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I didn't get an answer (from an ex-con) - 8/4/2009 12:20:15 AM   
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People who know me know I am for the death penalty, as well as making anything legal that the People want. Of course certain exceptions apply. I against the whole notion of prisons, but lack of alternative makes them a necessity. This guy did about twenty years for seriously injuring someone he was robbing. To say the least he probably won't do it again.

In a more recent thread I said something like we should make the prisons alot harder to cope with, and reduce the time of the sentences. To clarify, prisoners would be under constant surveillence, and there would be labor involved, but as they give someone ten years now, they could give them like two. In other words make the deterrent stronger, but apply it more sparingly. Make it so they REALLY do not want to go back.

My favorite psychopath told me many things, and they paralell thing I have heard elsewhere. I listen carefully because I know, there but for the grace of Whoever, I could have been there easily.

So there would be no tatoo parlors, no weed stores, wine stores and all that. This dude almost would like to go back, but that is not in the cards. First of all he had money when he went in, now he a just getting by. To top it off something happened and he won a forty thousand dollar lawsuit against the institution. Can't count on that happening again. At this stage of the game he would rather work.

At any rate, I asked him if they had given him the option to go to a super prison, I mean like I said, practically no amenities or anything. No drugs, no alcohol, no slipping the gaurd a hundred or so for some "special priveledges", noithing of the sort. Watched as if on suicde watch, but only for say two years instead of twenty. Would you go for it ?

For most people in good health, the shorter option would probably be preferable, it simply takes less time. You can't replace time. And time incarcerating anyone costs money. If we are not going to reform them, and I mean actively and effectively, why waste all that money ?

For minor offenders, why even put them in city jails ? Offer them a public caning instead. It's over very quickly and you get back to your life. Sure it hurts, IT'S SUPPOSED TO ! But if you can manage it, you'll be at work on Monday. When you take large chunks of a person's time, it hurts his dependents, and that was never the intent I would hope. What's more, after taking a large slice of someone's time, anyone on the outside that would constitute a support system and help one become a [relatively] normal member of society may have moved away or died off. What sense is there in that ?

So we continue to generate these people, and figuratively put a revolving door on the prison. With work so hard to come by, my psychopath told me that one day he was standing in front of a bank. His thoughts at the moment were it's a win win. If I get away with it fine, if they bust me I automatically have a place to stay, all my bills paid and fed every day.

It is starting to seem to me that the government hates thieves because they don't want the competition. Over the years I have heard from people in and from other countries. They don't seem to be as avidly hunting smugglers as here in the US. Sure they catch one now and then, but here they try to make it as hard as possible. Maybe the attitude across the pond is more like "At least he ain't stealing or killing". Of course logic like that doesn't fly here.

Face it, you go to a drug dealer, pay him the money and get your drugs. Go hiome and do the drugs. Don't hurt anyone, don't overdo, just enjoy yourself. Who has been harmed ? The dealer did not steal, you simply paid. You didn't give any of the shit to kids, you didn't break anything, especially anything that wasn't your's. So if there is no harm how can there be a crime ?

Cleaning up this mess we are going to have to reconsider the base thinking of this whole problem. As much as people may argue against corporal punishment, I think in the long run it would be better. You take a big chumk of a Man;s time on this Earth, that should be thought out well. Al Capone, OK he was nasty, but he died in prison. What if some twenty year old kid, say your kids or nephew or niece or something, got twenty years for some bullshit. That time cannot be replaced.

In the case of my psychopath, he has no qualms about it, but he did almost kill someone. He regrets it as well as regretting getting caught. The loot was not worth it. The guy did nothing to him. He does actually regret it. Most people only regret getting caught. Even the judge said it would have been better if he had actually killed him, because he is maimed. At least when you are dead you have no problems.

The only deterrent with the way it is done now for my psycho, is because of age. Another twenty would be no good. Whatever role his conscience plays is really unknown unless he is in a similar circumstance. If it had been a simple bout of fisticuffs and run away it would have been alot better, but he has this big knife. I think actually the big knife was one of the items he was stealing. But is that the idea ? To make them old enough to not want to do that again ?

I don't think that's a very good plan. I know this guy pretty well. when he has a job he never gives a thought to lifting anything. He doesn't take, he gives. I have let him stay here, and be in my house alone, and have never had a problem. If he has paid his "debt to society" isn't he entitled to the rest of his life ?

