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RE: An extremely humiliating session that I'd like to s... - 7/27/2009 5:10:39 PM

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Well I admit that in my life I have had only had one submissive experience and I had to pay for it. Her name was renee and she nicknamed me "Boner boy". She had me strip naked and march in place as fast as I could lifting my knees as high as possible while she spanked me hard with a spencer paddle (the one with the holes in it). After I was reduced to a humiliated blubbering mess she had me dance for her while singing the National anthem. (Which country?) Every mistake I made I had to start all over again.

From my perspective I cannot imagine a more humiliating act to perform for a beautiful women. The shame and embarassement was mind boggling and I masterbate to it almost every day. I really wanted to share that.

Can anyone relate to this in any way?

Not even in the remotest possible sense. Not with extensive drugs....not with a very large breasted Pamela Anderson impersonator....nibbling with enormous passion on an Angelina Jolie impersonator right in front of me.....not even if I was getting a hand job from the sexiest woman on the planet....while watching my ex wife being berated in an IRS hearing explaining that she had stolen money from several state agencies....and would be going to jail for multiple decades with people who purposefully wanted to fist fuck her while explaining to her that every religious belief she ever had....made them laugh unpretentiously.

(But....I digress).

Please do go on......

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RE: An extremely humiliating session that I'd like to s... - 7/27/2009 5:41:02 PM

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Lockit...indeed Otter is very sweet. He and I also share the same penchant for accidently posting under each others' sign in, cause we don't pay attention.

My bad! I'm sure he'll be happy to take any punishment for My transgressions! <grin>

Back to the topic at hand..... people never tend to disappointment me with their lack of awareness, and so, I was feeling generous in giving the OP an opportunity to come back and salvage a few shreds of reputation before the 15 or so regulars put him on permanent Block.

My apologies for hijacking Otter's account, though I suppose it's within My authority to do so if I wanted. :)

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"Gary - Asking questions about peoples' take on humiliation is a topic that might get you a legitimate answer. Telling us what you masturbate to, really doesn't rate on anyone's radar. Really, it's NOT about you.

Would you care to try again? With only 3 posts out there, perhaps you just need a bit of direction. "

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RE: An extremely humiliating session that I'd like to s... - 7/27/2009 6:54:33 PM

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After reading the OP, suddenly, I'm not at such a loss for limited internet access.

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RE: An extremely humiliating session that I'd like to s... - 7/28/2009 7:39:28 AM

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Well if one has to dance..Beethovens 3rd symphony in A minor..adigio...

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RE: An extremely humiliating session that I'd like to s... - 7/28/2009 8:20:41 AM

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love that avatar ..turk

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RE: An extremely humiliating session that I'd like to s... - 7/31/2009 9:04:45 AM

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RE: An extremely humiliating session that I'd like to s... - 7/31/2009 9:47:16 AM

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But TURKI, it appears from your avatar pic that you've already found a mistress. Or was that a woman who'd forgotten to put on her drawers that day, and just happened to have been passing by, when your pic was being taken?

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RE: An extremely humiliating session that I'd like to s... - 7/31/2009 9:50:03 AM

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I wonder if he lost his keys up there or something...

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RE: An extremely humiliating session that I'd like to s... - 7/31/2009 9:52:29 AM

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maybe it's Round Two because he wants his dentures back?

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RE: An extremely humiliating session that I'd like to s... - 7/31/2009 10:01:53 AM

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ORIGINAL: Gary35

Well I admit that in my life I have had only had one submissive experience and I had to pay for it. Her name was renee and she nicknamed me "Boner boy". She had me strip naked and march in place as fast as I could lifting my knees as high as possible while she spanked me hard with a spencer paddle (the one with the holes in it). After I was reduced to a humiliated blubbering mess she had me dance for her while singing the National anthem. Every mistake I made I had to start all over again.

From my perspective I cannot imagine a more humiliating act to perform for a beautiful women. The shame and embarassement was mind boggling and I masterbate to it almost every day. I really wanted to share that.

Can anyone relate to this in any way?

that had to be awesome

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RE: An extremely humiliating session that I'd like to s... - 7/31/2009 10:31:22 AM

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I can dig that in a breaking a slave kind of way. I have never been really into being made to do things that are silly for their own sake. I am more motivated by being made to serve as an ashtray or toilet or foot rest. But I do get where you are coming from.

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RE: An extremely humiliating session that I'd like to s... - 8/2/2009 7:08:10 PM

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I just blocked you...

LMFAO......Too funny

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RE: An extremely humiliating session that I'd like to s... - 8/2/2009 7:20:50 PM

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To the OP:

I'm not as impressed with your description of your performance to some country's National Anthem as I've been impressed with my one of my best friends, who's gay and a switch dance to Michael Jackson's 'Thriller".

Sorry, but that's just me.

Now, that dude is hot and has great moves. Marching in place or 'dancing and singing' a National Anthem just doesn't perk my attention like an ex-pro dancer in our parking lot two nights ago dancing to 'Thriller', and getting every move down pat.

