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Isara -> RE: Evasive Mistress or Fake (2/21/2006 11:18:03 AM)
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ORIGINAL: MistressDREAD
I hope you say yes you would because if you would be willing to give out your phone number to a complete stranger Im sure you would also do the same to people who are intimate with your weekly garbage as well.
Wow that's an insanely hard font/colour combination to read. I'm sorry, but I can't see the link there between asking for a phone number and someone doing something illegal like searching through my rubbish.
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buy a cat! join a local group in your area to gain some more experiance in the reality of this lifestyle and understand that 98.9 percent of those online dive into the fantasy side of their minds here and the same thing you are seeking could be the same thing others are seeking as well. after just three weeks dont end up becomming a whinnie pissie sub who isent getting their way. Its SO SO unbecomming.
Wow that's an insanely hard font/colour combination to read in the original, but again, I've got to disagree with you. I don't think that telling someone to get a cat, and calling them a "whining pissie sub" is terribly effective or constructive. They asked for advice? And sure, you gave it, but it seemed overly harsh to me. And maybe that makes -me- a whining pissy dominant, but hey.
In my opinion? Asking someone who you're chatting online with, a lot over a few week period for their phone number isn't unreasonable. Relationships, even D/S ones can be on varying levels, and yes, I understand that, but it seems a bit off to me that someone would engage in an online relationship with someone, D/S or otherwise, without at least a phone call.
There -may- be a reasonable explanation, I know I avoid talking to people much of the time, or I did when I was in school because of my accent and the fact I used to stutter terribly. Especially when tired.
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A person who needs live contact doesent come to online first to find it and expect others to jump to their own whims and needs
I've found that often they do. At least the coming online first part ;) Because it's an anonymous environment for them to engage with other like minded people who understand, rather then vilifying them. It's often a first port of call as it were, for people who then either go on into real life, or who, decide that perhaps this isn't for them.
We were all new once. Prone to making “newbie” type mistakes, and maybe this is one of those situations for the OP, but nevertheless, constructive criticism and observations are always a lot more effective.
Regards.
Isara.
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