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Need some fresh new ideas for the weekend - 8/5/2009 2:16:24 PM   
FusedMusic


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Status: offline 		I currently am in a dominating relationship with a female slave, we have had a few sessions and now she will be staying with me for the weekend. im looking for some fresh new ideas for humiliation, punishment, and general things to have my slave do to show her ownership and expression of this, as well as show my dominance over her. All ideas welcome!
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RE: Need some fresh new ideas for the weekend - 8/5/2009 2:23:47 PM   
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RE: Need some fresh new ideas for the weekend - 8/5/2009 2:26:13 PM   
FusedMusic


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Status: offline 		well I always have her email me every morning and every night to let me know of any appointments whether they are doctors or business meetings. So this past day she forgot to mention an appointment with a business partner, and then added another appointment to her day without asking, as she always is supposed to ask first. 

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RE: Need some fresh new ideas for the weekend - 8/5/2009 2:38:02 PM   
SirMIkeSD


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Status: offline 		No one can pick something that will help you humiliate her, we don't have clue what would be humiliating to her. What works for some does not work for others. You are the dom, you are the only one that would know what would make you feel like more of an owner. DO you really think that she needs to be punished for not telling you about a business meeting, maybe you need to talk to her about why she forgot and are your rules working in her office life.

Have you used the search function here to look for advise to new doms?

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RE: Need some fresh new ideas for the weekend - 8/5/2009 2:39:51 PM   
FusedMusic


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Status: offline 		Yeah I see where you are coming from, makes sense. Ill have to do that with the search feature, I didnt even think about that. Thank you!

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RE: Need some fresh new ideas for the weekend - 8/6/2009 10:54:24 PM   
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Status: offline 		Try a Military Basic Training theme. Be a Drill Sergeant. On another night, be a guard and she is your naughty prisoner. On a last night, have her dress real slutty and revealing. She has to go to a gas station, buy whatever on a list, and come back to your door as a hooker.

Do you have a good friend who works in food delivery? Order some food and start a spanking session. She won't know it's your friend. When the door bell rings, leave the sub tied up in the living room. Open the door and let the guy in. Tell him to set the food on top of the tied up bitch. Have your friend act like nothing is wrong. Have a creative script between you and your friend. Your imagination is the limit.

That should be enough for you this weekend. If you have to get real cruel, make her bake chocolate chip cookies. She will not be allowed to eat any of them or the cookie dough. However, she'll have to feed you or simply throw them away.  

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RE: Need some fresh new ideas for the weekend - 8/6/2009 10:59:25 PM   
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RE: Need some fresh new ideas for the weekend - 8/6/2009 11:09:33 PM   
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Status: offline 		all I could think of is that he's expecting her to get permission from him to meet a business related contact..   unless she's a hooker, I see that as a red flag.

But that's just me.

eta: especially after "a few sessions".   Has the dynamic been established enough for him to have that kind of control over her without risk to her employment?

smacks of fantasy, to me. 

(or maybe I'm just too irritated by shit tonight..)


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RE: Need some fresh new ideas for the weekend - 8/6/2009 11:11:50 PM   
FusedMusic


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Status: offline 		I'm definitely liking your ideas FangsNFeet...ill have to some of those to use.



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RE: Need some fresh new ideas for the weekend - 8/7/2009 4:46:42 AM   
thishereboi


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ORIGINAL: FusedMusic

well I always have her email me every morning and every night to let me know of any appointments whether they are doctors or business meetings. So this past day she forgot to mention an appointment with a business partner, and then added another appointment to her day without asking, as she always is supposed to ask first. 


Wow, that is awful. Maybe you should tell her you are cancelling the weekend and she will have to stay home and think about what she did wrong.

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RE: Need some fresh new ideas for the weekend - 8/7/2009 4:53:30 AM   
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ORIGINAL: FusedMusic

well I always have her email me every morning and every night to let me know of any appointments whether they are doctors or business meetings. So this past day she forgot to mention an appointment with a business partner, and then added another appointment to her day without asking, as she always is supposed to ask first.


God yeah that is terrible, I would chop all her hair off and make her eat it then have "I must remember" tattooed on her skull. Sorry but sometimes life happens, is forgetting really punishable?

