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BostonRobert -> New guy, saying hello, seeking advice... (2/22/2006 11:29:16 AM)
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Hello all. Nice community you've got here. I'm a 46-year-old guy, newly divorced and newly aware that I've been turned on by bondage play for YEARS (tie her up, play at abductions, roll-play, etc) but that I never really did much about it. Ex-wife eventually decided I was a pervert, just for my asking to play. (And none of YOU have been accused of that, oh noooo...[;)] )
Now I realize that I'm probably a pretty typical bedroom-bondage non-S&M dom (am I right?). Also of course that wanting sex once or more a week doesn't make me weird, either. (She was vanilla, and a pretty bland vanilla at that.)
So, having allowed some months to shake the marriage out of my system, I'm now very aware that I would love to find someone to play with, and maybe to get to know well. Suggestions? I've not dated since the Carter administration; I feel very much a n00b in the singles world, aside from the scene. But here I am a couple decades later, balding (but fit and attractive otherwise), and profoundly clueless about how to reconnect.
Also: must I post a photo to have any success here? (Or on other boards.) I'm pretty hung up on my privacy, and thus am unlikely to show myself at a munch. But I guess I really must be sending one with my messages if I don't post it, right?
In my hornier moments, I've even considered craigslist, which seems capable of infinite weirdness, if not necessarily any genuinely satisfying encounters. Anyone messed with that? (Please don't scorn me as a HNG; I am what I am.)
Thanks!
- Bob
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