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LadyHibiscus -> RE: female to female question! (8/17/2009 5:31:49 PM)

Hmmmm...  younger dominants are more reckless, too!  wheeeeeeeeeee!!

And in answer to the OP, when it comes to women, I do look for emotional maturity rather than chronological age.  Men... well, after a lifetime of older men, I am looking at the ones my own age.  Because Viagra?  Fooey.




PeonForHer -> RE: female to female question! (8/17/2009 5:40:47 PM)

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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

Hmmmm...  younger dominants are more reckless, too!  wheeeeeeeeeee!!

And in answer to the OP, when it comes to women, I do look for emotional maturity rather than chronological age.  Men... well, after a lifetime of older men, I am looking at the ones my own age.  Because Viagra?  Fooey.


Actually, I totally agree on the need to look for emotional maturity.  Is it possible that a middle-aged femdom can have the emotional maturity of a teenager?  I didn't think so once, but I do now. 




Tantriqu -> RE: female to female question! (8/17/2009 8:17:03 PM)

Lol, thanx, MsFlutter, for saving me the [key]strokes.
And of course men say that all time, here and on vanilla sites: over-middle-aged men demanding and expecting '18+,' and 'No drama', and they don't get dissed for it [except by Us].

Besides being sedulous, sweet/tangy, and simply FABulous in bed, I remain cheerful, cheering, interesting and interested, engaged and engaging, and I surpass the definition of mental health as 'knowing when to say 'No', knowing when to say 'Yes,' and knowing when to say 'Yippeeee~!'
And I knows whats and whoms I likes. OOOH! And when I'm with that cheerful, interesting, engaging sub, I come like a bull.
[Bows gracefully,] and now back to the dehijacked thread.

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The younger ones are more cheerful, interested and engaged, as well as mentally and physically healthier.


That's true of younger dommes too, Tantriqu.  The older ones tend to be lazy, vinegary old bats who are no good in bed whatsoever.  No offence meant, of course. [;)]



'scuse me???    [sm=mistress.gif]


No no, don't get me wrong:  I was only talking about really old women - over 30, say.  [:D]

Nah.  Seriously, though: I do sometimes think that it's strange that certain things are OK for women to say, but not for men to say (Fair enough - no doubt, vice versa, too).  I was laughing at the thought of a man turning up to opine that 'younger dommes are more cheerful, interested and engaged, as well as mentally and physically healthier'. 





PeonForHer -> RE: female to female question! (8/18/2009 1:44:31 AM)

And I knows whats and whoms I likes. OOOH! And when I'm with that cheerful, interesting, engaging sub, I come like a bull.
 
Feckenell, Tantriqu.  I had an image of you getting interested in some man, going to the toilet, then coming back and charging head first into his stomach.  Whumpf!





RealSub58 -> RE: female to female question! (8/18/2009 1:58:26 AM)

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ORIGINAL: sandra25

hi there!

Just wondering, I am aware of the fact that I am merely attracted to those (much) older than myself. I get the feeling that most women prefer someone of their own age as their slave, or am I wrong?  Wrong !! 

love,

sandra


I actively sought a sub/slave sort of companion/partner
for several years and the lovely young ladies just chickened out in the end.  I don't blame them, I am twice your age Sandra. Who wants another "mom"?

I have never considered myself a switch but on the occasions that I was part of ffm, I topped the other female and was it a hot rush.  A sensual, hot bubbles, wax, silk tie bondage, body oil touching carassing sort of intense hot that left me wanting more. I won't go on....

So yes...there are those of "us".




MsStarlett -> RE: female to female question! (8/18/2009 3:37:32 AM)

My best beloved Westie was 20 years my junior.  We knew from the start that it would most likely end when he found a girl his own age and it did.  He needed a full time life partner, not just a weekend visit once a month. 

My current is my age.  He has a nice settled life and is comfortable being alone.  It's quite nice. 

When I was younger, as in my 20's, many of my partners were 8 to 10 years older.  I would say that two were as much as 30 years older.  But those were one night stands and it was always known that it was just for fun and games, not a relationship.

There are pros and cons to every age group.  The value of the person is far more important than the date on their birth certificate.




ShaktiSama -> RE: female to female question! (8/18/2009 9:23:00 AM)

I have found a lot to love about my younger submissive and his body and mind, but I have also been with people my own age, older, etc. in the past.  I don't have a strong physical age preference, but I know many other women here do, and gravitate toward one age group or another--some older, some younger, some the same age.  *shrug*   It's just another one of those things like height and body type or whatever--superficial, but part of the appeal of the package if you have a "type".





MsD -> RE: female to female question! (8/18/2009 11:02:37 AM)

the replies here, as usual, disqualify the "most" in OP's statement ... you get a slightly different answer from everyone. Personally, I have always related to younger vs. my own age, in vanilla & in bdsm ... it has a lot to do with energy & passion for life *s* I will say, though, emotional maturity counts for A LOT in being able to relate on any level




chamberqueen -> RE: female to female question! (8/19/2009 6:29:11 PM)

I prefer subs younger than me.  I enjoy helping to mold them into someone more mature.  : )




DominaAmy925 -> RE: female to female question! (8/20/2009 12:20:18 AM)

For a female or male age really dosen't mater to me. As long as you both get alone what dose age have to do with it.




lateralist1 -> RE: female to female question! (8/23/2009 4:00:28 PM)

Age is just a number.
What matters to me is personality, ability and a successful life.
If a sub/slave can't manage hir own life then what use is she/he going to be to me?




islandgyrl -> RE: female to female question! (8/24/2009 2:20:04 AM)

Ah, yes, emotional maturity. I have known young women with an abundance of maturity. Some women my age have demonstrated that the number of years one lives doesn't necessarily relate to their level of maturity. Age, like skin color, doesn't really matter to me. What matters is their emotional stability, level of maturity, and if there is chemistry of course.

Island







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