GYPZYQUEEN -> Broken spirit sub up-date (7/26/2009 5:14:14 PM)
TO THOSE WHO SAID "KEEP US POSTED":
A while back I posted about a sub male who had served in the fall..moved away and now was being transferred back and wished to serve me again.
I had indicated concerns around no speech except repeating "Whatever pleases Mistress" and no eye contact etc. and lack of following direction other than in sexual situations.
I had wondered if he had been abused the 7 years previous by former Mistress. I got lots of wonderful replies and ideas and THE ONE IDEA I did not think would be the answer to what was going on... WAS THE ONE!!!
This man turned out to be a master topper from the bottom who wanted 1 thing...to come over to be pegged at his convenience and that is about it. I took the advice of many here and assigned simple things that were never followed up on...journal..call on the phone...make a list..
I asked for communication and it was only when he was in town on business( up to 4 weeks and nothing) and wanted to come over for an hour.. if I said "Sure you can run me a bath or do a foot massage.while we catch up".he was suddenly busy.
I appreciate all the discussions I had on CM because I saw past my own desire to HELP and rescue...what seemed like a lost soul.. and realized it fairly quickly.
ty CM
GQ
GreedyTop -> RE: Broken spirit sub up-date (7/26/2009 5:16:15 PM)
*hugs*
Rule -> RE: Broken spirit sub up-date (7/26/2009 6:16:32 PM)
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Good that you had an open mind and are a caring soul. I didn't notice that previous thread. I would like to know who perceived his true nature, though.