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Missokyst -> Male cum on command? (8/12/2009 12:59:09 PM)

I see a lot of female sub/slaves on many different websites asking help on how to cum on command to please their partner.  And a lot of female sub/slaves who, after the relationship ends ask how they can have an orgasm again.  For some of them it takes years..
Now.. I can cum on command.  But it is my command. I can walk down the aisles at the local fabric store and make myself orgasm is I felt like doing it.  It is somewhat like self hypnosis I guess, as it is full body, blush all over, with wet panties that need a quick trip to the bathroom to wipe off.  I can do it to myself, but I have never put that into someone else's control. 

But people want to learn it to give someone else power.  So.. how come I rarely hear of male subs giving this over to their dominant?  Are there males who can cum without stimulation?




leadership527 -> RE: Male cum on command? (8/12/2009 1:17:46 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Missokyst
But people want to learn it to give someone else power.  So.. how come I rarely hear of male subs giving this over to their dominant?  Are there males who can cum without stimulation?

What a fascinating question. So you know, it may not be so much a question of "giving it over" as it is "just not a male thing". I'm dying to see if any men pop up and say "Yeah, I can cum on command -- no stimulation visual or otherwise required".



Missokyst -> RE: Male cum on command? (8/12/2009 1:22:05 PM)

Ahh.. and you have hit on what I see as the crux of matter.  I don't see a lot of females into getting males to cum.. instead I see females that wish to prevent it.   Still, there seems to be a lot of work involved in keeping people aroused without letting it fly, so to speak.



mnottertail -> RE: Male cum on command? (8/12/2009 1:22:22 PM)

I knew a slavegirl who could eat male cum on command.

I think that men can kinda get their rocks off (when able) just about as fast as a racehorse anyway, they know how to get it on, and so I wouldn't see quick coming as somehting interesting to men, you will see alot more chastitiy, or eunuch type fantasies from men.

thats my op

Ron



Missokyst -> RE: Male cum on command? (8/12/2009 1:26:58 PM)

I often considered that it was the fact that females may take a long time and a lot of stimulation to cum, that it became tedious to their mate, so cumming on command might just take the pressure off.  Convince them that a word will get them to cum and bingo.. lot less work to get to your own orgasm.
I have known more than a few men who came quickly, but none that could cum without stimulation.  Well.. beyond those early boy years where it just happens.



mnottertail -> RE: Male cum on command? (8/12/2009 1:38:40 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Missokyst

I often considered that it was the fact that females may take a long time and a lot of stimulation to cum, that it became tedious to their mate, so cumming on command might just take the pressure off.  Convince them that a word will get them to cum and bingo.. lot less work to get to your own orgasm.


That has some truth for men getting women to come, and for like reasons, men will not start a thread asking how to squirt when they cum or if it is pee........frankly, they don't give a fuck if it is.......



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I have known more than a few men who came quickly, but none that could cum without stimulation.  Well.. beyond those early boy years where it just happens.


Thing is about men coming, I think most women don't want them cumming too fast anyway, becuase once they blow the wad................let me put it this way.........

there is nothing quite as 'over' as christmas.

NaughtySantaMaster



pyroaquatic -> RE: Male cum on command? (8/12/2009 1:43:49 PM)

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tantra

While I have never personally ejaculated on command and had an orgasm I do believe it is quite possible.

Finding the right Guru is the problem.

[;)]



NihilusZero -> RE: Male cum on command? (8/12/2009 1:47:53 PM)

I've seen a video of this online.



leadership527 -> RE: Male cum on command? (8/12/2009 1:49:08 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Missokyst
I often considered that it was the fact that females may take a long time and a lot of stimulation to cum, that it became tedious to their mate, so cumming on command might just take the pressure off.  Convince them that a word will get them to cum and bingo.. lot less work to get to your own orgasm.
I have known more than a few men who came quickly, but none that could cum without stimulation.  Well.. beyond those early boy years where it just happens.

I consider myself fairly sexually repressed... a far far cry from the sexual virtuoso's that frequent collarme (and no, that was not facetious -- I see a lot of men here who've spent a lot more of their lives focusing on sexual knowlege than I have... they're better than me at it and they ought to be). But still, I've been with Carol a long time. For the most part, I know her body better than I do my own. For the most part, if I want her to have an orgasm, she does. So at least with us, vanilla and sexually repressed etc., it takes about as long for Carol to cum as I want it to take. Getting her to orgasm on demand would be a fun party trick to demonstrate my control. But I would not consider it a labor saving thing *laughs*.



