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jamesthehumanrug -> RE: Collaring/Weddings (2/23/2006 6:05:33 AM)
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dear tru- sub 4u2,
greetings,
in regards to: what to wear, or do,in what type-ceremony;bearing "ONE" ,in mind.....
you do both sepparate;
USING, BOTH DIFFERENT BUT ,TRADITIONAL,TO, THAT CEREMONEY TYPE" SEXUAL-ADORNMENTS", OR JEWLRY....and don't forget,to articulate your best features,with, that adornment,if,or when ever possible....ie:, if your nose is your best feature;diamond it....etc.
one, so-called legit ,w/ gold-bands ;forever-stuff ,4 the relatives ,and ,friends/world, & ,again ,for your' tru-lifestyle';committment;
a slave is a slave; be it husband, in suit, or wife in babydolls; whatever...., to solidify it for real, in your own subculture again,IS to make sure you are serious ,and, not kidding ,around, in slave- goddess ;(WHATEVER THE CASE MAYBE,IN ,S AND M,),SO IN ONE CERTAIN CASE YOU HAVE TO leave the disguise, or conservatism veils ,behind WHILE,in the other ,or second-ceremoney....
but for sure ;
the both have to be done sepparately
one for reality and the other ,to let each other know you are serious.(dont wonder what slave- genius got plagiarized ,in that hit-#1.song"lets get serious")
comprenez?!,
or you may ,not be certified; recognized, by those "relavant, or signifigant-others" and ,all those fans ,and hangers,in there,IN your biz. type persons or people....
',BECOMMING ONE' IS A SOLIDIFICATION-CEREMONEY ,OR RITUAL;by principle:A "GOOD THING"(if it truly is a 'good-thing') IS ALWAYS WORTH REPEATING,or doing ,or saying ,again,SO DO IT AGAIN ;2CE!(ya i did that song too,do it again...)
remember:
the important thing is be normal,in all-cases;
"deviants are invisable";
so know your "verbal-community", and , use it,
in each sepparate ceremoney ;ie:
"verbal-community" means talk the same-vocabulary(or use the same-language) ,nothing strange,to,each-sepparate gathering;
talk s and m; buz words,and the like, in the "other ceremoney"
and, talk traditional,in the, forever,to the world-ceremoney...get it?
verbal-community is: a doctor speaks dr.- language to, other doctors, when with ,other doctors ,or colleagues,and.... lawyers do the same thing etc,
....If you talk, s and m, at the traditional party;you become ,so deviant you are ignored and, become ,"invisable"....,and , visa - versa,
if you are too conservative ,at the ,s and m ,thing;
you ,therefore,become so boring;you are an ,outsider and invisable,again,and likely to be totaly; unrecognized again....
and i know you are ,not laymen
....so be sure,to speak the same language, to the audience ,or crowd attending the unification ;they are wittnesses, to the contract.
as far as major investments go,put your money where you want to emphasize this person the most;
they both are going to be recognized,as established contacts.
the" i dont want you to think"....;dont apply here,to the partner;cause,
the partner has to know what YOU want to emphasize-personally ,and,forever;be it legal-or traditional,or slave-bondage;forever ;
they, both apply,anyway,but ,
it's what you want; the partner to know ,as what you want emphasized ,that's important;
no one can read your mind, especially, a lifetime lover;even, as "one";technically;reading each others' minds is forever impossible,so dont count on it,especially ,in this case,of we are one
one...and one what....
REST ASSURED:'primacy / recency law 'applies HERE ,TOO
WHERE
;your s and m partner ,and the world; will always recall in-VIVID-detail ;the first and last; ceremoney ;event ;etc. ,
so dont worry ;whatever you Want to emphasize; the partner will never forget ;or be able to forget, both first and last ceremoney,in detail;PERIOD,SO....
YOU REALLY CANT CONTROL WHAT THE PARTNER EMPHASIZES, IN MEMORY, AS BEING EMPHASIZED;IT'S USUALLY 'SITUATION DEPENDANT',ANYWAY,BUT SAY EXACTLY WHAT YOU WANT EMPHASIZED, AND PUT THE MONEY THERE,TOO.
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