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gift4mistress -> RE: For the male sub only.... (8/5/2009 11:02:36 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: GreedyTop You didnt say anything about having to sing it LIKE HM.. just that ya had to sing it .. Thus the confusion as to why gender would make a difference... She might have asked me to sing it like HM. I will plea the fifth on that.

GreedyTop -> RE: For the male sub only.... (8/5/2009 11:05:36 PM)
giggle

tazzygirl -> RE: For the male sub only.... (8/5/2009 11:08:33 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: gift4mistress Because, I would a assume that it would be easier for a female sub to sing a female song than, lets say, a male sub sing a female song? This of course wouldn't be true for all females or for all males. However, I would assume that this would be more of a difficult task for a male than a female (on average). Lets say your mistress/dom wants you to sing a Pretty Ricky song. I think you would have some doubt in "wanting" to do it. You might still do it; I'm sure you won't complain but in your head you'll be thinking "fuck this" or some variation of that. if he wants it, he gets it. lol... and i would have a huge laugh doing it. unless its a punishment, why not just enjoy and relax. and if your into humiliation, even better. if not... no big deal, i doubt anyone else was watching... and unless you two have been celibate when together, she has seen you do far more... degrading.. things than singing a song (and by degrading, im thinking of that time i crawled naked to his feet and begged for an hour before he even responded)

gift4mistress -> RE: For the male sub only.... (8/5/2009 11:25:41 PM)
Try to look at it from my perspective. I like to learn about war, battles, and etc so people like Napoleon, Alexander the Great, and etc is what I read about. I like to listen to mostly hard music like Korn, Disturbed, etc.. (unless in the mood for soft music). I'm not emotional and I always analyze everything I here/read/see. Lastly, I have never been introduced (nor did I ever want to be) to this type of culture. All of the sudden, Hanna Montanna shoots out of the wood work from out of know where. Here I am reading a song that is just HORRIBLE in every way possible (has no meaning,no message thus it's useless, and makes no sense). It's also a HAPPY, YAY, EMOTIONAL, AND KORNY SONG. Not only did I have to read the song, but I also had to listen to the song MANY times. Yes, I am complaining however I never complained to her directly. I put a fake smile on my face and learned the song, but I was thinking "fuck this shit" in my head while doing this whole project. I won't lie her reaction to my singing was funny for me. I felt better that she was laughing again (she wasn't having a good day). So in that regard, I liked what I did for her. But still, the music is HORRIFIC.

GreedyTop -> RE: For the male sub only.... (8/5/2009 11:27:16 PM)
ya shoulda done the song in the styleof Korn ;)

tazzygirl -> RE: For the male sub only.... (8/6/2009 7:08:44 AM)
These are things you said about yourself.... I'm not emotional I always analyze everything I here/read/see I have never been introduced (nor did I ever want to be) to this type of culture I like to listen to mostly hard music like Korn, Disturbed, etc It's also a HAPPY, YAY, EMOTIONAL, AND KORNY SONG I won't lie her reaction to my singing was funny for me maybe, just maybe, she is trying to pull you out of the shell you have created? you seem far too serious, but i cant be for sure based upon your words, she would know better. maybe she is just doing her job and exposing you to the silly, funny, emotional side of life. but i am glad you did it. rather proud of you too, even though that doesnt mean much. in the end, you pleased her. and thats all that matters kudos to you!

RedMagic1 -> RE: For the male sub only.... (8/6/2009 7:17:01 AM)
gift4mistress, you know what would really touch her heart? If you learned what her favorite silly bubblegum song was, and then secretly, on your own, learned it... and then you surprised her one day by singing it for her. That would be worth lots and lots of points, especially because she knows how much it would pain you to do it. Feel free to have a burning desire to kick my ass, but I bet you know I'm right, and it would be a wonderful thing to do for her.

peppermint -> RE: For the male sub only.... (8/6/2009 8:37:01 AM)
Now we can begin to understand why she ask you to do it. Lighten up. Have fun. Laugh a little. Cry a little. Feel.

