I am stymied lately. I am getting contacted

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winterlight -> I am stymied lately. I am getting contacted (8/16/2009 9:57:46 PM)
by people that are wanting a Dominant. I am a sub, not a switch, not a Dominant. I cannot figure out why people cannot be bothered to read a profile and in English. I hope i made sense. Geesh!

cornflakegirl -> RE: I am stymied lately. I am getting contacted (8/16/2009 10:05:20 PM)
I get that too! With obviously fake pictures. So silly.

ShaharThorne -> RE: I am stymied lately. I am getting contacted (8/16/2009 10:09:44 PM)
I get them as perving my profile. Not that I mind a bit but as far as I know, I am not really looking for anyone.

pixidustpet -> RE: I am stymied lately. I am getting contacted (8/16/2009 11:27:33 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ShaharThorne I get them as perving my profile. Not that I mind a bit but as far as I know, I am not really looking for anyone. my exact thoughts about someone perving my profile are "huh. wonder why they loo ked at me?" shrugs now...when they DONT bother to read the profile, just see a photo and decide to message me...THEN i get irritable. kitten

susie -> RE: I am stymied lately. I am getting contacted (8/17/2009 12:11:58 AM)
Its funny but I have had a few odd contacts in the last few weeks, 3 lesbian Dommes, a sub/sub couple and a male "Dom" whose picture clearly showed him to be more submissive than anything. All that and my profile clearly shows I am owned and not looking. Ho hum gives me something to giggle at anyway

thishereboi -> RE: I am stymied lately. I am getting contacted (8/17/2009 2:19:43 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: pixidustpet quote: ORIGINAL: ShaharThorne I get them as perving my profile. Not that I mind a bit but as far as I know, I am not really looking for anyone. my exact thoughts about someone perving my profile are "huh. wonder why they loo ked at me?" shrugs now...when they DONT bother to read the profile, just see a photo and decide to message me...THEN i get irritable. kitten Well if it was me who looked, it was probibly because I read a post you made on the forums. At least that is the main reason I look up someone's profile.

SirLost -> RE: I am stymied lately. I am getting contacted (8/17/2009 3:09:09 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ShaharThorne I get them as perving my profile. Not that I mind a bit but as far as I know, I am not really looking for anyone. How can having our profile be viewed and receiving an "I want you to dominate me" mail be considered on the same scale of the balance? I get many people (all gender and orientations) viewing my profile whenever I post something interesting to forums, most of them having a good relationship and not looking. Similarly, not only forum posters, but I come across interesting profiles with long journal entries and I intend to view their profiles. Me viewing their profile doesn't always mean I am intending to get in a relationship.

lazarus1983 -> RE: I am stymied lately. I am getting contacted (8/17/2009 4:40:53 AM)
I seem to get far too many messages from gay subs and doms. My profile says I'm straight, and nowhere do I even hint that I might be so much as curious. It's bizarre. Hm, maybe they know something I don't...

SirLost -> RE: I am stymied lately. I am getting contacted (8/17/2009 5:20:11 AM)
Heh, I've been there for multiple times. I had met some homosexual people (they were introducing themselves as females first. then confess they are guys) in Yahell times who tried to convince me to be a homosexual and have sex with them. After I refuse, they would start insulting or complaining about the discrimination they have been suffering from people like me. LOL WTF? This is why I feel a complete sympathy for females. I believe a major amount of the 'lesbians' who contacts straight women and try to convince her that homosexuality is enjoyable are fake people like those used to deceive me.

beargonewild -> RE: I am stymied lately. I am getting contacted (8/17/2009 7:54:02 AM)
grinz Which is how I feel when I get these women who message me under the delusion I'll jump at the chance to be their master.. Just to point out....not all of my kind are out to convert all the straight men. Often it's a simple thing as we read one of your pots and then viewed your profile to get a better sense of you as a person. Nothing more.

GreedyTop -> RE: I am stymied lately. I am getting contacted (8/17/2009 8:08:00 AM)
I get a bunch of male subs wanting me to dom them. I've gotten a few male doms wanting me to dom them. Lately, I've been getting a bunch of the Nigerian scam emails.

beargonewild -> RE: I am stymied lately. I am getting contacted (8/17/2009 1:39:14 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: lazarus1983 I seem to get far too many messages from gay subs and doms. My profile says I'm straight, and nowhere do I even hint that I might be so much as curious. It's bizarre. Hm, maybe they know something I don't... And it's an unfair assumption that the gay men automatically look upon a straight man as a potential sexual conquest. Just saying.