Now there are some jobs he can't get because of his record. He can't pack iron, or work at certain places. To me that seems like a bill of allainder, which is specificlly prohibited by the Constitution. He is a hard worker, enegetic and smart. I had a new step put in front of the house recently. Aniother guy stepped in it when it was wet. It cost me to have it fixed. Mr. Psycho shows up, I just yell "It's open". He walks in and I say "Shit, did you step in the new concrete ?". He looked at me like I was some kind of a nut and says "Of course not, I see a new step, I jump over it". The guy who DID step in it had actually helped DO IT !

Yes I would hire this guy.

But for what ? That is the biggie. There are no jobs, these people in prison might as well stay there now, really. If you can't get a job what are you going to do to survive ? This is a big issue, for everyone. How many of us can say that we won't resort to whatever means necessary to survive ?

This was partly inspired by SBFY's thread. It is such a different slant I didn't want to fuck it into there. The point here is, does anyone have any ideas ? I think right now making prison alot more difficult and shortening the sentences would be a good thing. First time offenders would definitely not want to go back. And get rid of most of the drug laws. Fukit, people would get high on gasoline if they could. I have known people who sniffed glue, in fact my sinister did for a time. She stopped before any drain bamage occurred, well at least we think :-) In fact I have heard of people sniffing gasoline. And freon, in fact I tried freon and just didn't really like it. I have also done nitrous oxide. It was fun but not something to write home about.

And that is another whole thing, about addiction. I would not steal for the one substance I use that is illegal - weed. I would not steal for beer or cigarettes either. But people do. What makes them do that I simply do not understand. For food I can understand. I figure there is what is called an unaddictable personality. I think I have one. At my three day thing for the DUI in 2004, "Are you going to be OK not drinking for three days ?". Hell I did thirty and even without cigarettes I was fine. That shouold have been a lesson to me, but I lit up when I got out. Now at six bucks a pack I wish I hadn't. But they are talking about withdrawal and all this shit, I have never had that problem.

I can't really speak to that point really. People will kill their loved ones for their favorite intoxicant. Now get this, if they do so, we don't need a prison for them, just a firing squad. If they will do that I don't want them on my planet. Disagree all you want but I still say, being crazy is no defense. In fact about 25 years ago the supreme court ruled that drinking was willful behavior and therefore cannot be used as a defense. A crazy person can cross a street and not run out in front of a bus, therefore should be able to reason that if they take an axe to their neighbor's head they will die, and therefore won't do it.

Give up all that brainwashing and bullshit.; Let's get down to brass tacks. What will solve the problem ?

Any ideas ? (whatever you do, PLEASE try not to turn this into a political game).

T
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RE: I didn't get an answer (from an ex-con) - 8/4/2009 3:14:55 AM   
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In a more recent thread I said something like we should make the prisons alot harder to cope with, and reduce the time of the sentences. To clarify, prisoners would be under constant surveillence, and there would be labor involved, but as they give someone ten years now, they could give them like two. In other words make the deterrent stronger, but apply it more sparingly. Make it so they REALLY do not want to go back.
For minor offenders, why even put them in city jails ? Offer them a public caning instead.

I am opposed to any benefit from labour going to the government. It ought to go to the victims and the relatives of the perp; 50-50.
So a monthly caning for major offenders? Two years = 24 canings.
I am also opposed to imprisonment. Chain them instead to the top of a pole planted in a lake or river with a shade, a cold shelter and a hammock and let them fend for themselves, occasionally bringing them a loaf of bread. They can swim in the lake and drink its water.

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It is starting to seem to me that the government hates thieves because they don't want the competition.
you go to a drug dealer, pay him the money and get your drugs. Go home and do the drugs. Who has been harmed?

The people selling the drugs at high prices, which they can do only because the government has outlawed drugs. What financial interest motivates the outlawing by the government, do you think? Why is the government targetting competition drugs traffickers only? 

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As much as people may argue against corporal punishment, I think in the long run it would be better. That time cannot be replaced.
I think right now making prison alot more difficult and shortening the sentences would be a good thing. First time offenders would definitely not want to go back. And get rid of most of the drug laws.

Agreed.