And then him kneeling and being cuffed at the end of the dance. But hey, again, that's just me. There's something to be said for style.

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RE: An extremely humiliating session that I'd like to s... - 8/2/2009 7:23:15 PM

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To the OP:

I'm not as impressed with your description of your performance to some country's National Anthem as I've been impressed with my one of my best friends, who's gay and a switch dance to Michael Jackson's 'Thriller".

Sorry, but that's just me. Now, that dude is hot and has great moves. Marching in place or 'dancing and singing' a National Anthem just doesn't perk my attention like an ex-pro dancer in our parking lot two nights ago dancing to 'Thriller', and getting every move done pat.

And wearing cuffs no less.

Now *that* I would have liked to have seen.

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RE: An extremely humiliating session that I'd like to s... - 8/2/2009 7:29:39 PM

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Now *that* I would have liked to have seen.

Hi LadyPact!

This dude is so cool and such an exhibtionist! I bet I can get him to do it again and he'll even pose for pics for you!

*grin*

He lives to be praised and stroked and patted on the head. Seriously. Cool neighbors. And damn, his Michael Jackson 'Thriller' had everyone in the apartment building down there cheering him on. Living in a very closely connected apartment building, no one could NOT here the music and the rest of us cheering him on. So, the 'audience' showed up.

Then when his partner brought out the cuffs, even the non-kinky people hung around in fascination to see what would happen next.

But, then, there's that thing where you draw a line. I don't think any of us really want truly non-kinky people just staring like we're some kind of freak show, do we?

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RE: An extremely humiliating session that I'd like to s... - 8/2/2009 7:42:04 PM

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I don't think any of us really want truly non-kinky people just staring like we're some kind of freak show, do we?

It depends. If they see how much you love each other, then why not? It demystifies, makes us less scary. How many CSI-type shows include S&M as part of a salacious murder mystery? It's a lot. Direct human contact is the only way to counteract that kind of BS.

I've posted before that I feel a certain obligation to be open about my kink, because I can be. It's like being gay. People were a lot more frightened of homosexuality a generation ago. Now, almost everyone knows someone who is gay-but-a-decent-guy. Put a human face on BDSM, and people are much less likely to think it is a form of abuse.

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RE: An extremely humiliating session that I'd like to s... - 8/2/2009 7:50:49 PM

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I don't think any of us really want truly non-kinky people just staring like we're some kind of freak show, do we?

It depends. If they see how much you love each other, then why not? It demystifies, makes us less scary. How many CSI-type shows include S&M as part of a salacious murder mystery? It's a lot. Direct human contact is the only way to counteract that kind of BS.

I've posted before that I feel a certain obligation to be open about my kink, because I can be. It's like being gay. People were a lot more frightened of homosexuality a generation ago. Now, almost everyone knows someone who is gay-but-a-decent-guy. Put a human face on BDSM, and people are much less likely to think it is a form of abuse.

You're right on target, RedMagic to an extent. The thing that the rest of us laughing is that the neighbors were attracted by 'Thriller' blasting at top volume in the parking lot of the building. They all wandered out to see what was going on.

They loved the dance, and he IS good at it. But when the cuffs came out, we playfully asked the neighbors if they wanted to be cuffed. That's when they coughed and said 'nope, but it was fun to watch the rest of you'.

Hope that makes sense!

One guy even ran up a fire escape thinking that the partner of my friend who did the 'Thriller' dance was really going to cuff him. Now that scared the hell out of us. Anyone who would climb a fire ladder attached to a building because he felt we were going to non-consentually 'use' him? That was freaking scary.

Oh...and the cuffs were real cop cuffs, not standard issue 'buy online' leather cuffs'. Smith and Wesson cop cuffs. It got even funnier when one of the three people (aside from me) played to the 'audience': I can't find the damned key! Does anyone know where the keys to these cuffs are?

*grin*

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RE: An extremely humiliating session that I'd like to s... - 8/2/2009 11:18:06 PM

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LadyPact, I am the one that did the "Thriller" dance, using my neighbor's login, I would love to show you pics and/or video, but unfortunately we are having technical difficulties with recording/uploading... We will certainly figure these issues out by the morning, and have something sent to you by tomorrow evening... I would love to have your attention...

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RE: An extremely humiliating session that I'd like to s... - 8/2/2009 11:35:15 PM

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There ya go, LadyPact!

I visited my neighbors and we tried to get the 'Thriller' dancer on tape, but not a damned thing worked out. The dudes downstairs have wi-fi and along with their anti-virus program, they kept getting blocked from this site.

They finally came up to my apartment so the 'Thriller' dude could let you know that he will dance for you as soon as they get a better system going downstairs.

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RE: An extremely humiliating session that I'd like to s... - 8/2/2009 11:35:37 PM

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I would be very pleased to see it. I hope the issues can be resolved.

My kudos to you for your courage.

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