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RE: how do I retrain my brain? - 8/15/2009 9:01:00 AM

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btw, it wasn't just random strangers but Doms i had developed an online friendship with, if that helps any...

Though, random strangers can do the job just fine, if need be. At least, in my experience. :)

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RE: how do I retrain my brain? - 8/15/2009 9:06:11 AM

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ORIGINAL: Missokyst

I can never understand when people read threads like these, they even want to go down that CoC alley.
I can CoC, but that is on my command, not some cum dictator. Why is everyone so hot to learn this skill?
It is soooooooooooo much more fun to be teased, tormented, tortured, played, fucked, fingered, beat for hours and hours on end.

OP.. this is what you do. Find an hour for a long bath. Make sure there is no one around to disturb you or any phone that can ring. Sit yourself under the faucet, push your hips all the way against the bathtub wall so that your clit is under the faucet. Do not put the stopper in the tub! Turn the water on. It is going to beat over you, just let it. Let it until it runs cold. This is not the same deal as a shower massage. With that you will get tired before you cum. Laying there and just letting the water rule you is much more likely to let it just happen.

A hot tub jet will work that way too and it is a lot easier to find a comfortable position. At least for me. Just make sure you lock the door.

on a personal note, if I ever hook up with someone who is into COC, I am going to think twice about going along with it. Just saying.

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RE: how do I retrain my brain? - 8/15/2009 9:07:38 AM

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ORIGINAL: windchymes

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ORIGINAL: Missokyst

This is not the same deal as a shower massage. With that you will get tired before you cum. Laying there and just letting the water rule you is much more likely to let it just happen.

Hmmm.....perhaps you haven't met the right shower massage?

That gets me off the fastest of anything, and the jets in a hot tub are pretty much up there with Hitachi Magic Wand. Just don't tell my sister and her husband how I know that......she thinks I just like babysitting her dogs when they go out of town

That's funny. I can still hear my sister asking me "what's wrong with the tub upstairs?"

Well, no water jets duh. and no I didn't say that.

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RE: how do I retrain my brain? - 8/15/2009 9:10:03 AM

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ORIGINAL: SweetNika

lol Dang another reason I hate having a shower only in my apartment.
Thanks again everyone for the advice I am taking it all.

Edited to add: This may sound crazy but even today I dont regret turning over the most primal of things such as having an orgasm to my former owner.

Shower only, very hard, but not impossible. The trick is to have very strong water pressure and be flexible.

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RE: how do I retrain my brain? - 8/15/2009 10:43:04 AM

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on a personal note, if I ever hook up with someone who is into COC, I am going to think twice about going along with it. Just saying.

Yes! Please do! This is one of those things there's not nearly enough discussion of, let alone rigorous scientific study (lol I can only imagine what those controlled experiments would be like). It never dawned on me that the effects of such training could be so long lasting especially since other kinds of training tend to be transitory and need constant re-inforcement.

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