beawulf123 -> Etiquette for Mistress', Master's and slaves (8/17/2009 3:30:54 PM)
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I really need some opinions and advise. I was asked to consider taking courses of slavery and submission given in DC with Dominant affiliates with the Crucible. I have beeen involved most of my life as a slave to women and would also obey anyone She tells me too. This was a committed relationship at the time, and friends were served by me either in manual physical labor or domestics. The dynamics here is that I was the Alpha and she was "the air I breath", my life. Anyway I went to munches with her frquently. Never did I experiance this level knumb nuttery from any man. But for everything there is a first time. At least 3x's at the muches, there was a male dom there, that was very bolsterous, mouthy and quite disrespectful to many people. I was told he was a former police officer. I told Mistress that I am uncomfortable with this man's behavior. She told me to tolerate it, he is a Master and you are a slave. But though you are not his, respect must be shown. Ok I did as told. My Mistress happens to be a very Dark Skinned Latina. Looking more Morrocan or Ethiopian very exotic looking. So her being stared as though men were giving her x-rays with there eyes, never bothered me. My being secure because of who I am and her collar was what I wore. I would take it more as a compliment, then an insecurity. Besides Mistress will do and have whomever and whatever she desires. It is the lifestyle and I know my place. Long story short, we were at Floating World in Jersey. Sure enough Master Mouth showed up and had a Lady in a collar and leash. Mistress was talking to her circle of friends. I stood next to her in cow -tow, but I was watching him. He was staring at her and I knew deep down drama was destined. My "Life" looked at me and told me to turn around and to accompany her to a single tail seminar. As we walked away he motioned to her and asked to speak with her. She nodded yes and he told her of her beauty and that he wanted to know what it felt like to be one with her. I thought ok! That was respectful way of asking. She thanked him for the offer but was not interested. We all parted. After we got out of that whip class, sure enough Master Mouth was there and told her she was a c- -t and that all she will ever have is half men to f- - k . She held my chain tightly and told me to heel. She gave it back to him with emasculating words. My question to all, Masters and Mistress, and slaves of both Genders. Firstly my thoughts of Female Domination is just that women are superior. So I see a man as an equal in status to me . But out of common sense of the BDSM -S/m lifstyle. I will acknowledge his role, though I feel differently. Secondly I don't believe my status as a slave should be taken so lightly. One of my duties to Mistress is protect her at all costs! As the day came to a close I did see him, said nothing, but stared him down. Again Mistress warned me for not respecting superiors. So what is the etiquette here. Please explain. Am I a slave to all Doms and Visa \ Versa.? I would appreciate some clarification. Oh and I did approach him in the parking lot and Yes I beat the hell out of him. And left before the police arrived.
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