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Domme's their boys and synced cycles. - 7/31/2009 7:06:11 PM

LittleMeganV

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Short little background first. Ma'am and I have been married for a few years after finding each other here on the forums. We are both working full time jobs and try to squeeze in as much play as we can into our active lifestyle. I am a self identified sissy and have been cross-dressing since I was a child; for the most part it brings me comfort and makes me feel closer to Ma'am. Ma'am has been interested in boys such as me "since the 80's" but we both found new levels of exploration and far more fewer limits with each other.

Now on to my question, which is open to everyone (Dom/me, sub f/m, trans, sissy, etc). I have noticed over the years that as Ma'am nears that time of the month that I myself become much more inclined towards acts of sissyness for lack of a better term. Generally I am masculine around the house and we share chores and etc, I usually only dress up if I had a particularly bad day and use it as a comfort, or when Ma'am wants to play. However regardless of whether I have bad days or Ma'am wants to play, I find my self much more inclined to dress and in slightly more effeminate clothing as she gets closer to that time. Then during that time (when she is most definitely not i the mood) I find my self quite horny for cock sucking and strap-on play, in addition to an increased desire to dress-up.

So I am wondering is this my own hormones reacting to hers and putting me almost on a cycle as well (I have heard & read that men too have a cycle, just not as evident). Or is this just my own mind and sub-conscious giving in because it sees an excuse to give in?

Do other trans/cross-dressers/sissys experience this too? Ladies have you seen this in your sub men of any type? I don't see anything wrong with this, though I wish it would happen at times more convenient for Ma'am because it's a bit frustrating, she enjoys using me when I'm needy, this is more just a plain curiosity thing.

Thanks for any experiences or inputs.

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RE: Domme's their boys and synced cycles. - 7/31/2009 9:29:54 PM

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While I might call my ex- a pussy in ways, he wasn't a sissy.
I'm inclined to answer this anyway because he did totally tune in on my cycle in an uncanny way. Around when I would ovulate, he would break out. Around the time my period would happen, I rarely had mood swings but he sure did.
After we split, my symptoms regarding hormonal cycling worsened.
I do believe it's possible to be attuned to one another in ways such as you described because I've had experience with such.
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RE: Domme's their boys and synced cycles. - 8/1/2009 6:31:50 AM

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I find this one of the most thought-provoking and fascinating discussions I have seen on the boards. I too have experienced differences in emotional stability, attitudes and even physical endurances when my mate was undergoing varying different treatments for her cancer. Although I do not cross-dress or view myself a sissy or find myself effeminate in any manner it just seemed as her condition worsened I experienced pain in the same areas and somehow knew when her discomfort worsened even when I was not around her.

I spoke to her doctors about this and they come up with hypothetical’s like phantom pain, sympathy pain and a host of other probabilities but when asking them for data that would substantiate their thinking they were unable to direct my search. Oh I found tons of data on the net but that shared their thinking but nothing not even one double blind study that offered conclusive findings supporting their thinking.

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RE: Domme's their boys and synced cycles. - 8/1/2009 8:26:58 AM

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It's well known that women who live together, in a camp or boarding school, tend to have their cycles align. Nothing like 300 teenage girls all with PMS. The mechanism seems to be through the sense of smell that causes the hormonal shift.

I see no reason then men shouldn't be affected somehow. You've got hormones in common with us; testosterone, and androgen and you have noses with receptors.

It makes a lot of sense to me.

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