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MistressSassy66 -> Letting Go (8/15/2009 11:14:02 AM)
After a year of trying to get janet to understand his place.It has come to an end.Rather than making life easier,he made it complicated. It wasnt easy to make the decision to remove his collar and dog tag,infact I am very sad over it. Sometimes you just have to let them go and move on. [sm=frown.gif] Even though you care about them and will miss them.

DarkSteven -> RE: Letting Go (8/15/2009 1:27:25 PM)
Sorry. {{{HUGS}}}

thishereboi -> RE: Letting Go (8/15/2009 1:31:56 PM)
That is sad, hope things start looking up for you. {{{HUG}}}

cornflakegirl -> RE: Letting Go (8/15/2009 1:40:26 PM)
I'm sorry. :(

LadyPact -> RE: Letting Go (8/15/2009 2:00:32 PM)
Just stopping by to let you know that I feel for you. Please remember to smile today.

GoddessImaginos -> RE: Letting Go (8/15/2009 2:04:42 PM)
[:o] Been there, done that, burned the T-shirt. Loss in a D/s dynamic is at least as devastating as any other kind. Please remember that this too shall pass. Wwe care about You, Sister.. Be well.

DavanKael -> RE: Letting Go (8/15/2009 2:59:19 PM)
I am sorry that things did not work out for the two of you. Davan

MistressSassy66 -> RE: Letting Go (8/15/2009 2:59:56 PM)
Thank you for the Hugs...I needed that [:)]

lilsubrt -> RE: Letting Go (8/15/2009 5:15:08 PM)
MistressSassy, Sorry to hear the bad news, Hope You find Another and he works out. Not to jump on the band wagon but ((( HUGS ))) as well. lilsubrt Owned by Goddess Robi- Taken 4/10/05

PsyVamp -> RE: Letting Go (8/15/2009 6:10:50 PM)
Sorry you had to go through that. It sucks I hope you find who you need.

MaamJay -> RE: Letting Go (8/15/2009 7:30:08 PM)
Sassy, feeling for You, been there Myself, I was married to the one I had to let go for exactly the same reason. At least You got the collar and tag back, Mine decided to say stuff it to protocol and refused point-blank to relinquish it because it was "a nice piece of jewellery" (it was a gold chain and opal anklet that originally had all sorts of connotations). That doubly hurt because it was, to Me, a denial of what there had ever been more than just an acknowledgement that it no longer was. Does that make sense? Hope so! Anyways, hugs to You, do like LP suggested and remember to smile every day. Maam Jay aka violet[A]

MsStarlett -> RE: Letting Go (8/15/2009 9:08:33 PM)
Sucks don't it? I feel for you sister.

Tantriqu -> RE: Letting Go (8/15/2009 9:14:36 PM)
Sigh, the first few weeks are the worst. Then you'll realise even if still feeling lonely that you're MUCH happier without the fret and drama. Good luck.

PhoenixRed -> RE: Letting Go (8/15/2009 9:17:41 PM)
Hugs to you. Time does heal. Try and focus on some things you like to do that you now may have a little more time for....maybe a favorite hobby? Sounds lame, I know, but it helped me when I had a similar breakup. Chin up. Good luck

InvisibleBlack -> RE: Letting Go (8/15/2009 9:21:20 PM)
I'm very sorry to hear that things didn't work out. No matter how problematic things were, the ending of any relationship leaves a hole that hurts and takes time to heal. I hope better times come your way soon.

sweetsub1957 -> RE: Letting Go (8/15/2009 9:36:20 PM)
I'm very sorry for You. ~lots & LOTS of big BIG hugs~

fadedshadow -> RE: Letting Go (8/15/2009 11:52:01 PM)
i'm sorry

OttersSwim -> RE: Letting Go (8/16/2009 6:57:33 AM)
Good for you for recognizing an incompatible partner and going through the pain to change your reality. All to many people will lower their expectations and settle and end up unhappy and the end result is the same...it just takes a lot longer and is in the end, much more painful and destructive. He is not responsible for meeting your needs, you are. Good for you for recognizing that! Now you can find someone who is more compatible with what you want in your life.

pyroaquatic -> RE: Letting Go (8/16/2009 9:33:54 AM)
Sometimes it takes more strength to let go then it does to keep going. Luck be with you. ~Pyroaquatic

DemonKia -> RE: Letting Go (8/16/2009 9:57:17 AM)
FR, after read thru *~big hug~* Loss sucks, & to make it worse -- it's usually 'good' for us . . . . . Ya know, that Nietzschean thing, that which doesn't kill us makes us stronger. Hurts like a bitch, tho' . . . . . . .

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