SteelofUtah -> RE: I am stymied lately. I am getting contacted (8/17/2009 1:51:24 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: beargonewild quote: ORIGINAL: lazarus1983 I seem to get far too many messages from gay subs and doms. My profile says I'm straight, and nowhere do I even hint that I might be so much as curious. It's bizarre. Hm, maybe they know something I don't... And it's an unfair assumption that the gay men automatically look upon a straight man as a potential sexual conquest. Just saying. Yes bear it is. I know that not every homosexual male feels this way however I have had more than a fair share OPENLY ADMIT that they think it is. I used to spend a lot of time in Gay Techno Bars and Drag Shows because of the number of single attractive women who go to them to get away from the meat market of a straight club. When a Bartender would find out that I was straight in a Gay Bar I became Meat. I believe the Bartender was flagging me for them because shortly there after I would start getting hit on a LOT. I asked outright why if they knew I was Straight would the hit on me, a cub finally answered this question for me. He said: You are like a gay Virgin only more so, if you say yes and you like it we showed you the way and it feels good to do that. If you don't like it then we still got to pop a pooper cherry (Yes that was his exact phrase) the funny thing is you would be surprized how offten it works, maybe 1 in 50 maybe 1 in a hundered will go "Sure why not". I have had this confirmed by many of my gay friends over the years who also pointed out that just cause I am a guy doesn't mean a gay man is hitting on me, I am really only sexy to the Bear and cub crowd. Because of this I need to be careful with how agressive I get in a Gay club because a cub might see that as me accepting his come on. Steel

lazarus1983 -> RE: I am stymied lately. I am getting contacted (8/17/2009 5:08:07 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: beargonewild quote: ORIGINAL: lazarus1983 I seem to get far too many messages from gay subs and doms. My profile says I'm straight, and nowhere do I even hint that I might be so much as curious. It's bizarre. Hm, maybe they know something I don't... And it's an unfair assumption that the gay men automatically look upon a straight man as a potential sexual conquest. Just saying. I agree completely. However, all the messages I've ever gotten on here from gay male subs and doms have been asking me for sex. I just got one yesterday morning from a slavejoshua something or other asking me if he could please suck my cock. Homosexuality doesn't make me uncomfortable, I grew up with a lesbian mother, and have met more than my fair share of gay men and women. I don't think gay men are sexual predators that will fuck the first guy that bends over.

GoddessImaginos -> RE: I am stymied lately. I am getting contacted (8/17/2009 5:17:19 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: GreedyTop I get a bunch of male subs wanting me to dom them. I've gotten a few male doms wanting me to dom them. Lately, I've been getting a bunch of the Nigerian scam emails. Have you gotten any marriage/relocation proposals lately? How about the one from the guy who wants to know if you'll cut his sack off..?

LookieNoNookie -> RE: I am stymied lately. I am getting contacted (8/17/2009 5:50:19 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: winterlight by people that are wanting a Dominant. I am a sub, not a switch, not a Dominant. I cannot figure out why people cannot be bothered to read a profile and in English. I hope i made sense. Geesh! I can't read.

SirLost -> RE: I am stymied lately. I am getting contacted (8/17/2009 7:43:21 PM)
I need to point out: Despite how it looked like in my previous post, I would avoid generalizing gays. There are a huge amount of straight males who disturb (that's best probabilty) females in order to satisfy his sexual needs, this doesn't mean every heteosexual man does this. The same thing should be valid for homosexuals.

GreedyTop -> RE: I am stymied lately. I am getting contacted (8/17/2009 10:20:56 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: GoddessImaginos quote: ORIGINAL: GreedyTop I get a bunch of male subs wanting me to dom them. I've gotten a few male doms wanting me to dom them. Lately, I've been getting a bunch of the Nigerian scam emails. Have you gotten any marriage/relocation proposals lately? How about the one from the guy who wants to know if you'll cut his sack off..? actually, I think I got that one a couple of years ago.....

winterlight -> RE: I am stymied lately. I am getting contacted (8/17/2009 10:29:30 PM)
The one i got was his legs spread and he used as an ashtray... I don't smoke nor am i am Dominant.

lioncub -> RE: I am stymied lately. I am getting contacted (8/17/2009 10:42:00 PM)
I get mail from gay men wanting a sub all the time. I partly understand it due to my screen name, but that still means it's the only thing they read.

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