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The only deterrent with the way it is done now for my psycho, is because of age. Whatever role his conscience plays is really unknown unless he is in a similar circumstance.

Psychopaths have no conscience; that's why they are psychopaths.

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A crazy person can cross a street and not run out in front of a bus, therefore should be able to reason that if they take an axe to their neighbor's head they will die, and therefore won't do it.

Crazy persons are another problem entirely.


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RE: I didn't get an answer (from an ex-con) - 8/4/2009 3:28:15 AM   
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Face it, you go to a drug dealer, pay him the money and get your drugs. Go hiome and do the drugs. Don't hurt anyone, don't overdo, just enjoy yourself. Who has been harmed ? The dealer did not steal, you simply paid. You didn't give any of the shit to kids, you didn't break anything, especially anything that wasn't your's. So if there is no harm how can there be a crime ?
you paint a sweet, relaxed scenario, Term, but not realistic. Drugs use results in addiction, more often  than not. Addiction leads to crime to pay for the drugs. 

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RE: I didn't get an answer (from an ex-con) - 8/4/2009 4:42:46 AM   
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you paint a sweet, relaxed scenario, Term, but not realistic. Drugs use results in addiction, more often  than not. Addiction leads to crime to pay for the drugs. 


Not to mention those who can't 'handle' the drugs they take and murder a stranger for no other reason than "man I was just soooo high!"


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RE: I didn't get an answer (from an ex-con) - 8/4/2009 9:16:02 AM   
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The system- exists in part- because money is made off of it.

Would you pay 20k, on the chance of not going to jail?    (attorney fees)

Most anyone would.   

There is no answer.   As we go on- more and more laws come into being.

Federalize the water.   So water on your property isnt yours.

CODEX comes in.  12-31-09,   that makes vits and mins into rxss.

Fail to rfid your livestock?

the list goes on.

We are subject to this- because of the debt.   Secession is mute.   Because of the debt.

To some extent the prison system is part of the complex.

Nearly all the guys in prison -should be there.   I do think we should- re-do the drug laws.



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RE: I didn't get an answer (from an ex-con) - 8/4/2009 12:07:17 PM   
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Holly, since you brought it up I should touch on addiction. Defining it ad hoc here might be a bit difficult.

Simply doing recreational drugs does not make one an addict. There is some weakness in the personality which causes that. Perhaps addicts are the only class of criminals that might benefit from incarceration, if for no other reason than to clean up.

For me drug use is willful. I can afford it, I don't bother anyone and I know when to stop. I choose not to drink hard liquor because it just starts tasting too good. I choose not to do coke because I know how I'll feel the next day. I choose not to do LSD becausee I don't want my brain getting fucked, since I do use it occasionally. I choose not to do opiates because they are a real trap and I am not so sure I can resist. I choose not to do PCP because of very similar reasons, plus the fact that I don't have a connection to get the pharma version, which must be stolen from a vet. I don't want that shit somebody cooks up in the basement. Plus PCP is very dangerous and you have to be careful about who you give any to, they might go nuts and kill you.

I have done these things in the past and left a trail of scars and wrecked bars in my wake. I don't want that. I know the effects so I would have no excuse. And to try any of the new drugs, such as ecstasy, not me. I got plenty to choose from that I don't want.

Addicts have a different type of personality. I was in jail for a month and that also means no cigarettes. No pot, no beer no smokes, but it didn't bother me. I did observe a crackhead climbing the walls - LITERALLY. This dude was getting a running start and actually made it halfway up the wall before falling. And he kept on doing it again and again.

So what makes people like that ? So dependent on a substance. Shit, I don't even take aspirin ! I believe there is some sort of void in their conciousness that is apparently filled by the substance of choice. I believe that the well adjusted rarely get addicted to anything, with the possible exception of like heroin, something that I won't even try. The idea of the needle is bad enough, and I have heard of the power of heroin. If someone wants me to do smack, sure, just give me a brainectomy first and I am in.

I know someone who stopped drinking because they said every time they drank they wanted coke. Is that an addict or someone who knows their limitations. He has been clean for years.

However, it takes all kinds. I like my intoxicants, but if I have to do without it doesn't bother me. I can't speak to what others feel or anything because I simply don't know. I would guess that I am simply not an addictable personality, but I still must admit that I fear heroin. I don't know just how strong I am in that regard and actually I have no desire to find out.

