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need some ideas - 8/1/2009 8:35:15 AM   
paincyprus


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Status: offline 		as a sub what would you describe to be the best night to have with your dom? im running out of ideas for passionate nights with my sub.
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RE: need some ideas - 8/1/2009 8:40:57 AM   
daintydimples


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Status: offline 		A new sub?

Sorry, don't mean to be snarky, but if the chemistry is good, I've never encountered this as a problem.


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RE: need some ideas - 8/1/2009 8:43:05 AM   
mc1234


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Status: offline 		You're running out of ideas?  Perhaps google 'bdsm checklist' for a list of things you might be interested in trying? 

My best nights with my Dom have had little to do with the actual activity but everything to do with our connection...


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RE: need some ideas - 8/1/2009 11:25:26 AM   
sweetsub1957


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Status: offline 		I make us a nice dinner which we have & we have coffee & dessert after.  We cuddle for awhile & then we do WIITWD, which is very passionate.  Afterward I give Him a full body massage from head to toe and we cuddle til we're asleep.  Basically that's how it goes for us.  No more details.  hahaha

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RE: need some ideas - 8/1/2009 11:55:39 AM   
stella41b


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RE: need some ideas - 8/1/2009 12:29:54 PM   
Missokyst


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Status: offline 		LOL how funny.  I discovered early on that if I was ironing a look would come over his eyes and I would be stripped and on the bed before I knew it.  Never could get around to doing that chore in his presence.

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Do some ironing.

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RE: need some ideas - 8/1/2009 1:20:42 PM   
Lostkitten3


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RE: need some ideas - 8/1/2009 1:38:33 PM   
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...as a sub what would you describe to be the best night to have with your dom?...


one where he has exhausted all of the possiblities of things HE wants to do/experience with her and has exhausted Himself in the undertaking so we collapse into bed, curling up with each other as we slip into the blissfull arms of Morpheus.

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RE: need some ideas - 8/1/2009 7:21:31 PM   
DesFIP


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Status: offline 		Trying a new restaurant with a couple of drinks, then coming home and making love and in the morning play.

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RE: need some ideas - 8/2/2009 8:04:34 AM   
paincyprus


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Status: offline 		keep em coming please! i meant ideas for humilation e.t.c what is it that you as subs/slaves want out of a night of passion.

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RE: need some ideas - 8/3/2009 6:56:30 AM   
DesFIP


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Status: offline 		Nothing says you can't repeat a favorite. Why don't you ask her what she most enjoys and incorporate those things?

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RE: need some ideas - 8/3/2009 7:12:39 AM   
angelikaJ


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Status: offline 		Perhaps your sub and I are different but I don't need new for an encounter to be passionate.
I just need Him to engage me.

Take something very basic like a bath or sharing a meal and then think of all the ways you can do that one thing.

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RE: need some ideas - 8/3/2009 7:13:17 AM   
VeeTee


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Status: offline 		my best night would be doing anything my Master wants. My constant availability would be enough of a turn-on. Really, the possibilities are endless as long as the connection is there.

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