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Mercnbeth -> RE: Cunt? (8/18/2009 8:09:05 AM)
this slave doesn't put limits on what Master can or cannot say...regardless of the situation.

sirsholly -> RE: Cunt? (8/18/2009 8:11:29 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DarkSteven quote: ORIGINAL: sirsholly he can call he what he wants in the bedroom...i have no problem with it. well...if he called me Fat...he would lose a nut Fat? You? You're the model for all the Nigerian women on cm that are 5'6" and 62 lbs.! noo atz ooshin it pauses...swallows mouthful of Twinkie...wipes creamy filling on sleeve As i was saying....now thats pushing it.

SassySarijane -> RE: Cunt? (8/18/2009 8:15:25 AM)
I have certain trigger words and I am upfront about them to potential partners. There are reasons why they became trigger words. Some words it depends on the context and who is saying it to me, and some it just triggers me automatically no matter what.

littleone35 -> RE: Cunt? (8/18/2009 8:42:14 AM)
My Master and i don't do humilation scenes, if he wanted to call me (and this is a big one) HIS slut, whore, bitch it is not my fav form of address but in a scene it would be ok. If he ever called me the c word ( i don't even like to type it) that would totally take me out of my headspace. That is one word i cannot abide. We have discussed it and he knows i totally HATE that word. If he used it once in the heat of the moment cause he lost control a little i would forgive him, but if he contuined using it knowing how i feel about it, it would mean he did not respect me. I would have to rethink the relationship. Of course he has not done that in 3 years i don't think he is gonna start now. Matt's littleone

cornflakegirl -> RE: Cunt? (8/18/2009 8:57:16 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Alphascendant Are there any submissive females that would end a relationship if they were called a cunt, slut, whore, or any terminology demeaning to women regardless of the situation? If my Dominant used language abusively then I would end it over that (or any other kind of abuse). Within the contexts of a scene or a power dynamic, I have no problem with degrading language.

cornflakegirl -> RE: Cunt? (8/18/2009 9:00:46 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MissCake Cunts are lovely things. Beautiful, flexible, life-giving, resilient... How could it ever be an insult? :) I'm all about reclaiming language. I use the word cunt a lot. It's a great word.

spookyfe -> RE: Cunt? (8/18/2009 9:01:17 AM)
I am his cunt bitch etc but only in the bedroom and he always uses HIS. he would never use it when hes cross or in a negative way. the first time i was uncertain till he explained why he uses it now when he says it feel warmth and his loving dominance. he would never stand for anyone calling me cunt etc i am his .

Viridana -> RE: Cunt? (8/18/2009 10:08:22 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Alphascendant Are there any submissive females that would end a relationship if they were called a cunt, slut, whore, or any terminology demeaning to women regardless of the situation? Yes, if there had been mutual agreement of not using those words.

LillyoftheVally -> RE: Cunt? (8/18/2009 10:24:30 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: RedMagic1 Things only have meaning when they are put in relation to other things. Situations matter. If a bloke called me a cunt in front of my mother or father, he would find himself in a rather sticky situation, actually thats true in the bedroom also [;)]

leadership527 -> RE: Cunt? (8/18/2009 11:52:08 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Alphascendant Are there any submissive females that would end a relationship if they were called a cunt, slut, whore, or any terminology demeaning to women regardless of the situation? Anyone who would do this regardless of the situation is playing games. Real, genuine, communication involves an active effort on the parts of the speaker *and the listener*. Anyone who says, "I don't care what you really meant" clearly has no interest in me. More to the point, that level of self-absorption really kind of precludes any conceivable relationshi with me.

Toppingfrmbottom -> RE: Cunt? (8/18/2009 11:59:02 AM)
Context and situation matter, You're question is slightly skewed because there's some women who love being called slut cunt whore sexy toy and don't view it as derogatory, PROVIDED that the person doing it is someone they consented to being talked to like that. Then there's some women who have a humilation kink and being degraded turns them on. Then there's some women who won't tolerate it even when it's meant to be sexy. I personally would not get involved with any one who felt he had to non consentually degrade people, so there would be no leaving to do, since there nbever was a relationship. quote: ORIGINAL: Alphascendant Are there any submissive females that would end a relationship if they were called a cunt, slut, whore, or any terminology demeaning to women regardless of the situation?

slaveno09 -> RE: Cunt? (8/18/2009 3:17:03 PM)
personally... i love to be called nasty names :P

leadership527 -> RE: Cunt? (8/18/2009 3:33:13 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sirsholly he can call he what he wants in the bedroom...i have no problem with it. well...if he called me Fat...he would lose a nut laughs Not so much a "limit" per-se as a clear statement of consequences. I like it.

KCalli -> RE: Cunt? (8/18/2009 4:10:52 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sirsholly he can call he what he wants in the bedroom...i have no problem with it. well...if he called me Fat...he would lose a nut (grinning) I agree and I love the mouse print there, agree with that also.

subtee -> RE: Cunt? (8/18/2009 4:32:14 PM)
quote: Cunt? Yes? ....Oh. ~cough~ nevermind...

HeavansKeeper -> RE: Cunt? (8/18/2009 4:33:35 PM)
Words are just as powerful as people allow them to be. Some women, I assume, are particularly sensitive to those terms (by their own doing or otherwise). Being rude to belittle women is quite telling. Context matters a lot, but in the end, someone who cinches an argument with "You're a cunt." is spewing out a red flag to me.

DavanKael -> RE: Cunt? (8/18/2009 4:38:50 PM)
No, the context is pivotal. Davan

playfulotter -> RE: Cunt? (8/18/2009 4:41:13 PM)
Those words still make me think a certain thing when I really think of them in my "good girl view" but within the context HE uses them they really turn me on and I see them more as words of love and how attracted he is to me and vice versa...weird huh? Now if I were dating again and someone I didn't barely know or trust and respect used them...hmmmm...I don't think it would be that big a deal as words can't really hurt you unless you let them... but it might make me think certain bad things about him and see him as not right for me...but as the famous saying goes..."Sticks and stones....etc".

mnottertail -> RE: Cunt? (8/18/2009 4:41:57 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DavanKael No, the context is pivotal. Davan You mean like one of them sideways cunts? Or like a veitmanise spin-fuck chair?

lronitulstahp -> RE: Cunt? (8/18/2009 4:41:57 PM)
Not only would i not end a relationship over it....but i find it arousing. There's something really hot about being called something that should make me feel uneasy and humiliated, but knowing that the connotation really means "you belong to Me, and so even if I call you this demeaning and offensive word, it is a sign of my great care and decision in making you Mine". It's a direct reflection of the nature of a dynamic. Cunt, whore, slut, whaetver He chooses really, it all means "His".

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