And then there are some who will kill their own Mother for a buzz. I don't know what makes them like that and I am not likely to find out. Like a few other things, there simply is no comprehensive data. We don't even know what role heredity may play, but I suspect it is more environment than anything else. My reasoning at this point is that I am not addictable because of the way I was raised. Of course I can't be sure, but it's my best guess at this point.

To support my void in the personality theory, I submit this - hear of the saying 'drive me to drink' ? How many fall into a whiskey bottle because of the loss of all they own, or a loved one, even a truck or a pet (for some reason I didn't say car, anyone care to analyse that ?)

I also have other theories related to the subject, such as extreme greed is a form of addiction but not recognized as such today. I think many are addicted to TV, music, many other things. Let's not even mention sugar, I know someone who I have put to struggle with that one. And none of this is seen as addiction. Like an old joke also :

"My Husband pissed me off so bad I ate a whole loaf of bread"
"So what ?"
"It was frozen".

Yes some people eat when they get pissed off or upset, but I am quite the opposite. If I am annoyed really bad I will refuse to eat or have a good time until I pretty much get over it. I also broke the pot/munchies cycle.

I do believe there is a bottle of booze in this house somewhere in a cabinet. I am pretty sure it is there, but I haven't seen it in ages and I don't go looking for it. Know why it is here ? Because it is a day to day decision to say no. I am a full growed Man and if it wasn't here I am perfectly capable of buying some. But I don't want it. Perhaps it is maturity. Hint - you may black out if you drink too much, but believe me, twenty years later or so you will remember. Not pleasant.

So OK, addicts might need a bit different treatment. But the focus should be on the cure, not so much punishment. Then again I believe there should always be restitution. But how do you make restitution if you killed someone ?

But the gist of the thread was not to solely focus on addicts. Many criminals are not addicted to anything. For them my ideas may just work. I am going to pry Mr Psycho for an answer. And I just call him that, sort of a joke. If he was really nuts I would not have him around me. I just call him that because he has balls as big as church bells. It's like he lacks the capacity to fear. Maybe he just tries to stay straight because of logical rweasoning. Once you hit the forties, tweenty years might not seem so long, but realistically, to get out when you are sixty is not very inviting.

There are people you steal just because that's what they do, and they couldn't get a job in government :-) Really, they just have no sense of that type of morality. Thi8s guy used to be like that. My point is partly, why does it take twenty years to correct that ? That was the idea, make it short and very very sour. I would be all for kicking the shit out of someone for certain offenses rather than taking them out of their life for decades. It is costly and largely ineffective. It is their day to day decision not to do it that keeps their ass out of the sling now.

It amazes me that US Americans are so focussed on immediate gratification yet don't support what I am talking about. Of course irony in real life intrigues me. But it is not my personal enjoyment bemusing such things that is at stake here, it is one of society's main ills and what we are doing now has been proven not to work. Sure you lock up a twenty year old and they are twice that age when the get out, it does serve as a deterrent, but at what cost ?

Want some more irony, this time from me ? Let them do their drug of choice during treatment. When they can look at that rock of crack and just say no, then perhaps they are ready. That is the only proof, it is right there in front of them and they can turn it down. Maybe that is a learned skill, I guess some take longer to learn it. There are alot of young addicts. There are alot of young people who don't know their ass from a whole in the ground as well. Past the teen years you think the crazy driving, the fights, all the other bullshit would be out of their system. But it's not. Why ?

Blaming the media or poor parenting doesn't wash anymore. The time for excuses is over. Blaming peer pressure doesn't cut it either. I can sit in a room with a bunch of people doing hard drugs, offering me some for free and I can turn it down. Always could. Didn't say I always did, but I could. What is lacking in those who can't say no, I have no idea. All I can offer is opinion.

But I do know this much, what we are doing now isn't working on any level, addiction or not. We cannot get out of this mess using the same thinking that got us into it.

So if anyone ever wants to know why sometimes I want to get slightly out of it, why I TAKE a half hour after work before I am ready to even talk to anyone, why I enjoy my solitude and music, things like that. Why I seem to withdraw at times, but not really bad, just leave me alone for a minute type shit, it is because I see society crumbling. I see people in prison for simple possesion, at the same time I see master criminals running my country. I know for a fact that the government brings most of the drugs into this country. So if I have a hard time coping with reality for a few minutes sometimes, it's better than most alternatives, like finally snapping and going out with an assault rifle and shit like that.

