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KCalli -> RE: Untested Canadian Sub - Hello! (8/8/2009 6:17:55 PM)
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ORIGINAL: VanIsleKnight
G'morning everyone, or at least the ones that are reading this right now. :) I'm J, but I can go by Vik as well if you'd like. VanIsleKnight is a bit of a handful so I lucked out in having a nice short nickname.
I heard about this site through a friend of mine who is also a submissive, and she found someone rather wonderful so I thought that I would give it a shot as well. I am twenty-two years old and live in Victoria, on Vancouver Island - Canada. I've been living here for about... 3-4 years now I think (I'm terrible with time and dates) and absolutely love it here.
I've been a submissive since... jeez, I'd have to say childhood. Not -sexually- of course but personality wise. I've always preferred a support role, been generally meek, timid, eager to please, that kind of thing. I used to be really extroverted, some Bad Things happened, went introverted, and now I'm kind of a mix of both. I hope that one day, I will find the one I have been searching for, needing, and can live a life of happy servitude.
I read through some of the different profiles and had no idea that there were some people taking on the roles of actual servants, and am not really sure I fully understand how far some people will go. Personally I think that's amazing, and kind of hope for that for myself.
Though I'm worried that when I get old I'll just be discarded and thrown out ;^_^ but hopefully I'll find a Mistress (or Mistress and Master) that would love and care about me as much as I would them.
Anyways, I'm going to go look around the forum now!
Good luck to you! The key is to be as careful selecting (or even more so) in who you choose to serve as a Vanilla would choose a match. Give it time and let it develop. Trust is key. You will find the right Master/Mistress. It is not to be taken lightly. grinning) Even as a submissive, as I am, or slave. You have control with contract. I like to say there can't be a Dom with out a sub, or there can't be a Master/Mistress without a slave. It runs both ways. Needs and responsibilities fulfilled on both sides.
As far as getting discarded or thrown out. It can and does happen, but then again, as a slave, or sub, we are valued if we serve well. Again, careful thought and taking time to let a relationship build is the key, you might start out as a sub, and move onto slave as things develop, even through a course of years.
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