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RE: overweight slave - 8/26/2009 1:25:12 PM   
PlayfulWhenUsed


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ORIGINAL: bdspirit

I'm a bit of a fitness fanatic myself and as I get older...

My wife and I have developed an interesting dynamic combining chastity and fitness goals.  Since I'm often focused on achieving a specific goal (weight typically), she's been know to lock me in a chastity device with the express understanding that it does not come off until I've reached my goal (and held it 3 consecutive days).


I've been getting back into a good exercise routine lately and I've got to say I'm loving the sweep that this thread has taken.  Not long ago I was speculating about a BDSM gym with some friends.  Floggers with handle weights, a situp bench with built in footrest for the boot you're going to kiss, etc., etc.  The list goes on and on and on.

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RE: overweight slave - 8/26/2009 4:35:14 PM   
CougarStud


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ORIGINAL: porcelain

i think she has to be open to having that area of her life controlled. otherwise it can become an issue with the belief that the dominant is not accepting of her body. if her goal is improved health coupled with dietary change that leads to weight loss and she's willing to work in tandem with you to achieve this, it can be very effective and a positive experience for both parties involved.

i'd like to believe you'd need to be fairly comfortable to enter into this. i've had this done in the past all the way down to keeping a food journal. it makes you very mindful of every morsel you're taking in, especially when it's being documented.

porcelaine



I agree with this!  I would never impose this on someone or even bring it up because I think it could really hurt someone if they were not secure.  I have it in my profile so they can come to me if they seek this type of play.

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