We are in deep shit. Justice is rare. Now what ?

T

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RE: I didn't get an answer (from an ex-con) - 8/4/2009 2:11:53 PM   
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First of all, prisoner are under constant surveillance expect when they are in their cells. Now if you are in Ad Seg your cell in under surveillance. Most prison system whether it is state or federal does make inmates work at some type of job. It could be raise produces, cattle, mowing grass, tree removal, cleaning floors, making auto plates, sheet metal work, road signs, picking up trash along the highway or working at some type of construction job. For example, when I was incarcerated I worked as a welder and did most of the repairs to all the farm equipment for the federal cattle farm. We raise cattle to be sold at auction or to be slaughter. Everyone bitches about how much money it takes to operate a prison system but no one talks about how much money is SAVE from prisoners raising their own produce and beef, how much more would a car tag cost you at the local courthouse if prisoner didn't make them for the states. How much extra money would it cost the state and federal government when prisoners helps out after a natural disasters. The main campus of the prison where I was incarcerated at was located on a air force base, the base commander need a barrack redone, need wiring, paint job, new tile and some other minor work. The prisoners agree to help so if would not cost the military any money expect for supplies, two weeks into the job, the electrical union, afl cio union found out the prisoners were doing the work to the barrack, they sue the federal prison system because they claim, the prisoners were taking jobs away from their union members, it cost the military 250,000 dollars to do the same work the prisoners could had done for 30,000. That is the reason you don't see more work be done by prisoners because the states and federal government are afraid of been sued by the unions.

What amenities are you talking about? The general public thinks every cell had a big wide screen tv in it, I hate to busted your bubble but they don't. There might be, if you are lucky, to have 2 rec rooms in a prison where minimum security prisoner can watch tv, The tv program is control by the guard(s) on duty. A prisoner has to buy everything, toothpaste, toothbrush, smokes, sodas, candy, ice cream and any other so called amenities.The only thing the prison system supply you with is a 6'x8' cell with a cot, 2 uniform and 3 meals, but if you on work detail, you only get two meals because usually you are away from the prison during lunch.

Now about caning, I have one question, what do you do with a person you caned and the law is change the next day? Do you said oh well sorry for you, you should waited one more day?  I was sent to prison for racketeering ( loaning money at high APR) and illegal gambling business ( taking bets) and while I was in prison, the congress change the law saying that is it legal to loan money to people at a high rate than the banking industry. That is the reason we now have some many title loans stores and payday loans stores, The congress and the US Attorney General both agree that is was never illegal to loan money at a high APR than banks. The only rule was that the person or business must have a business licenses to do so and the person who is apply for the loan must post some type of collateral ie title to car or a post dated check.

By the way, like most prisoners and myself do believe we need some prisons.



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RE: I didn't get an answer (from an ex-con) - 8/4/2009 2:37:08 PM   
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It's like he lacks the capacity to fear.

He does; it is a characteristic of psychopaths.

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RE: I didn't get an answer (from an ex-con) - 8/4/2009 3:10:44 PM   
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the thing is- everything is illegal.

One cant possibly go thru all of life with out violating- some type of law.

I am not about to agree that most in prison should be released.   Not at all.   Even if they went in under a minor infraction- they learned all sorts of bad things.

But what exactly IS crime?

If person A, harms person B, then ok- that is crime.

But can person A, harm the state?   

The law also figures that no one is solely a victim in a crime.  Meaning- a victim is thought to be a perp as well.   To some extent the point has validity.     But- if person A, harms the state- under the victim theory- the state then provoked such an action.  So how then is the state ever accountable?

Lets add another non-human entity...  the corporation.

Person A, can harm corporation C...  but here again the corporation is an accomplice.

Note the government does problem- reaction-solution.   No matter what the issue of the day is- government ends up expanding over it.

Think.   In 1980 we were going to shrink government.

But compare this to 2009.

Being that the government is a drug dealer- that renders the War on Drugs to be a no win war.

Incidentally- the large banks are heavily involved in money laundering from the drug trade.  If you or I do it- we go to jail- yet the powers that be own and run the candy store.

