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RE: BOIZ, LEMME TELL YOU HOW IT'S DONE....THAT TIRED OL... - 8/30/2009 9:29:46 PM   
LadyNTrainer


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Dominants see such phrases much more literally, I've noticed, than subs will use them.  Given that one still has power while one remains alive, 'total surrender' might even imply the sub's death.  That's not so silly as it sounds, given that on another thread, recently, certain dommes have been talking about the desire to eat their subs.


Cannibal/vore fantasies are not, at least for me, quite as simple as that.  But yes, the whole idea of "ultimate submission" is a bit silly, since it is likely to mean totally different things to different people.  To one person, scat play may be seen as "ultimate submission".  To another, their idea of "ultimate" is gender transformation or being castrated.  To yet another, "ultimate" means financial control.  And to somebody else entirely, it's all about physical suffering or even willing death in some form or another.  These memes have been around for thousands of years, by the way; ask the priests of Kybele.

When somebody talks about "ultimate submission", the translation generally seems to be, "Lookit my extreme fetish, it is the ULTIMATE."   Problem is, not all femdoms are much into scat play or gender transformation or castration, let alone cannibal snuff porn.  So offering the average femdom your idea of ULTIMATE submission is quite likely to end in her going, "Uh, wut?  Do not want.  Also, you're a weirdo.  Just saying."    So is that actually submission, let alone ULTIMATE submission?  Naaah.  From this vantage point, it just looks like an extreme fetish you're trying to be really proud of.

So what happens when two people with different ideas of ULTIMATE submission get together?  Probably not a whole lot, unless they are both willing to relegate their more-ultimate-than-thou extreme ideas to the realm of fantasy and get on to negotiating something that actually works in real life.   Because mostly, all that ULTIMATE stuff kinda doesn't, at least not without a hell of a lot of hard work, maturity and communication on both sides, as well as long term goal compatibility to begin with.  And when that's the case, their relationship doesn't much resemble the stereotype you're probably thinking of when you hear the phrase 'ULTIMATE submission'.


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RE: BOIZ, LEMME TELL YOU HOW IT'S DONE....THAT TIRED OL... - 8/30/2009 9:47:24 PM   
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oh wait, this is the wrong place for that.

This is just a tribute, you got to believe us. I wish you were there.... it's just a matter of opinion!
-Tenacious D-

Aside from all of the silliness...

I am surprised that this thread has not died.

Gifts are still cool right? I mean...

This is an extension of myself.... given to you. A materialized version of ones ideals. Are there any mistresses who would be excited that I would tribute to them thirty plus magnifying lenses, glass, mirrors, and LED lights? (LIGHTSHOW GO!!!)

Poetry was mentioned I do believe....

Money is nice and all.... but these gifts from the heart. I would prefer that term.

Gifts.

(i bring you dead bird. Do you not like present?)


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RE: BOIZ, LEMME TELL YOU HOW IT'S DONE....THAT TIRED OL... - 8/31/2009 1:38:11 AM   
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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

OK, what about my idea of "Peon Sings a Serenade Tribute for the Femdom Who's Nicest To Him"? 


I sang you a song and you still like me?  Woah!  You start ahead of the pack, Ms S!

I already have one of those.  Does that mean I am excluded from the contest?



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RE: BOIZ, LEMME TELL YOU HOW IT'S DONE....THAT TIRED OL... - 8/31/2009 3:37:26 AM   
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Shall I read through the several extra pages to try and catch up on what everyone has been talking about or is someone able to give me a quick summary? :)


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RE: BOIZ, LEMME TELL YOU HOW IT'S DONE....THAT TIRED OL... - 8/31/2009 5:45:18 AM   
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Shall I read through the several extra pages to try and catch up on what everyone has been talking about or is someone able to give me a quick summary? :)



Same shit, different day.


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RE: BOIZ, LEMME TELL YOU HOW IT'S DONE....THAT TIRED OL... - 8/31/2009 8:08:48 AM   
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Gifts. (i bring you dead bird. Do you not like present?)

*giggling* A friend of mine has a cat who hunts for them only when one of them is sick. He gets *very* upset if he sees them throw out the bird or critter without making a fuss over him!

