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VvShadowspawnvV -> RE: seeking to understand behavior (8/14/2009 3:10:44 PM)
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You misunderstood me, I'm afraid. I didn't mean to imply that slut was a "bad word" only that the name (the "utter" part more than the "slut" part) was ironic in this instance... Utter: adj. "carried to the utmost point or highest degree" ... a slut of the highest degree would probably not have any problems with someone supplying a "gangbang". I didn't mean to imply that the name provoked his actions, although it might have had some effect on exactly how he decided to retaliate, and I in no way meant to imply that you "deserved it" simply because of a name. It was sort of a joke, in that if you were really an "utter" slut you would probably not be offended, you would just take advantage of the extra publicity. *wink*
As far as provoking it in some other way, obviously I have no way of knowing what happened, and again I didn't mean to sound like I did. I was merely saying that in the cases I have observed where things escalate to the point where a neighbor calls the cops (as opposed to cases where an involved person calls themselves) there is often a situation where BOTH sides are doing the fighting, yelling, etc. Basically no one will have reason to call unless there is enough noise and disturbance to draw their attention. Again, I don't know if this is why the cops were called or not, I was just mentioning it since every time the cops have shown up in my neighborhoods over domestic issues like that it was following an epic screaming fight from both sides, and not usually quiet actual violence. I tried to word that generally since if you called them yourself over actual violence, that part was completely irrelevant (and now that I re-read it, I guess I was still a little sleepy).
Hope that cleared things up a little, I really was trying to find a way to be constructive.
-Frey
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