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RE: Need some fresh new ideas for the weekend - 8/7/2009 6:32:08 AM   
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Wow, that is awful. Maybe you should tell her you are cancelling the weekend and she will have to stay home and think about what she did wrong.
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ORIGINAL: thishereboi

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ORIGINAL: FusedMusic

well I always have her email me every morning and every night to let me know of any appointments whether they are doctors or business meetings. So this past day she forgot to mention an appointment with a business partner, and then added another appointment to her day without asking, as she always is supposed to ask first. 


Wow, that is awful. Maybe you should tell her you are cancelling the weekend and she will have to stay home and think about what she did wrong.


Posting gold right there.

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RE: Need some fresh new ideas for the weekend - 8/7/2009 6:38:55 AM   
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ORIGINAL: GreedyTop

all I could think of is that he's expecting her to get permission from him to meet a business related contact..   unless she's a hooker, I see that as a red flag.

But that's just me.

eta: especially after "a few sessions".   Has the dynamic been established enough for him to have that kind of control over her without risk to her employment?

smacks of fantasy, to me. 

(or maybe I'm just too irritated by shit tonight..)



Early morning here; and I agree.....*slurps coffee*.....with all three points and I am not irritated

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RE: Need some fresh new ideas for the weekend - 8/7/2009 11:07:45 AM   
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ORIGINAL: FusedMusic

I currently am in a dominating relationship with a female slave, we have had a few sessions and now she will be staying with me for the weekend. im looking for some fresh new ideas for humiliation, punishment, and general things to have my slave do to show her ownership and expression of this, as well as show my dominance over her. All ideas welcome!



First I want it undersood that my post in no way meant to demean or put down the OP
It's perfectly fine to go off for a weekend and role play as a Dom and slave
It is perfectly fine to ask for ideas, that is what the forums are here for
I personally would not attempt humiliation scenes with someone who I do not know all that well
I personally have a hard limit when it comes to the use of "punishment" in a scene. It just does not sit well with me
show her ownership show my dominance
Those above statements make me feel that you may want to believe that you are, but are not really sure. You think that we as a group, could give you an activity that would somehow bring these feelings to the surface. I may be reading too much into that and if so, I apologize, but I can't honestly think of an activity that would accomplish this

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RE: Need some fresh new ideas for the weekend - 8/7/2009 4:57:55 PM   
FangsNfeet


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Status: offline 		Well FM, here's another idea. Do a kidnapping/rape scene. Have her stay at your place while you go out. Sneak back in as a masked man. Force her in the back of your trunk. Drive her around for a few miles or so. Bring her back to your house to an extra room designed for play. Have your way with her. Ofcourse she'll know it's really you the whole time. However, the drive and the stopping place can still be a suprise.

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RE: Need some fresh new ideas for the weekend - 8/7/2009 7:54:04 PM   
MasterMgm


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ORIGINAL: FangsNfeet

Well FM, here's another idea. Do a kidnapping/rape scene. Have her stay at your place while you go out. Sneak back in as a masked man. Force her in the back of your trunk. Drive her around for a few miles or so. Bring her back to your house to an extra room designed for play. Have your way with her. Ofcourse she'll know it's really you the whole time. However, the drive and the stopping place can still be a suprise.


Just be careful if you do the fake kidnapping. I knew a Master who kidnapped his slave one night and was going to drive her around the block and come back home. He was pulled over by the police for failure to make a complete stop at a stop sign. The police officer heard the slave moving around in the trunk, He was arrested for kidnapping. He spent the next 4 hours at the police station trying to explain to them, it was fake and kinky sex!!!!!

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RE: Need some fresh new ideas for the weekend - 8/7/2009 8:08:48 PM   
Musicmystery


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as well as show my dominance over her


If that's necessary, it's not established.

Perhaps just start there.


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RE: Need some fresh new ideas for the weekend - 8/11/2009 7:54:14 PM   
FangsNfeet


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Status: offline 		So how did the weekend go? Which ideas did you try? What worked out? We want details. Let us know that our valuable time on your thread did not end in vein.
What happened?

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