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RE: BOIZ, LEMME TELL YOU HOW IT'S DONE....THAT TIRED OL... - 8/31/2009 9:58:30 AM   
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Status: offline 		At least cats bring you birds... My dogs bring me dismembered rats, o'possums, snakes, raccoons and the occational cat that was unlucky enough to cross over into the fence.  Sadly, the wooded property next to mine was cut down last year to make room for *bleck* government assisted apartments.  A lot of diplaced wild life turned up on my back porch.

And Peon... was there a point you were trying to make?

Or are we all trying to get this thread longer than the Cock Sucking thread?

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RE: BOIZ, LEMME TELL YOU HOW IT'S DONE....THAT TIRED OL... - 8/31/2009 10:04:35 AM   
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RON!!  Where's my monies!

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RE: BOIZ, LEMME TELL YOU HOW IT'S DONE....THAT TIRED OL... - 8/31/2009 11:14:07 AM   
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RE: BOIZ, LEMME TELL YOU HOW IT'S DONE....THAT TIRED OL... - 8/31/2009 12:20:25 PM   
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Status: offline 		OK, La T, a tribute of $44, and I'm yours for 15 minutes. 

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RE: BOIZ, LEMME TELL YOU HOW IT'S DONE....THAT TIRED OL... - 8/31/2009 12:37:02 PM   
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RE: BOIZ, LEMME TELL YOU HOW IT'S DONE....THAT TIRED OL... - 8/31/2009 1:15:09 PM   
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Status: offline 		Tut.  Penny-pinching.  Typical.

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RE: BOIZ, LEMME TELL YOU HOW IT'S DONE....THAT TIRED OL... - 8/31/2009 1:44:26 PM   
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Tut.  Penny-pinching.  Typical.


Here in Iowa, we prefer to call it frugal.

Then there is the old saying "Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free?"


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RE: BOIZ, LEMME TELL YOU HOW IT'S DONE....THAT TIRED OL... - 8/31/2009 1:46:25 PM   
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Status: offline 		So then you can suck the milk straight from the udder Tigresse...I mean duh!

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RE: BOIZ, LEMME TELL YOU HOW IT'S DONE....THAT TIRED OL... - 8/31/2009 2:20:43 PM   
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RE: BOIZ, LEMME TELL YOU HOW IT'S DONE....THAT TIRED OL... - 8/31/2009 3:13:19 PM   
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RE: BOIZ, LEMME TELL YOU HOW IT'S DONE....THAT TIRED OL... - 8/31/2009 3:15:59 PM   
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Here on Ask A Mistress
I see it
I read it
That is how I see this thread go on
Made of many postings
And arguments within them
This thread has come to show it goes on
Days, years
Despite our fears
I believe that this thread does go on
Once more
This thread ups the score
And it's on the boards
And this thread will go on and on

A thread here starts in minutes
And lasts for a life time
And be brought back when we've all gone
One of the words was tribute
Causing an almighty dispute
Which still looks as if it will always go on
Months, years
Wherever we are
I believe that this thread will go on
Once more
This post ups the score
And it's at the top of the boards
And this thread will go on and on

It's here
To be brought back each year
And I know that this thread will go on
It'll stay
For decades I'd say
And even in the event of a nuclear war
This thread will go on and on




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RE: BOIZ, LEMME TELL YOU HOW IT'S DONE....THAT TIRED OL... - 8/31/2009 3:41:46 PM   
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Status: offline 		I pay tribute to you for a great tribute to disputes about tributes, Stella. 

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RE: BOIZ, LEMME TELL YOU HOW IT'S DONE....THAT TIRED OL... - 9/1/2009 7:58:00 AM   
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Reigna:
You know what?  If we keep this thread spinning, we might be able to surpass that infamous 45-pager, "Heterosexual males sucking cock."  I say we go for it.


+1 :-)

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RE: BOIZ, LEMME TELL YOU HOW IT'S DONE....THAT TIRED OL... - 9/1/2009 7:59:51 AM   
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MsStarlett:
Or are we all trying to get this thread longer than the Cock Sucking thread?


Another +1.

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