BalletBob -> RE: For the male sub only.... (8/6/2009 9:25:20 AM)
I know I WOULD ! I have the legs for it....and maybe the shoes? But them again, I think she just wears sneakers, like almost all the females and males do now days anyway. Miss the good old days of girls dressing as girls day, sub BalletBob

BalletBob -> RE: For the male sub only.... (8/6/2009 9:27:09 AM)
So right Peppermint. If you are not having FUN, why even bother to be in this lifestyle? You can become a Politician instead, and grow up to be a PRUDE ! Always in for the FUN, sub BalletBob

serverbob -> RE: For the male sub only.... (8/6/2009 11:19:44 AM)
For me, this is a matter of obedience, which is very much my "trigger". If the dominant only requires the submissive to do things he likes, then there really is no opportunity to display his complete obedience to her. Your domme has given you the opportunity to show your obedience in all three ways: Physically, by performing the song to your best ability; Mentally, by telling her about your mental disobedience in not recognizing the wosdom of her demand (thereby giving her the opportunity to correct your wrong or discordant thinking); and emotionally, by likewise telling her that you did not take joy and pride in acceeding to her wish (again giving her the opportunity to help you adjust your discordant perspective on the issue). I may sound more accusatory than I should, but you have missed something that could have been an incredibly beautiful moment of catharsys. Even now, you could have that moment back by telling her about your reluctance to obey her. If you are fortunate, it might lead to a long discussion about obedience and the pride you take in yourself as opposed to the pride you take in being her submissive. Trust me when I say that the latter has always served me better. Thus, my answer is that yeah, I'd learn the song. Since I have a natural dislike for cross-dressing, it would be even more powerful if she made me dress the part.

Wheldrake -> RE: For the male sub only.... (8/6/2009 3:23:26 PM)
I must have led a sheltered life, since I know absolutely nothing about Hanna(h?) Montana. But yes, if Mistress wanted me to dress up as a cute, silly female character and memorise a cute, silly song, I suppose I would do my best. I don't think I would even find this too unpleasant, as long as it was just me and Mistress behind closed doors - tiresome, probably, but not unpleasant. Several times she's made me do private striptease dances for her, and I genuinely can't figure out whether she finds them erotic or just enjoys making me look ridiculous. Either way, I certainly feel ridiculous when I do them, but I've been through the ritual enough times that I'm pretty much inured to feelings of absurdity and humiliation. As long as it's just the two of us. To up the ante a little, having to dress up like Hanna Montana and sing in front of her friends would be more difficult, but I'm sure I'd obey if she seriously ordered me to do this. How would others feel about going this far?

CatdeMedici -> RE: For the male sub only.... (8/6/2009 4:56:29 PM)
If he did it, I'd dismiss him, those songs are vile.

LadyPact -> RE: For the male sub only.... (8/6/2009 5:58:59 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: GreedyTop aww, c'mon, Vanity.. you'd be so cute in a Hannah outfit ;) Agreed.

VanityFix -> RE: For the male sub only.... (8/6/2009 11:13:42 PM)
well maybe.. halloween is comin up and all. [;)]

GreedyTop -> RE: For the male sub only.... (8/6/2009 11:14:32 PM)
PICS!! must have PICS!!

DesFIP -> RE: For the male sub only.... (8/7/2009 1:13:45 PM)
If it was because she knew she would find it funny, and she needed cheering up, then why not? If it was at home in private. Unless you are okay with public humiliation. Maybe next time say "sure, but why on earth would you want me to?", Because I'm betting if she told you ahead of time that she thought that would cheer her up, you wouldn't have objected so much. But did she require the fake smile, or did she just require that you do it?

JoeVanilla -> RE: For the male sub only.... (8/7/2009 5:45:48 PM)
You claim to not be emotional yet you describe what seems like a strong emotional reaction to the task you were given. Maybe that's what she wanted...

freakyforu -> RE: For the male sub only.... (8/7/2009 6:45:45 PM)
Sure. No problem. My pleasure. What would you like me to wear? Dance too? You bet. This could be fun, and embarassing, especially with an audience. But considering my talent for song and dance, I think this may hurt the audience more than it hurts me. Just saying.

BKSir -> RE: For the male sub only.... (8/7/2009 7:15:32 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: VanityFix well maybe.. halloween is comin up and all. [;)] quote: ORIGINAL: VanityFix PICS!! must have PICS!! I wholeheartedly agree with Greedy! [:D]

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