about it til I try it.. It hit me when he asked me if my feelings had changed for him, OF COURSE NOT! I still see HIM. I actually like the way he looks in the wig and his leather skirt. So a few days ago we went shopping, tights, earrings, makeup. We are planning a trip to San Francisco so we can have a day trip with him dressed up. I thought maybe he wouldn't want to act like my boyfriend while dressed, hold hands and kiss. But he says of course he would as long as I would want him to. If I can't accept what turns him on, and what his desires are, then I shouldn't be with him.

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