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RE: Obtaining a slave... - 8/16/2009 12:45:56 PM

KCalli

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ORIGINAL: lizi

It's interesting that you seem to be concentrating on your age because the posts you have received in both of your threads have brought up other concerns.

You asked for suggestions on what you may be doing wrong but don't seem to be taking any of them. I looked at your profile when you posted your first thread and it's the same now even after receiving several good suggestions on how to improve it. In essence you keep asking for advice and then ignoring it. Why would a slave choose someone who lacks dedication and common sense? You seem to want this to fall into your lap, no one here will be able to tell you the 'easy' way to get yourself a slave. You get one by proving yourself to be worthy....

Ok, mominator mode here. Take time to know yourself, your wants needs and desires. You are young, that is not a sin. The sin is not being willing to constantly improve oneself. The thing that you don't seem to care to understand is this: as the Dom part of the D/s relationship you have a huge responsibility to your sub, and even more so to your slave. Is this something you have even considered? Do you even begin to understand? Do you want to understand? Is this a game or for real? Do you even know? Serious thought is called for. An experienced sub could help you along and still submit to you, but would you even take her lead? Do you understand what having a slave is all about truly? Anyhow, back to my quiet little corner. Peace.

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RE: Obtaining a slave... - 8/16/2009 1:39:34 PM

VanityFix

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http://www.collarchat.com/m_2761996/tm.htm

there, im friggin cupid,

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RE: Obtaining a slave... - 8/17/2009 2:05:22 PM

TimrehIX

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Ok, a few notes on your profile.

First, you might want to try filling it out. You don’t list any kinks or interests. If I was an eager young sub girl looking for a Dom, I would look at your profile and see nothing to let me know if we had compatible interests. A picture may get subs to your profile but you have nothing of substance posted.

Next, you really don’t need the weird fonts in your journal entry. On my computer it is all in wingdings, except for the part about being a Dom because no one wanted you as a sub. You might want to list yourself as a switch.

Once I translated the font to something I could read I noticed you said “no men” in all caps three times in your profile. I think listing yourself as a straight male and not adding “submissive males” under actively seeking conveys the point perfectly well without bordering on gay panic. Although you do say you like “trannies” so a few guys might see that as an invitation.

Also saying that you will take out your bad mood on your sub, sounds wrong. Speaking only for myself, even in my most masochistic of moods I don’t like the idea of a Dom working out his frustrations on me. Spanking and Flogging is fine, but if I need the Dom to stop I want to be confidant he will stop.

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RE: Obtaining a slave... - 8/17/2009 3:35:56 PM

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ORIGINAL: sirsholly

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This isn't McDonald's, it's life.

Damnit...no wonder i never got my fries.

<---heads to Burger King

HEHE then you can have it your way!!!

MS

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RE: Obtaining a slave... - 8/17/2009 4:56:54 PM

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timreh, you look kind of like the singer from dimmu borgir. that's pretty awesome =D

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RE: Obtaining a slave... - 8/22/2009 9:20:16 PM

FangsNfeet

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I'm being honest here. You're profile is all jacked up. You have all this symbol crap followed with big letters of "I use to be a sub but now I'm a dom." Your post tells me that you want something serious but your profile suggest that you just want to fuck around. Clean that shit up and and simply discribe who you are and the kind of relationship you're looking for.

My example. Take it or leave it.

Hello everyone. I'm new, young, and have an intrest in domination. I'd like to have a relationship with someone that can end up as a Master/slave Total Power Exchange couple. I still have alot to learn and know that trust is an important issue. Trust and Knowledge are two things that grow with couples. So instead of automaticly barking out orders, I'm asking for enough trust to take things one step at time with me so we can learn how I can be your master. This is a journey that I'm ready to embark on. Are you ready to see my naughty side?

Turst me. Cleaning your profile up will open some doors for you by the end of this year.

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RE: Obtaining a slave... - 8/22/2009 10:39:29 PM

Acer49

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ORIGINAL: Raythedom18

Hmm...I've been here for a few weeks or so :/ Not having any luck with finding a slave :( Maybe it's my age....So Any of you older more experienced Masters want to give me some tips on what I"m doing wrong? Am I too nice of a Master or is it the fact that I'm not experienced enough?...Someone help me :D

MasterRay

You need to rework your profile to state your interests, also to tell a prospective sub what type of person you are and why their life would be better by knowing and becoming involved you. You need to get to your local munches so people can learn about you. Be able to answer the question about what makes you tick. Try getting involved with the tng group as you will relate much better to individuals your own age.

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RE: Obtaining a slave... - 8/22/2009 10:47:34 PM

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When you figure out exactly what it is that makes you a Master, others will, too.

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RE: Obtaining a slave... - 8/23/2009 2:11:36 AM

fadedshadow

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be yourself and be patient dude

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RE: Obtaining a slave... - 8/23/2009 2:32:48 AM

spicysugar1

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ORIGINAL: IronBear

Perhaps it is your youth and newness working against you. I would suggest looking for a sub rather than a slave. It takes experience to become a slave Master and that is not something you can go to Walmart and buy.. A good sub who has some experience might be able help teach you too..

Actually, I think I saw some last week on sale....they were on an end cap, directly across the aisle from 'housewares'

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RE: Obtaining a slave... - 8/23/2009 8:32:10 AM

Musicmystery

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

When you figure out exactly what it is that makes you a Master, others will, too.

Close. When he starts to seriously understand the above statement, he can start to learn to master himself. Then, others will see it too. First he'll have to learn what it is he really wants, not to mention patience and self-discipline.

OP--It's gonna be a while. It usually is. We call it maturity, and it doesn't manifest overnight.

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