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Are we in the right place? - 8/16/2009 5:40:19 PM   
kittykat19820


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Status: offline 		Here is our deal. We are a couple from Mass., not exactly into bondage per se, but into fem wrestling/catfighting. In these matches we like to incorporate spanking,slapping, domination, humiliation, and trash talking. Is this something that the bondage culture could be into? we have wrote to a half a dozen local couples, and only one wrote back to us. Are we in the wrong place? We are a real couple, that are  friendly, and easy goin. even open minded. but just havent had much sucess here. should we stick around or our interests to distant? We apreciate all opinions on this, thank you.
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RE: Are we in the right place? - 8/16/2009 5:47:43 PM   
SirMIkeSD


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Status: offline 		According to your profile you just joined the site a few days ago and you want instant results. It does not work that way, and no that does not sound like something the "bondage culture" would be into. Bondage is bondage and not what you are talking about. For most people finding others that are into exactly what you are into takes time even years. Give it that.

Mike

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RE: Are we in the right place? - 8/16/2009 5:50:20 PM   
GreedyTop


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Status: offline 		Seems to me I've seen people (quite a few!) on the forums who are in to a number of the same things you are..Stick around, spend some time posting here, and you'll probably find them :)

(It's all about networking LOL)


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RE: Are we in the right place? - 8/16/2009 9:14:36 PM   
cagliostro


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Status: offline 		Yeah this is an ok place. Responses vary, just stick with it.

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RE: Are we in the right place? - 8/16/2009 9:18:03 PM   
Aanakaris


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Status: offline 		If you hang out long enough you will find at least someone with the same desires, kinks, and fetishes as you.

Now if I can only find that woman into weasel juggling, sigh... The search continues.


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RE: Are we in the right place? - 8/17/2009 4:37:32 AM   
kittykat19820


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Status: offline 		Thanks for all the feed back. i guess we will hang around. AAnakaris-weasel juggling lolololol

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RE: Are we in the right place? - 8/17/2009 5:16:44 AM   
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Status: offline 		Kittykat, sounds like you two are into girl on girl, rough body play, takedown scenes and shit talking.

Take down scenes are my personal forte, and I'm starting to work more with rough body play. Take down scenes are basically, down and dirty wrestling. Rough Body play, is the punching,slapping and kicking. Toss a little humiliation in and you have exactly what you discribed above.


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RE: Are we in the right place? - 8/17/2009 9:18:14 AM   
DesFIP


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Status: offline 		I'm assuming you wrote to local couples for play. In this, like vanilla world, most couples are monogamous. Of those who aren't, most are still seeking more than casual play - friendship, caring, shared commonalities etc.

If you got a reply, even a no thanks, from one in six then your answer rate is higher than I would have guessed. After all, if some guy came up to you in a bar asking you to have sex with him, would your reply be "Sure!" or "Go away"? Same deal.

Go to your local munch, make friends and see if they are into what you're into. And even if they aren't, you've still made a friend to go to the movies with.

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RE: Are we in the right place? - 8/17/2009 2:34:29 PM   
kittykat19820


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Status: offline 		thank you desfip. what is a local munch?

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RE: Are we in the right place? - 8/17/2009 6:01:42 PM   
DesFIP


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Status: offline 		A munch is a gathering of people who meet in ordinary restaurants in ordinary clothes in order to have a support group of friends in this lifestyle. You don't come in swinging a flogger or talking about your last orgy. You make friends and maybe find playmates or more. Google BDSM + Your Town.

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RE: Are we in the right place? - 8/17/2009 9:22:26 PM   
cagliostro


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Status: offline 		You can probably google BDSM club + wherever you live. There are bound to be clubs in the nearest metropolitan area. Muches are good places to meet like minded people. Most clubs will have some kind of contact system.

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RE: Are we in the right place? - 8/18/2009 4:04:41 AM   
kittykat19820


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Status: offline 		Wow. Thanks a lot. This is really helpful. Now Im really getting an education here.

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RE: Are we in the right place? - 8/21/2009 8:13:15 AM   
CougarStud


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Status: offline 		Global Fight Finder  http://www.globalfight.com/   is a good site for people specifically into what you are looking for but mostly it caters togay men, I have found quite a few good fights on that site.

but I bet  you have good results here as well.

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