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Feedback please. - 8/10/2009 8:38:21 PM   
DarkCharles


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Status: offline 		I am here to get your oppinions on this.
In your veiw is it ok for a unowned sub/slave to temporarily train with someone while waiting on a master to get properly situated and prepared to own one of his own?
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RE: Feedback please. - 8/10/2009 8:42:38 PM   
DarkSteven


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RE: Feedback please. - 8/10/2009 8:50:31 PM   
leadership527


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Status: offline 		Sure it's "OK". I'm not even sure who would define "ok" and not other than the sub in question. I do have to wonder about it's usefulness to that person, but hey, if it works out I'm all for it.

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RE: Feedback please. - 8/10/2009 8:51:08 PM   
WyldHrt


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Status: offline 		Dark Charles, meet Dark Steven... who is quite correct
Now, where is the Dark when we need her?

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RE: Feedback please. - 8/10/2009 8:52:02 PM   
LadyPact


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Status: offline 		I'd probably ask exactly why someone would want to wait.  Why not just chose someone who is already 'together'?

This might be more direct to your question.


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RE: Feedback please. - 8/10/2009 8:53:46 PM   
Rokaku


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quote:

ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

If a slave is unowned, he or she can do whatever they please.



I agree.  Until they're owned their under no obligations to follow just anyone who is/thinks they're a dom/domme, that would just be silly if they did follow everyone. 

From what I've heard a lot of submissives actually train with other dominants before meeting up with theirs.  Than again it depends on the relationship and the persons comfort level.  If they're technically in a relationship with the dominant and no one has really talked it out with each other, than that could be kinda...odd, otherwise they can train with any person they want without it being weird and shit.

In other words DarkSteven is horribly intelligent and should be listened to.


< Message edited by Rokaku -- 8/10/2009 8:54:25 PM >

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RE: Feedback please. - 8/10/2009 11:13:57 PM   
aldompdx


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An attached submissive person may choose to remain dedicated to their partner.
A non attached person may make another choice.

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RE: Feedback please. - 8/11/2009 12:03:33 AM   
Acer49


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quote:

ORIGINAL: DarkCharles

I am here to get your oppinions on this.
In your veiw is it ok for a unowned sub/slave to temporarily train with someone while waiting on a master to get properly situated and prepared to own one of his own?



This is a personal decision, but for me, I would would not want or expect someone else to take on a responsibilty which should be only mine

< Message edited by Acer49 -- 8/11/2009 12:04:55 AM >

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RE: Feedback please. - 8/11/2009 12:15:54 AM   
Muirren


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Status: offline 		I am an unowned sub and I train with whomever I please.

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RE: Feedback please. - 8/11/2009 12:17:05 AM   
SouthernSpankin


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quote:

ORIGINAL: DarkCharles

I am here to get your oppinions on this.
In your veiw is it ok for a unowned sub/slave to temporarily train with someone while waiting on a master to get properly situated and prepared to own one of his own?


Would it be okay for a single woman to date someone else while waiting on another guy to get properly situated and prepared to have a girlfriend of his own?

< Message edited by SouthernSpankin -- 8/11/2009 12:25:44 AM >

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RE: Feedback please. - 8/11/2009 1:59:24 AM   
Arpig


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Sure, why not. There are no rules to this.


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RE: Feedback please. - 8/11/2009 3:58:05 AM   
sirsholly


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