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RE: TS girls - 8/9/2009 9:14:06 AM

malloves69

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for men interested in meeting ts girls go to eros.com ..click on your state ..then click on ts girls ..to see what girls are in your area

ladys too can use the site if the ts girls are into seeing women also

been there ..done that also ...some ts girls are very hot looking some are very scary looking as well ..buyer beware ..yes they cost ..my .02 cents worth ..suxs when you pay their fee and their dick cant get up ..not much fun playing with a limp dick --lol blamed it on the hormones they were taking ...mal

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RE: TS girls - 8/9/2009 9:19:40 AM

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Or alternatively go to a transgendered club mal then you don't have to pay.

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RE: TS girls - 8/9/2009 4:41:28 PM

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I haven't gone looking for anyone transgendered to be in a relationship with. It's not my kink. If I like someone transgendered enough to become intimate with them, well, I like boy bits, I like girl bits, it's all good, we'll work it out. But it's not something to worry with before time.

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RE: TS girls - 8/9/2009 8:13:52 PM

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I would take on a male sub OR a female sub, but somehow I have a barrier to taking on one who's a bit of both. If I have a male sub I want his physical strength and to enjoy Myself with his cock. If I have a female sub, I'm "sacrificing" those attributes in favour of feminine ones, such as the capacity to relate as women do, and also being willing to wear a skirt, and have a pussy for Me to play with. I can't quite get My head around a TS person, I don't feel I know how to relate to them properly, My problem not theirs.

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RE: TS girls - 8/10/2009 12:37:19 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: MaamJay

I would take on a male sub OR a female sub, but somehow I have a barrier to taking on one who's a bit of both. If I have a male sub I want his physical strength and to enjoy Myself with his cock. If I have a female sub, I'm "sacrificing" those attributes in favour of feminine ones, such as the capacity to relate as women do, and also being willing to wear a skirt, and have a pussy for Me to play with. I can't quite get My head around a TS person, I don't feel I know how to relate to them properly, My problem not theirs.

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Jay aka violet - I had to smile when I read your post, because before I was in a relationship with Otter, I probably would have had the same perspective. I haven't in the past 'gone looking' for a TS person specifically, the universe has just gifted me a few times.

What I have found is being with a girlie boy really doesn't take any special relating. I've found Otter to have all the attributes (both male and female) that you listed above, except he is possessed solely of male genitalia. So, being a primarily straight Fem, it's a delicious situation.

A genuine, submissive demeanor, quite able to proactively serve and companion are the most valuable assets, which are not gender exclusive. (IMO)

Caution - Personal Opinion below.....

One opinion I do have, is that it's much easier to be with a TS/TG person if you are comfortable in your own skin. If you have any personal worries about 'what other people will think' I believe it would be harder to walk with someone who projects/possesses traits outside the societal norm. For me, I embrace the 'third gender' and value each person's individuality. I celebrate authenticity.

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RE: TS girls - 8/11/2009 9:01:55 AM

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TY for Your comment and I find it interesting that You feel there's no special relating needed. I wonder whether to some extent My perspective hasn't been clouded by an unsuccessful relationship with a cross-dresser for whom the fetish was everything. Now I KNOW TS and CD are entirely different, it's more what's happening in My headspace, dealing with a blend of male and female characteristics. It wasn't a happy scenario, and I might have to work to overcome that and do some re-programming in order to be at ease with a TS person. Something to definitely consider, why limit the pool of prospects!

Being outside the norm is much less of an issue, as a D/s with a Master who is 15 years younger and a long-haired rock guitarist to boot ... and with whom i engage in ageplay so He is Dadda and i am bubba ... well, let's say a TS person wouldn't really rock the boat too much! However I acknowledge it could easily be a concern.

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RE: TS girls - 8/11/2009 10:18:22 AM

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I certainly don't feel less than human...not sure what the OP meant by that comment...

As it is pretty well known here, I advocate for girlie-boys all the time! Being one, I admit self interest

, but also I think there is a definite place for femme boys in the BDSM world and I want as many Ladies as possible to have positive experiences in encounters and relationships with our kind.

Part of that positive experience, it helps if girlie-boys (IMO) do their best to, as my Lady pointed out, be "authentic" and live "authentically" as much as possible. Not saying that we need to be girlie all the time and threaten jobs, etc. What I mean is that I believe we should embrace who and what we are, celebrate it, not hide it, and frankly own our kink. To me, this means that we honor and exercise our girlie side regularly, so that the fact that we are girlie becomes just one aspect of an overall balanced and rounded person - ready to be an active participant in a BDSM relationship and all that it entails and not just a one-trick-pony looking only to satisfy a kink that we have denied and hidden until it becomes an all consuming fetish.

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