Wyzardsgirl -> RE: An extremely humiliating session that I'd like to share. (8/2/2009 7:50:49 PM)
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ORIGINAL: Wyzardsgirl I don't think any of us really want truly non-kinky people just staring like we're some kind of freak show, do we? It depends. If they see how much you love each other, then why not? It demystifies, makes us less scary. How many CSI-type shows include S&M as part of a salacious murder mystery? It's a lot. Direct human contact is the only way to counteract that kind of BS. I've posted before that I feel a certain obligation to be open about my kink, because I can be. It's like being gay. People were a lot more frightened of homosexuality a generation ago. Now, almost everyone knows someone who is gay-but-a-decent-guy. Put a human face on BDSM, and people are much less likely to think it is a form of abuse. You're right on target, RedMagic to an extent. The thing that the rest of us laughing is that the neighbors were attracted by 'Thriller' blasting at top volume in the parking lot of the building. They all wandered out to see what was going on. They loved the dance, and he IS good at it. But when the cuffs came out, we playfully asked the neighbors if they wanted to be cuffed. That's when they coughed and said 'nope, but it was fun to watch the rest of you'. Hope that makes sense! One guy even ran up a fire escape thinking that the partner of my friend who did the 'Thriller' dance was really going to cuff him. Now that scared the hell out of us. Anyone who would climb a fire ladder attached to a building because he felt we were going to non-consentually 'use' him? That was freaking scary. Oh...and the cuffs were real cop cuffs, not standard issue 'buy online' leather cuffs'. Smith and Wesson cop cuffs. It got even funnier when one of the three people (aside from me) played to the 'audience': I can't find the damned key! Does anyone know where the keys to these cuffs are? *grin*
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