littlesarbonn
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I think of pro dominants a lot like people think of professional athletes. Everyone who plays a sport tends to want to be a professional athlete, and many will go into the minor leagues attempting to become great stars. Some may even fool the audiences for awhile, but eventually the weak get pulled out of the major leagues and all that is left are the superstars and those who are still fooling the audiences.
That's no different with pro dominants because one thing that seems to work for a lot of amateur professional dominants is attraction. If a woman is attractive, she already has an "in" with pro domination, but then she has to do something with those looks to actually become successful. I can't tell you how many women I've come across in my time who were flat out gorgeous but failed miserably as professional dominants (and submissives) mainly because they just didn't have it in them. I've even seen some semi-attractive women become HUGE draws as professional dominants because they were just that good.
What you're probably experiencing right now is a bad economy where women are now looking for an easy way to make money, and there's this false fantasy that pro domming is the easy way to do it. I was at a munch a few years before the recession started, and I was listening to three "dominant" women talking about how they were going to get into the pro domme business. All three were horrendously unattractive; I'm sorry, but there's really no getting around that. All I could think to myself was they'd have to be brilliant dominants to make it in the business. Then I heard their conversation of what they thought they needed to do as pro dominants, and I realized right then and there, they'd never succeed because they didn't have an inkling of what they might have to offer in the business because they didn't see it as a business but as a get rich scheme.
So, when you're next thinking about this thing, just remember that the weak get cast out pretty fast in this business. I used to frequent a professional house of domination where the owners knew me really, really well so they used to set me up on sessions with the new girls because they wanted to know my thoughts on how they worked. Of course, they'd never tell the women this because that's like telling a restaurant that it's about to serve the food critic and expecting a normal experience. Sometimes, I'd get to be part of double sessions when they were training a new girl because the professional I knew wanted to see what my thoughts were in the dynamic with the new trainee. It's very easy to start figuring out who is going to make it, and who never will.
Don't get me wrong. I guessed badly from time to time, but that was pretty rare.
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I still had one guy accuse me of being a fake and tell me to go to Match.com, before I found my Master, because I didn't want some random naked stranger having access to *MY* home! I thought he was a jerk, not a submissive at all, and wouldn't be the slightest bit surprised if he has to pay in order to get any BDSM or sex, with that attitude.
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