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Advice for Newb - 8/15/2009 12:14:17 AM

BHarrick

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Mistresses...

I have recently gotten a good friend into the lifestyle and she wants to dominate me, but is entirely new to the whole idea. Do you have any advice or things that she could do?

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RE: Advice for Newb - 8/15/2009 12:23:09 AM

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Tell her to attend lifestyle events, read books, and be creative. It may benefit her to create a profile here so she can talk about topics with her peers.

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RE: Advice for Newb - 8/15/2009 2:23:57 AM

StoneFox

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My best advice...the INTERNET. It works

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RE: Advice for Newb - 8/15/2009 5:48:16 AM

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I'm guessing you are in the lifestyle, so perhaps you can share some of your fantasies with her.

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RE: Advice for Newb - 8/15/2009 5:56:33 AM

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ORIGINAL: LadyJulieAnn

I'm guessing you are in the lifestyle, so perhaps you can share some of your fantasies with her.

The way you just did?

There really are 50 kajillion fantasies described on the internet. If someone is dealing with a specific communication issue, I have definitely suggested sexy ways to communicate. But to encourage other women to provide fuel to a masturbation thread when you provide nothing yourself? That's a bit over the top.

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RE: Advice for Newb - 8/15/2009 6:01:02 AM

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Indeed.

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RE: Advice for Newb - 8/15/2009 6:27:59 AM

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While I agree that the internet is a wonderful place for research, my suggestion would be to find a local group or munch and start attending with her. Meet people in your community and learn from them. Good luck to both of you.

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RE: Advice for Newb - 8/15/2009 10:20:28 AM

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research, lots and lots of research, help her get a general idea of her likes and dislikes and what she feels comfortable trying, then practice practice practice

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