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RE: Dealing with the green eyed monster - 8/15/2009 5:37:11 PM

learning2sub

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ORIGINAL: DesFIP

He says he wants a life partner but he hasn't said that you'll be it. Are you prepared for him to decide that someone else fits him better and he wants you to be one of the outside subs he plays with? Because at this point that's as likely a scenario as the other.

Trying to start several relationships at once is a recipe for failure. Usually you get the primary relationship worked out first, all the normal issues, and only then do you think about opening it.

What happens if you decide that while he's off on the weekend playing with others, that you need your time filled with someone new also? Have you discussed that?

We are discussing this tonight as a matter of fact. :) He has already told me that when he finds his ONE he will end all contact with other subs until the primary relationship is worked out - then and only then will others be introduced.

I am aware that I may not be that person and am ok with it. It's taken some time to mull it over but yes I believe I will be ok in the end should he find another.

Thank you for your concern. :)

(in reply to DesFIP)