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JenTehLuv -> RE: My Dom and I made a bet... (8/1/2009 10:01:21 PM)
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ORIGINAL: tazzygirl
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ORIGINAL: JenTehLuv
Thanks for the responses everyone!
I've noticed people suggesting tying him up (not just here, on another site as well), but sadly he isn't into getting tied up as I am. I want it to be enjoyable for us both so we can both still keep our preferences (as me being the sub and him being the Dom). I'm not one to switch, and I know he isn't either.
Some people offered the advice of just telling him directly what I want him to do to me, but again; I want to do something new and creative; so maybe I can get some examples from fellow slaves/subs and Masters/Dom's on their past experiences.
Tying a man up and having your way can follow two trains of thought... sadistic... or pleasurable. a blindfold and warm oil, and he can be sent on an erotic pleasure trip, starting with a massage and ending only where your mind decides... no pain... no fear... just an erotic time spent under the loving caress of his girl.
gesh, you peeps are all so into the pain aspect... LOL
When I said he isn't into getting bondage I mean he truly doesn't like being on the recieving end of it. He doesn't like the feeling of confinement whatsoever, yet he loves making others feel vulnerable and such. I didn't mean to confuse you by making it seem like pain was going into the bondage if I were going to do it to him. He just doesn't like being the one bound, in any manner.
Though the massage idea doesn't sound bad at all, I might ask permission to do that for him after this whole betting business is done. He works out a lot nowadays and I'd like to help him relieve some tension and soreness.
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