So- after a generation of the drug war- we now have a war on terror.   This from a government which has shortchanged humans from day 1.   And it never stops.  

I have come to think there is not such a thing as a terrorist-  simply men who have been swindled of their wealth.

..so- Term you and I rob a bank- maybe we get $12,000.    We even arrange a really good get away car. 

Then what?    There is insurance on that-- but we would face jail.

Enter Goldman Saches, JP Morgan, Allen Greenspan, Ben Bernacki- they rob- the bank of trillions- and no one goes to jail.

This whole mess- think of how it goes.   The real profits had to be funneled to some offshore location.    The derivitives so high -- that we have already passed the bail out point where every single mortgage in America could be paid off.... so the mortgage mess is a cover.

A convenient cover.

The big banks leveraged- 33-60x the amount that they had.   And now they supposedly lost.  Well someone was at the other end of each trade. So the wealth went somewhere.

But we will never know.

They are lettting prisoners out- abit more then normal right now.

To stir things up- you can count on many being let out-figure gang wars going on- notebly ms13.    Throw in the illegal alien aspect to it- and the new supreme court judge Sontoneyu.

Blame it all on the hispanics. 

Blame in on anyone but the lousey financiers!

They would love to fan the flames and stoke a race war.

A community has to have a sense of ownership.  If I own a stake here- then I care what goes on.  I treat the neighborhood better.  But if thru foreclosures we all become vangrants- street bums- then we have little to lose in a community.

So the state has robbed its middleclass.  Thru slick lawyers and financiers.

Hence the War on Terror.

So now what happens?

Well- people will get mad. 

But anger all by itself wont solve anything.

The thing is- the super elite have done this for centuries.  Wipe out the masses.  Wipe out the wealth and hoard it for themself.


And we are no different.

Every 80 years or so... it happens.

But I digress.  Back to your post.

The jails will be more inline with your thoughts.  States simply wont have the funds to incarcerate endless amounts of people.

Some areas wont have the funds for proper police/fire/ect.

Everything has changed.  We just cant see it yet.


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RE: I didn't get an answer (from an ex-con) - 8/4/2009 3:39:19 PM   
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i'm trying to convince myself that this is not falling on deaf ears here and therefore is not similar to throwing pearls before the swines.... A few points i feel the need to clarify:

1. In most US prisons today most prisoners have the capacity to get a hold of a multitude of drugs and alcohol. Ironically just yesterday i was talking to a man who's latest time in prison was a 15 year stint and he was telling me how there was not a day in there that he was clean and sober.
2. i think ignorant and uneducated assumptions regarding people's personal beliefs about addiction are perhaps what keeps setting us back centuries. Term, there are in fact proven studies that heredity does in fact play a role in addiction. Addiction is a disease. It is not a moral issue, it is not a sign of weakness....There are certain characteristics one must meet in order to classify as being diagnosed as dependent.  Addiction is also a disease that impacts the brain and the brain functioning...

Just to set the record straight about these 'weak willed, young people, defict based people who have addictions'... Well guess what...i was those people... i am those people!! i got sober at 21 years old. Not because i was in trouble with the law...Not because i was looking at jail....Not because i wasn't paying my bills...Not because i was loosing my job.... But because i realized i could not live with myself the way i was anymore...i had reached a point where i was sick and tired of being sick and tired... i have now been clean and sober for the last 13 years...So, yeah i guess i take a little offense to the characterization there..
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RE: I didn't get an answer (from an ex-con) - 8/4/2009 3:52:45 PM   
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People who know me know I am for the death penalty, as well as making anything legal that the People want.


And there inlies the problem. What 'the people want' differs from person to person


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RE: I didn't get an answer (from an ex-con) - 8/4/2009 7:30:55 PM   
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What amenities are you talking about? The general public thinks every cell had a big wide screen tv in it, I hate to busted your bubble but they don't. There might be, if you are lucky, to have 2 rec rooms in a prison where minimum security prisoner can watch tv, The tv program is control by the guard(s) on duty. A prisoner has to buy everything, toothpaste, toothbrush, smokes, sodas, candy, ice cream and any other so called amenities.The only thing the prison system supply you with is a 6'x8' cell with a cot, 2 uniform and 3 meals, but if you on work detail, you only get two meals because usually you are away from the prison during lunch.