Missokyst -> RE: Male cum on command? (8/12/2009 1:50:09 PM)

[sm=yourock.gif]
LOL now there is a great answer! 


quote:

ORIGINAL: mnottertail

Thing is about men coming, I think most women don't want them cumming too fast anyway, becuase once they blow the wad................let me put it this way.........

there is nothing quite as 'over' as christmas.

NaughtySantaMaster



NihilusZero -> RE: Male cum on command? (8/12/2009 1:52:20 PM)

I'm reading through to be sure...is linking to "porn" unacceptable as far ar the fora ToS are concerned? I check the main forum rules and nothing spcifically was mentioned about linking.



mnottertail -> RE: Male cum on command? (8/12/2009 1:54:06 PM)

I think you can get away with linking to porn, so long as the porn itself does not violate tos (minors, bestiality and so on, you know.......)  but if it is from russia or a wormy bot ridden site, there will be many, not just moderators with the fuckin ass at you...........

Lotta girls here like TubGirl pictures by the way.

Ron



Missokyst -> RE: Male cum on command? (8/12/2009 1:57:06 PM)

I see it as a party trick for the most part.  But then I read about people who can do it, and only do it, when their mate tells them "cum"  Even if he just walked in the door. 
That to me is labor saving. 
This is why I don't let my ability be associated to whatever mate is around.  I prefer to be played with, which for me is connecting to my mate, rather than just feeling orgasm and going on my merry day.  :) give me hours of connecting and I am a happy camper.


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ORIGINAL: leadership527
if I want her to have an orgasm, she does. So at least with us, vanilla and sexually repressed etc., it takes about as long for Carol to cum as I want it to take. Getting her to orgasm on demand would be a fun party trick to demonstrate my control. But I would not consider it a labor saving thing *laughs*.




slutslave4u -> RE: Male cum on command? (8/12/2009 2:00:10 PM)

I do know a lady friend several states away from me. We can talk over the phone and simply from the sound of my voice at any time during the conversation I will say CUM NOW and she will. Just for the fun of it now and then I will say it a few times over and over, and each time she will cum til she finally tells me if I dont behave she is going tohang up as she cant cum anymore. I have fun with it especially since she is by far absolutely ONLY Dominant and I am more Switch, however with Her I am sub/slave. She hates I can do that to Her too BTW, lol

Now IF anyone can show me myself how to cum on command, mmmmmmm....talk to me, I'd LOVE it, lol



NihilusZero -> RE: Male cum on command? (8/12/2009 2:04:13 PM)

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ORIGINAL: mnottertail

but if it is from russia or a wormy bot ridden site, there will be many, not just moderators with the fuckin ass at you...........

Naw. No concerns over bots, spam or pop-ups with the site.

Not normally prone to just jump at the first person's word, but considering your tenure here I'd say it was a safe bet your views are based on plenty of experience.

Link




daintydimples -> RE: Male cum on command? (8/12/2009 2:10:20 PM)

Oh my ! That was quite a demonstration.

Now um...er...about this thread...um...what is the topic again?



Sunnyfey -> RE: Male cum on command? (8/12/2009 2:15:51 PM)

o.0 I've seen it happen.

My first ex Dom could do it, though I never ordered him to. During a scene he could actually get off just watching me go to subspace, without me touching him at all. Made me feel pretty awesome.



leadership527 -> RE: Male cum on command? (8/12/2009 2:16:21 PM)

OK, I'm impressed. And in hindsight, I feel a bit foolish.

It is and always has been my conviction that the brain runs the body... within some pretty broad limits, pretty much the entire thing is "controllable", even normally autonomic things like heart rate. If I can dilate my own pupils when I want, I see no reason to think that I couldn't eventually learn to have an orgasm. Heh, even more significantly, given that by the numbers, the best medicine for what ails you is frequently a placebo, that kind of tells you the relative relationship betweein mind & body right there.... as does the stark evidence of every masochist that transforms pain into pleasure.

*palms face*
Duh!



mnottertail -> RE: Male cum on command? (8/12/2009 2:19:14 PM)

well, some would term that premature ejaculation (although to see a woman in a travail of wantonness................).

men have some of the same societal issues from different views to face as women do.

cum quick or without some sort of a rodshining = premature ejaculation




Sunnyfey -> RE: Male cum on command? (8/12/2009 2:25:17 PM)

*shrugs* He's what I'd call a sadist. I specifically remember, it was usually when I would cry from..just being over sensitized (not in pain..just too much sensation you know? it's was a good thing), or when I would curse at him for something that really hurt(not hurt enough for me to safe word..but..hurt enough for me to call him a bastard). And that would get him off. I thought it was pretty impressive



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