Thank you for saying that. I don't know where people get this idea that our prisons and jails are "country clubs." They don't know what the fuck they're talking about. I have a friend in a minimum security joint now. They HAVE to work, or they get sent to isolation. After their time in isolation, if they refuse to work, they get transferred to a max security unit. They have to pay for EVERYTHING; toothpaste, soap, snacks, etc. If they don't have friends and relatives putting money into their commissary accounts, they don't get shit. They only get the indigent allowances of bare minimum hygeine products. Also, commissary is a privilige. It's a privilge what inmates are allowed to buy from the commissary. My friend wants to buy a radio, but she has to wait until she moves up a level. They have to work their asses off to make those levels. Honestly, everything with the exception of mail is a privilge. It can all be taken away from the inmates for the slightest infraction. They have a ton of rules, and a zero tolerance policy for breaking the rules. They don't fuck around with them in there. I don't understand why people think prisoners just lay around all day watcing television. It's just absolute ignorance.

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RE: I didn't get an answer (from an ex-con) - 8/4/2009 8:20:54 PM   
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My friend wants to buy a radio, but she has to wait until she moves up a level.


You are welcome. It also should be said that the items purchased at the canteen/commissary are marked up to as high as 100%. A radio you could buy at Wal Marts for 19.99 would cost a prisoner almost 50 bucks.

Since the Federal government has banned smoking in public or federal buildings, smoking is not allow in medium or maxium security prisons. A tin of Bugler tobacco which retailed for around $11 now goes for $200 in these cellblocks and that doesn't included the rolling papers.

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RE: I didn't get an answer (from an ex-con) - 8/4/2009 9:25:45 PM   
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You are welcome. It also should be said that the items purchased at the canteen/commissary are marked up to as high as 100%. A radio you could buy at Wal Marts for 19.99 would cost a prisoner almost 50 bucks.

Since the Federal government has banned smoking in public or federal buildings, smoking is not allow in medium or maxium security prisons. A tin of Bugler tobacco which retailed for around $11 now goes for $200 in these cellblocks and that doesn't included the rolling papers.


Yep, a radio with headphones (which is required) is going to cost her $25.00. I looked up the model she said they sold, and it goes for around $10.00 at local retail stores. I would love to send her books, because she is an avid reader like me. I have a ton of them I could get rid of. But they only allow books that are sent directly from the publisher or a "reliable" retailer ie. Amazon, Books-a-Million. I can donate my books to the prison library, which I am in the process of doing. I actually talked to the director (they don't call them wardens in the minimum security places here. Nor do they call the inmates...inmates. They are "residents" ). She was really nice to me. I told her I wanted to donate my rather large surplus of books to their library, and she explained the process to me. She was very pleasant and told me that she wished more of "her girls" (her words) had friends like me.

The state here banned smoking in 2000. It used to sale Bugler for around a dollar a pouch prior to that. My brother did 1 1/2 for a probation violation (stemming from a 2nd degree battery charge) in a max unit. He said the guards smuggled in tobacco, and it cost $40.00 for a bag of bugler. Yeah I said it folks, the GUARDS smuggle in a lot of the contraband. In the minimum security places, they don't get that. They are under an honor system with their programs, and the other inmates will snitch on folks. In max units they don't do that. In fact, my brother said the guards didn't fuck with them in the max unit. He said they had guys doing life terms, and they wouldn't hesitate to shank a guard. He said he saw an overbearing, strict female guard get almost beaten to death by an inmate doing 3 life terms for murder. When he was waiting for medical once, a male nurse was being an asshole. He said this big black dude that was like 6'4" told him, "Motherfucker you better remember where you are." So the guards knew better about being too draconian in their dealings with inmates. Minimum security inmates don't do that. They want to go home, and they are much more compliant. Minimum security prisons cost less than max units, so they aren't country clubs. The staff at minimum security places expect the inmates to police themselves.

All that being said, I am not advocating anarchy. I understand that we have to have consequences for those that break the rules. But in my view, we should strive to make prisoners better people than they were when they came in. Draconian, harsh treatment only makes someone a harder, unempathetic person. It's turns out better criminals, not better citizens.

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RE: I didn't get an answer (from an ex-con) - 8/5/2009 7:00:19 AM   
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..after a radio- next they will want a TV.   or something.

if you send money- more is requested.

...then there is the I traded my lunch for this postage stamp.   haaaaaaaaaaaaa!

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RE: I didn't get an answer (from an ex-con) - 8/5/2009 9:19:17 PM   
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..after a radio- next they will want a TV. or something.

if you send money- more is requested.

...then there is the I traded my lunch for this postage stamp. haaaaaaaaaaaaa!


pahunkboy, if I was writing to a stranger, I'd agree with you. However, I'm not. I 've known my friend for many years; long before all this happened. So I would appreciate it if you would stop with your baseless assumptions on my friend's character. It's insulting.

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RE: I didn't get an answer (from an ex-con) - 8/5/2009 10:33:16 PM   
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Not to mention those who can't 'handle' the drugs they take and murder a stranger for no other reason than "man I was just soooo high!"
Given the number of people that do drugs and the minuscule number of such crimes I would say that is kind of irrelevant. Far more people kill in a drunken rage that do so when stoned out.


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RE: I didn't get an answer (from an ex-con) - 8/5/2009 10:34:18 PM   
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I NEVER base my opinion of anyone on their standing in law. If they convict you, sure I might want to know why, and if that bothers me oh well. I have never had any concern whatsoever whether something is legal or not, except from the angle of getting caught and the costs involved.

They do not legislate my morality, nor did any suppossedly holy writings in the Bible or whatever. True morality is borne from true regret. Lomg ago I made aboiut a thousand dollars an hour, for a short time. What I did was to instruct a saboteur. I regret doing that, because it hurt industry in this country. They can never ever prove or even thinki of bringing charges, I am not worried about them. I am worried about me. I was once so wreckless with my Creator endowed talent that I would do this ? Needless to say I'll never do anything of the sort again.

And over the years I have found that trust is worth more than anything you could ever steal. Doubt these words ? Just try to steal trust !

Now how the hell do we instill such values in people when they are full grown, or mostly ? Sorting this out is a big mess. In addition, just right from wrong is an issue, Re: my people counting money who grab silver certificares and such, anything old.

Speaking metaphorically, it seems they keep drawing the line closer and closer. One of these day we need to decide just where that line should be, leave it there and get very nasty with those who cross it. This includes more than just having to buy your own toothpaste.

Very few long timers, and no lifers. If you are going to lock someone up for the resr of their life you might as well just execute him. Perhaps this is too pragmatic for some people (if I got the word right)

I would support education in correctional facilities, but if it gets too good people wil start teaching their kids to rob banks, unsuccessfully. I am not saying that prison is a country club or the life of whatever for everybody, but when you have money it can be well, not so bad. In the scenario I descrobed in the OP, there would be no buyable now saleable privieledges. Worse than the army, worse than anyhting. Work, eat, sleep, learn maybe. That's it. Eery minute accounted for. But not for twenty fucking years.

Longtimers get out and have nowhere to go. After all thiose years family and good friends may have moved away or died off. The will have no house, no car, no job, not many connections with which to regain same. First and foremost if you want to reduce recidivivism(sp) why make it extra hard on them ? A new driver's license in Ohio is up over $25 now, they could for three days on that much, but not for long. Prices will catch up.

Like Chris Rock said "Life is catching up to jail". (Feel The Pain, I got it but it is too big for most people's mailboxes)

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RE: I didn't get an answer (from an ex-con) - 8/5/2009 10:38:19 PM   
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Face it, you go to a drug dealer, pay him the money and get your drugs. Go hiome and do the drugs. Don't hurt anyone, don't overdo, just enjoy yourself. Who has been harmed ? The dealer did not steal, you simply paid. You didn't give any of the shit to kids, you didn't break anything, especially anything that wasn't your's. So if there is no harm how can there be a crime ?
you paint a sweet, relaxed scenario, Term, but not realistic. Drugs use results in addiction, more often  than not. Addiction leads to crime to pay for the drugs. 


darlin, you know I love you.. but I gotta say that ya might wanna put a qualifier on that last statement.

For all the years I was using, I NEVER committed a crime to pay for drugs.   And those I associated with regularly did not either...




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RE: I didn't get an answer (from an ex-con) - 8/5/2009 10:44:15 PM   
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